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March 5, 2021 by Roaster Rick 6 Comments

5 Florida Paradises that Make Fun Weekend Getaways for Couples

5 Florida Paradises that Make Fun Weekend Getaways for Couples

Looking for ideas for fun weekend getaways for couples?

Then why not come visit Florida?

Florida is great for road trips. Our state is narrow enough and lined with enough coastal towns and just-off-the-coast islands that you could hit many spots on a short or extended weekend getaway.

If you don’t live close enough to drive your own car, then you can find plenty of last-minute cheap flights and then rent one.

Or you could bypass a road trip around the state altogether and just stick to one coastal town or, of course, just to my town, the epicenter of theme parks, Orlando. (But in this post I will only look at a few handpicked coastal beach towns).

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Florida Beach Paradises You May Not Have Thought About

The purpose of my post is to give you some ideas for romantic and fun weekend getaways for couples if you are not familiar with Florida. Or if you are, to perhaps give you some new ideas.

Many of the places in this post are on my wishlist, while a few I have visited more than once. There are just too many to get to. The average Floridian has hit a handful, but still has plenty more to explore.

This is not meant to serve as a comprehensive travel guide, RelationshipBrew.com is a relationship blog after all; therefore, I will start with a short list of beach town gems, hand-picked from different regions of the state. Then later continue to add new places to the list (for example, Key West, Tampa, Jacksonville, etc). 

Why Others Choose Florida for Fun Weekend Getaways for Couples?

Beautiful Florida Coastline
Beautiful Florida Coastline | Photo by Zachary Vessels from Pexels

There’s a reason Florida usually lands at the #1 spot of surveys for the most visited states in the US (here is a survey of 8,000 respondents on simplemost.com- see where your state finished).

Many people get tired of the bone-crushing cold and seek some liquid sunshine and breath-taking ocean and gulf views along our 8,436 miles of ocean and gulf coastline.

Ironically though, Florida is not for everyone. We will explore for whom it makes the most sense to choose our beach towns for fun weekend getaways for couples.

Yes, Florida is home to many beach town paradises.

But let’s find out what you can do here, so you can decide to come to visit Florida on a quick romantic weekend getaway.

PROs of Florida Weekend Getaways for Couples

  • World-renown beach towns located within a couple hours (or less), wherever you are
  • Cheap flights available from anywhere to major Florida cities
  • Scenic Road Coastal Road Trips
  • Short drives to major cities and beach towns
  • Big variety of lodging (by category: rental homes, condos, hotels), price range, and offerings (luxury or simple)
  • Top notch theme parks of all sizes and even prices
  • Plenty of water sports and activities: surfing, snorkeling, paddle boarding, fishing, kayaking, boating, sailing, jet skiing, and more!
  • Top golf courses in the world and golf instructors
  • White sandy beaches and blue-pool-like water or even emerald green water (not all beaches in Florida have turquoise water)
  • Freshly-caught seafood served at local restaurants
  • Waterfront restaurants and bars
  • Outdoor-covered-seating at restaurants
  • Fresh water springs and canals
  • Ecosystems and nature parks stocked with local wildlife roaming free (dolphins, manatees, alligators, eagles, sharks, storks, cranes, and many more)
  • Guided eco tours to view wildlife from a safe distance

Here is just part of the list, but I’m just trying to focus on what makes Florida stand out.

Please feel free to leave a comment to suggest some additions to the list.

The CONs of Florida Getaways for Couples

It’s hot most of the year– like you didn’t know that. But when it’s not hot, no place is better to be. November to March are the coolest months in Florida, but also the more south you travel the warmer it gets. Compare the two cities below:

Average Temperatures in Destin, Florida (Northwest Panhandle Coast)

Destin Florida average temperatures per usclimate.com
Destin Florida Average Temperatures per usclimate.com

Average Temperatures in Sarasota, Florida (Southwest Coast)

Average Temperatures in Sarasota, Florida per usclimate.com
Average Temperatures in Sarasota, Florida per usclimate.com

Did you notice the big difference?

In the winter months from November – March, it typically gets around 10° cooler in the northwestern coastal city of Destin than in the southwestern coastal city of Sarasota.

In other words, if you want to experience warmth and sunshine, then choose your month wisely. And the same thing goes for if you want to avoid sun blistering heat.

Different Cities to Visit, But Not That Different

Unlike some other popular tourist states, there is not quite as much entertainment diversity, *at least when looking at our beach towns.

Take, for example, California. If you’ve been there, then you’d know that Northern California (the entire San Francisco bay area and all the wine regions close by) is extremely different than Southern California (Los Angeles and San Diego). And even Los Angeles and San Diego are extremely different.

While each Florida coastal town displays its own vibe and identity, for the most part, the entertainment offerings are fairly similar, unlike the vast difference in California.

  • Long hot months April-November
  • No mountains (some hills in spots, but nothing noteworthy)
  • Fairly similar offerings between coastal towns
  • Rains a whole hell of a lot in summer, we're talking torrential downpours
  • Lack of public transportation, you will need a car or take a Lyft or Uber (statewide trains are coming soon though)

Let’s go look at a list of coastal towns that you might want to visit in Florida…

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Florida Beach Town Ideas to Consider for Fun Weekend Getaways for Couples

Sanibel and Captiva Island- Gulf Coast, Southwest Florida (Closest Major Airport- Ft Myers RSW)

Florida Fun Getaways for Couples at Bowman's Beach Park- Sanibel Island, Florida- Weekend Getaway Trips for Couples- Visit Sanibel Island and Captiva Island

Panaramic View of Bowman's Beach Park on Sanibel Island, FL.

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Living in Central Florida gives us pretty quick access to any part of the state.

Cities all around us and beaches up and down both coasts on either side of us.

During the pandemic year of 2020, I finally got back to Sanibel and Captiva Island, located on the southwestern Gulf coast side (located next to Ft Myers). I highly suggest you drive along the gulf coast because you will find some of the most scenic Florida road trips here, from Naples up to Clearwater.

They’re located next to each other and are accessible by car via the Sanibel Causeway (charges tolls to cross).

The two main attractions for us were the numerous serene blue-green shallow beaches and the sunset dolphin Captiva Cruise (South Seas Island Resort, Captiva Island). Our favorite beach was Bowman’s Beach, pictured above.

But, of course, we also came for the fresh seafood and key lime pies.

If you bring your dog, you will find many pet-friendly restaurants to bring them along, as well as the beaches.

Sanibel Island GPS Coordinates (26.4490° N, 82.0223° W)

Captiva Island GPS Coordinates (26.5276° N, 82.1948° W)

Sanibel and Captiva Island Highlights

You’ll find plenty of fun outdoor activities and breathtaking Gulf views plus plenty of seafood restaurants, local bars, and boutique shops.

Here are some of the activities you’ll find on Sanibel and Captiva Island.

  • Plenty of white sandy beaches with blue-green water (not all of them though)
  • Biking
  • Segway rentals
  • Fishing
  • Golf and tennis
  • Nature, wildlife cruises and eco-Tours
  • Watersports and rentals
  • Shelling
  • Museums, art galleries and antiques
  • Shopping
  • Local restaurants and bars (including outdoor and pet-friendly)

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Clearwater, FL- Gulf Coast, Central Florida

Fun Weekend Getaways for Couples (Closest Major Airport- Tampa TPA)

Florida Fun Getaways for Couples- Visit Clearwater Beach

View Towards Pier 60 at Clearwater Beach, FL

Most Floridians would say the best coast is the west coast.

Luckily for me, Clearwater sits only a 1 1/2 drive away from Orlando. And along with some great popular restaurants like Crabby’s Dockside and Frenchy’s Rockaway Grill, the beach close to Pier 60 are spacious, with clean, light greenish blue water. All up and down the beach you will find plenty of top-rate hotels if you’re staying on the beach for a quick getaway or just coming over from Orlando for the day.

When my girlfriend and I went this past summer we swung by Dunedin, just north, and imbibed a refreshing cocktail at the Hi-Fi Rooftop Bar, located at the cozy boutique Fenway Hotel.

Much like other Florida beach towns, you can enjoy many watersports activities, dolphin-spotting or fishing excursions, as well as visit some native Floridian sea friend up close and personal at the Clearwater Marine Aquarium.

Clearwater, Florida GPS Coordinates: (27.9659° N, 82.8001° W)

Sarasota, Florida GPS Coordinates: (27.3364° N, 82.5307° W)

Clearwater Beach, Florida Highlights

  • Plenty of seafood restaurants with local offerings on the menu
  • Watersports
  • Easy-to-rent beach umbrellas, beach chairs, and cabanas
  • Easy to find parking in nearby parking garages
  • Both upscale and laid-back bars
  • Top-rate beachfront hotels from top-rate hotel brands
  • Wildlife excursions
  • Clean, beautiful water (not brown and cloudy) with easy-going waves (not choppy)
  • Clearwater Marine Aquarium
  • Close to Tampa and St Pete for shopping, dining out, and attractions
  • Close to the stunning beaches of Honeymoon Island State Park and Caledisi Island State Park

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Sarasota, FL- Gulf Coast Florida

Fun Weekend Getaways for Couples (Closest Major Airport is Sarasota- SRQ)

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Stunning Florida Oasis- Sarasota

Bean Point Beach on Ana Maria Island Florida- Florida Paradises
Best Florida beach I've visited- Bean Point Beach on Ana Maria Island.
Street parking signs for Bean Point Beach on Ana Maria Island Florida
Street parking signs for Bean Point Beach, Ana Maria Island, Florida
Sand dunes at Bean Point Beach, Florida
Sand dunes at Bean Point Beach, Florida

I finally recently got to visit the beaches of Sarasota/Bradenton.

And I’d say that this was my best overall Florida beach experience to date.

Here’s what stood out to me and why you should visit the beaches on Longboat Key and Ana Maria Island.

  • Free parking
  • Easy beach access from parking. (Most beaches)
  • Clean, sanitary, and comfortable bathroom and shower facilities. (Most beaches)
  • Plentiful dining options. (Especially, at Lido Key Beach).
  • Transparent, greenish, blue water.
  • Powdery, white sand (especially Bean Point Beach on Ana Maria Island).

The best beach by far I visited was Bean Point Beach on Ana Maria Island. I’ve thought about this Florida paradise every day since I left. If you want a “time-stands-still” experience, go to Bean Point Beach.

(*Note: you will have to park on a nearby neighborhood street. Look for the street signs that permit legal street parking. Also, there are no restroom or shower facilities here).

Next time I go I will also make sure to visit Siesta Key, which I have heard from locals has many of the valued features in my above list.

And just like Clearwater Beach, Sarasota is close to a lot of action, not just to Orlando and our theme parks, but also to Tampa and St. Pete. And while we’re on the topic of theme parks, mega roller coaster park Busch Gardens Tampa is only about 60 miles.

A Florida Beach Must-See

Siesta Key Beach won the #1 spot in 2020 for Trip Advisor’s Traveler’s Choice Award for best beaches in the US and #11 in the world. Snorkeling at Point of Rocks, stunning sunsets, snorkeling, and Siesta Village’s shops, live music, local artists displays and seafood restaurants make Siesta Key Beach a hidden Florida gem.

If you’re considering hitting up theme parks, doing a city escape to Tampa and hitting up one of the most pristine beach areas of Florida you might consider planning a long romantic couples getaway trip to stunning Sarasota.

Not to mention, Venice, Florida will only take you about a 1/2 hour to drive south from Siesta Key, which is known as one of the US coastal towns with, you guessed it, more breathtaking sunsets and blueish-green water beaches.

Sarasota, Florida GPS Coordinates: (27.3364° N, 82.5307° W)

Sarasota, Florida Highlights

  • Siesta Key
  • Stand-up Paddleboarding
  • Mangrove Tunnel Kayaking 
  • The Ringling
  • Snorkeling at Point of Rocks
  • Longboat Key
  • Lido Key Beach
  • Marie Selby Botanical Gardens
  • Bean Point Beach, Ana Maria Island with a stunning view of the Sunshine Sky Bridge (connects St Pete to Bradenton)

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St Augustine, FL- Florida Atlantic Coast

Fun Weekend Getaways for Couples (Closest Major Airport Jacksonville- JAX)

st augustine florida couples getaway

Take in the colonial Spanish architecture and history of St Augustine

Here’s another popular spot I have to drive up to. St. Augustine lays less than an hour south of Jacksonville and about 1 1/2 northeast of Orlando on the Atlantic Coast.

This Florida gem lays claim to the oldest city in the US and is known for its historic colonial Spanish architectural sites such as the Castillo de San Marcos (pictured above) and Fort Matanzas National Monument. 

Take in other historical attractions like The Fountain of Youth Spring House to learn about Ponce de Leon’s quest to discover an actual fountain of youth and how he claimed Florida for Spain.

Besides history, you, of course, will encounter your share of pristine white sandy beaches. Check out Anastasia State Park and North Beach Park.

For golf fans, St Augustine is home to the World of Golf Hall of Fame (check out hours and ticket info)

If you’re a fan of cocktails then stop by the St Augustine Distillery for free tours and tastings of vodka and bourbon.

And just like our other Florida coastal towns, you will find plenty of local shops, restaurants, cocktail bars, and even some good breweries and taprooms.

In fact, take their popular beer, wine, cocktail, chocolate, food walking tours. (Get walking tour info here).

St Augustine, Florida GPS Coordinates: (29.9012° N, 81.3124° W)

St. Augustine, Florida Highlights

  • Colonial Spanish architecture and history (Castillo de San Marcos, Fort Matanzas National Monument, Fountain of Youth)
  • World of Golf Hall of Fame
  • Culinary walking tours
  • More white sandy beaches (Anastasia State Park and North Beach Park)
  • St Augustine Distillery tours and tastings
  • Camping at North Beach Park (RV, tent, cabin rentals)

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Destin, FL- Emerald Coast, Florida Panhandle

Fun Weekend Getaways for Couples (Closest Major Airports VPS- Fort Walton Beach or PNS- Pensacola)

Florida beach getaways for couples Destin Florida Henderson Beach State Park

Florida's "Emerald Coast" in the Panhandle

Few places on the Florida coast will take your breath away more than the “Emerald Coast” located in the northwest part of the state along the panhandle. And this is where you will find calm and pristine Destin.

Destin is quite the hike from me in Orlando (6 hours). New Orleans is closer at about 4.5 hours.

As far as beach towns go, few will offer a cozier couples getaway than the sugar-white sandy beaches with warm emerald green bathing water of Destin, Florida.

You’ll find plenty of public beaches, such as the popular Henderson Beach State Park  

Destin offers a variety of outdoor activities with scenic views. Take advantage of the fishing excursions, snorkeling, and scuba diving adventures, surfing, shelling, paddling, and biking along streets lined with shops and local restaurants.

For that local dining feel, make sure to check out Destin’s gulf-to-table seafood restaurants for the freshest caught fish, which helps support the small business owners of this gulf coast small-town gem.

Destin, Florida GPS Coordinates: (30.3935° N, 86.4958° W)

Destin, Florida Highlights

  • “World’s Luckiest Fishing Village”
  • Florida Circumnavigational Saltwater Paddling Trail
  • Shelling along the beaches
  • Snorkeling shelling tour
  • Scuba Diving and More Snorkeling
  • Gulf-to-Table Restaurants

Ready for a Couples Getaway to Desin?

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If white sandy beaches, water sports and water activities, as well as beachfront dining and plenty of natural-setting wildlife tours then make Florida your next romantic couples weekend getaway.

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February 23, 2021 by Roaster Rick 5 Comments

9 Secret Signals of His Secret Obsession that Trigger the Hero Instinct

9 Secret Signals of His Secret Obsession that Trigger the Hero Instinct

His Secret Obsession by relationship coach James Bauer, done right, with the right guy, will give you an advantage over winning your man’s heart- FOR GOOD! Bauer shares deliberate male mind hack techniques you can use that will win his affection and create a strong long-term bond with your guy.

Bauer refers to the primary focus and concept of His Secret Obsession as “the Hero Instinct” which I can attest as a man, is a phenomenon that has worked on me and any man I’ve ever known for as long as I can remember. It’s so simple and easy to do that it’s mindboggling. It makes it nearly impossible to resist a woman’s advances.

Done right, “the Hero Instinct”, along with all its supporting methods and concepts can help you turn your life with you into one of his most prized pursuits.

His Secret Obsession Works for Many Women, But NOT All

Now, please understand, the eBook is not designed for all women. It will not work like magic on every man. If he feels manipulated or forced then he will sense it a mile away.

It is most suitable for women in relationships who want a closer emotional bond with their man, but who fear it will not last long-term. And in this post, I will explain the PROs and CONs, who the lessons will work for and not work for, plus give you an inside glance at those techniques to decide for yourself if you would like your own copy and all the included bonuses.

Learning how to trigger our male inner desire to FEEL like a woman’s “hero”, coined “the Hero Instinct” by James Bauer in His Secret Obsession, will help any woman tap into his natural desire to please her and feel like the driving force behind her happiness. The poor guy is F—–!

(In a good way! Ha, ha)

-RelationshipBrew.com

Learn how to turn your man into a chaser because he feels what you want is best for him. Keep reading…

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Overview of “His Secret Obsession”


Title: “His Secret Obsession”

Author: James Bauer (dating and relationship coach for women)

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Brief Description of His Secret Obsession

Most in-depth male mind hack ebook I’ve read to date!

Expect to learn the feelings that drive men to desire your company– and not some other woman’s (the “hero instinct” forms the basis of this male drive).

James Bauer’s main message revolves around understanding how to become a part of his pursuit of happiness and purpose simultaneously while pursuing his own personal goals and dreams.  

Just like you, we need to feel like you have our best interests in mind, but that a life with you will make that life much more enjoyable, almost to the point that you are the one woman who can help us achieve our dreams together and celebrate those successes.

Again, “His Secret Obsession” is not perfect and I will reveal my PROs and CONs in this review.

At the end of this review you can decide on your own to purchase your own copy or not.

I’m only here to provide you information and offer my opinions- not to sell you.

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Who His Secret Obsession will Help

  • Primarily women dating or in a relationship
  • Women who truly care about their man’s happiness
  • Girlfriends who want a deep emotional connection with their man
  • For those who believe mutual vulnerability allows a couple to connect
  • Self-learning women who enjoy reading about relationships and the psychology of what makes them work
  • A person who will put the advice into practice
  • Confident, strong women who just need some insight on how to better understand and communicate with their man

Who Should PASS on His Secret Obsession

  • NOT for women looking for ways to manipulate men
  • NOT for women who believe all men are pigs and want to manipulate women
  • NOT suitable for someone who does not enjoy reading about psychology and the inner-workings of the dynamics of relationships
  • NOT for women who would benefit from professional counseling to help them raise their level of self-esteem
  • NOT for those who will only read and fear putting these concepts into practice
  • NOT most suitable for single women UNLESS you just want a headstart and plan on applying these techniques in the future
  • NOT the most suitable course for women in long-distance relationships (who met their man long-distance- different than you met locally and then one moved away). This would contradict the theory of propinquity (found in the Private Island Signal section starting on page 142)

PROs of His Secret Obsession

  • How to get a man excited to take action steps to earn your approval and adoration
  • Opens your mind on how to pursue mutual happiness, not just your own, thus earning your boyfriend’s trust
  • Discover how to make a man chase (in a healthy way)
  • Easy-to-read with practical action steps to apply in your relationship
  • Real-life examples from relationship coach and author James Bauer’s coaching clients
  • References to scientific psychological studies

CONS of His Secret Obsession

  • Very deep concepts, not suitable for someone who does not enjoy reading about psychology
  • The labels James gives his methods and concepts sound similar to each other
  • The content of the methods and concepts also sound very similar which can get confusing (but in the end you will understand the overall idea)
  • You WILL have to read the eBook (or at least sections) a few times to truly benefit from its lessons
  • By itself, His Secret Obsession, will NOT make a man fall in love with you, but it will give you the best chance of finding out if your man is marriage material

The 9 Secret Male Mind Hacks to Awaken the Hero Instinct in Your Boyfriend

I hope you understand that I do not have permission to simply copy-and-paste sections of Bauer’s eBook here, but I will do my best to explain and summarize his methods and concepts here.

The Glimpse Phrase (p 154)

These are questions or comments that help him visualize a future exciting and adventurous life with you. The genius behind them is they get him to fill in the blanks in his own mind with the details of how those fantasies look. In other words, your “glimpse phrases” get him to convince himself to glimpse into the future and to visualize a fascinating life with you.

*This section includes a story from one of the author’s clients, Laura, how she got John to glimpse into the future and decide on his own accord to propose to her by using “what if” questions. These glimpse phrases allowed John to fantasize about the exhilarating possibilities with her. Before she began applying James Bauer’s Glimpse Phrase technique their relationship had lacked the level of passion and romance that Laura longed-for.

The Fascination Trigger (p 41)

Here is the concept that if you can get him to naturally assimilate a life with you to achieve a deep driving purpose in his life- a feeling he needs to feel complete, then you will fascinate his imagination. He will focus more time and effort to please you in order to reap the reward of winning your approval.

Bauer ties in the theory of “propinquity”, which states the more often you naturally, without force or manipulation, spend time with or around him, the more he will voluntarily seek to spend even more time with you. You will see how this works with examples and a real-life story in his Private Island section on page 142)

Silent Action Signals (starts p 120)

This is where Bauer shares the concept of becoming vulnerable and expressing your needs and how he can help you fulfill those needs, thus bringing you joy.

It silently becomes “his obsession” for him to serve as a major reason behind you experiencing a happy relationship. On pages 124 and 125 he sheds light on a method and mindset you must adopt to make the sending of these silent signals occur regularly, which I fully endorse and often advise my female friends and subscribers in my newsletter from another blog I work on.

The “I Owe You Signal” (p 138)

Here is one of James Bauer’s genius methods to get a man to voluntarily follow your lead and take action to win your approval, all the while thinking that it was his effort and own ideas that saved the day.

The premise is that you get him to agree to something that he obviously already wants anyway, and then challenge him to go make it happen for the mutual benefit of you both. Upon doing so he feels like the hero in the relationship- an extremely effective male mind hack, yet necessary one for the health of the relationship.

The Damsel in Distress Signal (p 168)

Here is one of my favorite concepts from His Secret Obsession, and one that most women despise. This can and will become a breaking point if you fail to understand our natural drive to feel needed and useful in relationships. We want to help you solve some of your challenges and feel like you need our assistance in some way. In the end, we just want to feel relevant. This is the basis of wanting to feel like a protector or provider.

We men cannot resist the temptation to come running to your aid. Just upon hearing you say, “Thank you John for helping me”, or “I appreciate you helping me figure this out Chris,” we gush with pride and feel important and relevant to you.

We are fascinated with the feelings of acting as your hero, even if just for something small.

The Private Island Signal (p 142)

And here are examples of how to allow him to practice his pursuit of feeling like your hero.

Bauer also includes another real-life example from one of his clients Liz, and how he equipped her with the secret weapon of learning how to trigger his “Hero Instinct”, which kept him racing back to her.

The X-ray Question (p 149)

Here is where Bauer illustrates practical examples to use in your relationship to uncover what are the things that your man secretly wants more of in his life. This makes it easier for him to verbalize what he needs to feel complete and balanced in life. From here, you can help him achieve those goals and dreams, thus making you a integral part of his life in his own mind.

Again, the goal here is to become irresistible to him, to become “his secret obsession”. He wants a woman who will join him on his journey, NOT blockade it.

The Ex Back Signal (p 9)

Here is where you will find the 12-word text message that could get the ball rolling to interact with your ex again.

Hint: it pertains to triggering his “hero instinct” and works in any stage of a relationship.

The Secret Currency of Relationship Signal (p 161)

We men need to feel like we’re making incremental progress with you. We must see that you approve of our efforts to make you happy and to feel like an important part of your life. Likewise, you need to see us making the effort by rewarding us with bread crumbs.

These bread crumbs train your boyfriend to take action to make you happy and by doing so, he earns a token of your approval and affection.

Here in this section of His Secret Obsession you will find plenty of practical examples to apply in your relationship.

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You cannot force a man to fall in love and decide to commit his life to you.

With or without you, he has his own desires and plan.

Learn to become a part of that plan and how to fulfill his purpose to delight a woman and feel necessary to her happiness and well-being.

Show him that you have his best interests in mind and that you truly care about his personal and professional pursuits.

His Secret Obsession will serve as the key to unlock better communication to help him get what he wants in life, and that life involves you, a woman who truly gets him.

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February 5, 2021 by Roaster Rick 3 Comments

Date Idea Cards for Couples That’ll Enrich Your Love Life

Date Idea Cards for Couples That’ll Enrich Your Love Life

Want to make your date life easier? I’m about to share with you the date idea cards I created for you and your partner.

But first, let’s start with a brief story…

Sept 2020: Flying from Orlando to Omaha

Today could be one of the most memorable days of your life.

Such a day happened to me and my girlfriend in September 2020.

Spontaneity is one of my keys to fruitful date life.

Adventure awaits around the corner.

So, my girlfriend and I are waiting to board a flight to Omaha, Nebraska to visit her niece who had recently given birth to her first-born child.

Despite booking a flight that would get us to our final destination early so that we could spend sufficient time with family, our plans suddenly change.

The plane needs maintenance.

Our short layover in St Louis instantly increases to a 7-hour layover.

We’re bummed out.

Then…

A Childhood Dream Comes True

… after we land. It hits me.

We can do something I’ve wanted to do since childhood.

I’d always wanted to go up in the Gateway Arch and to see Busch Stadium where the St. Louis Baseball team plays.

So, instead of sitting at the airport for 7 hours we take a Lyft into the city, go up the Arch, take pics around the surrounding area, walk to the stadium, take pics all around, visit the team’s museum and have lunch at the sports bar across the street.

I don’t even know when I’ll get back to St. Louis, but we took advantage of a golden opportunity and turned a sour situation into a sweet one.

Plus, they gave us $200 vouchers each for future travel, which we are using for a coming up trip to Seattle.

One of the most memorable moments with your partner could happen today.

Even if at home.

I created these date idea cards to instantly supply you with options to turn your routine, predictable life on its head.

I’ve designed these fun date ideas for couples to give you a variety of options, some conservative, some sexy and romantic, some adventurous, several for home, others to get out of town.

Read about each set of date idea cards and then if you’re interested, visit my Etsy shop Heart Brew Creations to get more information and purchase them.

Or [click here] to grab your free downloads of 100+ Vacation Activities for Couples and 15 Home Date Ideas Cards for Couples (Printables)

Stay Home Date Ideas for Couples

You can’t always get out of the house. So, what can you do when you’re trapped at home?

Stay Home Date Ideas Cards

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The pandemic of 2020 changed the date lives of couples across the globe. 

Virtual dates with long-distance boyfriends/girlfriends who live across the country, or even in the same city became the “in” thing to do.

For me and my girl, we got real familiar with stay-at-home dates.

Drinking and dancing to Reggaeton YouTube videos, playing two-player board games, crafting homemade cocktails, preparing homemade gourmet meals with whatever was on hand, sitting out on the balcony with wine and cheese boards, and so on. 

We found a way to entertain ourselves.

From those experiences, past ones, and my own creativity, I created this set of stay home date ideas for couples to help those looking for creative date ideas for when they couldn’t get out.

For Valentine’s Day, I ordered a journal from Etsy.com for us to create memories together of our different adventures.

(And from that idea, I added this date idea card below to my stay home date idea card set.)

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Often you can spend time at home on a small budget and still have a great time, but how about when you don’t want to spend any money?

I tend to not pay enough attention to how much I spend on dates, but I noticed how fun we had even when spending nothing at all.

It got me thinking.

How many fun things could couples do at home or even out of the house for free.

That led me to create the next set of date idea cards for couples.

Free Date Ideas for Couples

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A world of opportunities to explore sit at your doorstep for you and your partner.

Just open your eyes and enjoy the beauty that sits all around.

You do NOT need to spend money to have fun.

And when I say, nothing I mean nothing, besides maybe transportation to somewhere in town.

Take the scenic route somewhere- discover new views.

One of my favorite free things to do is find a rooftop with a view of the city or top floor hotel.

Here in Orlando, I’ve found my way to the top of the Contemporary Resort in Walt Disney World and gotten memorable views of Magic Kingdom at night.

Get out and explore your town and the outskirts.

And grab my affordable free date idea cards on my Etsy shop below.

(Here’s a sample card from the set below. Grab your set today with the links down below).

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Sometimes you may spend a little money to enjoy your time with your sweetheart.

But it doesn’t have to be much.

Whether at home, out of the house, or even on a getaway trip.

I wanted to spread my money around so that I could keep having fun on several dates, not just blow it all on a few.

That’s why I created the next set of date idea cards for couples on my Etsy shop Heart Brew Creations.

Cheap Date Ideas for Couples

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Once again, the pandemic of 2020 stretched all of our imaginations to the limit to find new ways to have fun.

Once the restrictions to get out were lessoned here in Central Florida and most people got used to wearing masks, my girlfriend and I explored area neighborhoods and other parts of Florida too.

We took those ideas with us on our trips to visit family back in Ohio and to Nebraska.

One of our favorite things we discovered in 2020 was to visit botanical gardens which we did in Omaha, Cleveland, and here in Orlando.

And we did them all for only around $10 a person. Sometimes they even have special events, like the Leu Gardens Dinosaur Invasion here in Orlando’s 

(But here’s another fun cheap date idea for couples that you can do in your city. Check the card below. This card comes from my cheap date idea card set on my Etsy shop. *Grab your copy today.)

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Ever felt like you’re just not in the mood to get romantic or intimate with your partner?

It happens to us all, but what I’ve discovered is that sometimes we just need a little nudge, a warm-up.

That’s why I created these romantic and sexy date idea cards for couples.

Romantic & Sexy Date Ideas for Couples

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We love to travel, even if only a few hours away.

You don’t need to live in Florida by the ocean and theme parks to find a fun and romantic getaway trip.

I’ve inserted some cool simple getaway trip ideas into this card set.

But aside from traveling, you’d be surprised that when you put your creativity to work just how much romantic, and um, kinky fun you can have around the home.

(Check out my date idea cards below for some creative, out-of-the-box ways to rekindle the romance in your relationship.) 

Sexy Date Ideas for Couples

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Ready to get super kinky and romantic with your partner?

Yes?

I even created an adult card game download for sale on my Etsy shop.

*WARNING* This card game for couples contains some adult material not suitable for all ages nor for the sexually closed-minded.

Sexy and Romantic Card Game for Couples

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My girlfriend always talks about wanting to learn more about me, but in regular conversation, it can feel awkward to just share that kind of information.

So, I thought about what could I do to make it seem more natural to discuss romantic and sexy topics.

That’s when I came up with my romantic, but naughty Challenge, Choice, Confession Card game for couples.

Slightly like Truth or Dare but with a twist- a twisted twist at that sometimes, ha,ha.

(Click the links below to get more information on my downloadable and printable card game for couples. **Here’s a sample card from the set below.)

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What are you waiting for?

Grab your copies of ready-to-go, printable date idea cards for couples.

Stop sitting around wondering what you can do today or during your next date night.

For more date ideas for couples check out my posts:

50 Fun Date Ideas for Couples

50 Stay Home Date Ideas for Couples

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10 Ways to Touch Men to Dominate Us

10 Sexy Texts to Send Your Man to Make Him Want You Now

10 Flirty Goodnight Messages to Keep Your Man Up All Night Thinking About You

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January 23, 2021 by Roaster Rick Leave a Comment

10+ Valentine Candy Gifts to Send to the Ones You Love

10+ Valentine Candy Gifts to Send to the Ones You Love

If you’d like to stick to holiday tradition then these Valentine candy gifts can all be ordered right here online and delivered straight to your long-distance boyfriend or girlfriend’s door or to your mailbox so you can wrap it and take it to your loved ones in person.

Currently, this list includes gourmet handmade chocolates, chocolate-covered candies, and cookies, as well as other items.

Some of the items are designed specifically for Valentine’s Day, but all of them offer something unique and special.

Update: I will add some last-minute Valentine gift ideas here the closer I get to February 14th. You can also check my other blog posts for some last-minute Valentine’s Day gift ideas:

  • 10+ Last Minute Valentine’s Day Gift Ideas for Him
  • 20+ Last Minute Valentine’s Day Gift Ideas for Her
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Gourmet Chocolates

1. Assorted Red Velvet Truffles in Heart Box

Valentine Candy GIfts

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It doesn’t get more gourmet for the chocolate world than truffles.

And this assortment of crushed velvet red Valentine’s Day heart tin filled with an assortment of Red Velvet Cake smothered in rich dark, creamy white and smooth milk chocolates makes for the perfect combination of moist, sweet, and tangy!

No need to travel to several stores to search for this luxury treat, just click below, order and have it delivered straight to your long-distance boyfriend or girlfriend or right to your mail box so you can wrap it and take it to your loved one.

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2. Dark Chocolate Raspberry Cream Heart Bars

Valentine Candy Gifts for loved ones

Handcrafted Chocolates | by Russell Stover

Here is another great flavor combination- raspberry and chocolate.

And it’s that combination that makes these light-as-air raspberry cream and shell of rich chocolate the perfect Valentine candy gifts for your loved one is as fond of this grouping of flavors as I do.

Gift the entire box to your boyfriend or girlfriend, or give out these 1-oz individually packaged pieces of gourmet Russell Stover chocolates to 36 individuals.

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3. Sea Salt Caramel Heart Bars

Valentine Candy Gifts

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Sea salt and chocolate make for a great flavor combination.

This box of sea salt caramel chocolate hearts make for great Valentine candy gifts if you wish to gift several loved ones a small surprise gift, or the entire box to one very special person.

These high-quality Russell Stover buttery caramel hearts are drenched in a layer of rich dark chocolate with a dash of sea salt. 

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Nostalgic Candy

4. 1980s Retro Candy Gift Box

Valentine Candy Gifts

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As a kid in elementary school and spending my summer times as the neighborhood pool with snack bar, I consumed my share of fruity candy.

And if your loved one spent time in the ’80s or is just a fan of that era then they might appreciate these Valentine candy gifts made of  ’80s nostalgic candy.

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5. 1990s Retro Candy Gift Box

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 If you’re loved one spent a lot of time in the ’90s then send them back in time to reminisce.

Tart and gummy candy was also popular in this decade, which is my favorite kind.

And if you’re boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, or wife loves sweet and sour, fruit-flavored candy then this 1990’s themed Valentine candy gifts box makes for the ideal gift.

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6. Chocolate Covered Strawberries

Chocolate Covered Strawberries

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One of the most fun stay home date ideas I recommend on my blog post 50+ Fun Date Ideas for Couples is to make homemade chocolate-covered strawberries, especially if you own a fondue set or a double boiler.

But this may take too much work for some people.

That’s why I like this package of chocolate drizzled strawberries that contains:

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7. Dried Fruit Gift Basket Tray

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Dried fruits make great Valentine Candy Gifts for the healthy-minded recipient.

I’ve always loved dried apricots and apples since I was a kid because they pack a lot of flavor.

And as an adult I love dehydrating my own fruits in a my air fryer, but it can take anywhere from 4-12 hours to finish the process.

That’s why I like the idea of a simple click and purchase of this package of dried fruits (exotic mango slices, Mediterranean apricots, luscious California yellow peaches, mouth-watering pears, Washington apple wedges, and yummy California dates, tangy kiwi, plums and prunes) that comes in a gift tray that can turn into a foldable basket.

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8. Valentine Day Fortune Cookies

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Fortune cookies are fun because of the future-reading messages hidden inside and they’re light and tasty.

These fortune cookies make for unique Valentine Candy Gifts because they’re colored pink and red.

What I like most about these cookies are that they your loved ones receives an entire box to enjoy for awhile.

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9. Gourmet Popcorn Mini Cones

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You either are a fanatic of popcorn or not, I don’t think there’s much in-between.

I say that because I make popcorn nearly every day.

Normally, I prefer savory flavors, but caramel or maple-flavored popcorn is a good change of pace.

If you’re loved one likes popcorn as much as I do then they will love receiving this gift package of 4 cones of gourmet popcorn that comes in 4 flavors (Zebra- dark and white chocolate, Caramel, Cheddar Cheese and Kettle Corn).

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10. Biscotti Cookie Gift Basket

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I love the combination of cookies hand-dipped in chocolate. 

One of my favorite things to bake are biscotti cookies, and dipped in chocolate, actually.

But sprinkling 18 different kinds of toppings would be too much work.

That’s why I like this batch of 18 different biscotti chocolate-covered and garnished biscotti, because they’re beautifully decorated and arrive to your loved one fancy presentation box.

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Date Idea Cards for Couples (Printables)

Date Idea Cards for Couples Printables

Looking for NEW, FUN, and INTERACTIVE date ideas to explore with your man?

I created these downloadable date idea card for couples printables to make dating fun again and, in some cases, to even rekindle the romance for some couples. (They’re for sale on my Etsy Shop Heart Brew Creations)

Not all dates should just be dinner and a movie.

STOP acting like roommates and start participating in activities that promote you actually doing things together as a team.

This a super affordable gift that will last the year.

Learn more about fun date ideas on these blog posts of mine here on RelationshipBrew.com:

  • 50 Fun Date Ideas for Couples and New Daters
  • 25 Home Date Night Ideas for Couples to Feel in Love Again
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January 18, 2021 by Roaster Rick

The 1 Easy Idea You Can Use Today to Unlock His Undying Devotion

The 1 Easy Idea You Can Use Today to Unlock His Undying Devotion

You know that girlfriend of yours who has the perfect boyfriend?

The guy with the gorgeous floppy hair, quirky smile, and big heart devoted entirely to one person and one person only:

His girlfriend.

You’re so glad she found him, but honestly?

You are so insanely jealous. It’s hard to stop watching them. The way he’s so attentive to her needs. The way they seem to share thoughts without speaking. The way he wraps his arms around her so tightly it’s like they’re one body. Watching them makes you ache. Because the guy at your side doesn’t treat you like that.

It’s not that your guy isn’t wonderful. Of course he’s wonderful. It’s more…

How he treats you. He treats you like someone he’s gotten used to.

You know he doesn’t wake up in the morning pinching himself for being lucky enough to snag someone like you.

But you bet that’s what this other guy does. You can see it in his eyes.

The pleasure that radiates from his smile every time he looks at the woman he loves.

So you ask her—half-joking, half-hoping—if he has any brothers. She just laughs.

“Nah, that’s not what you need.” She leans towards you and glances around to make sure no one’s listening. “Want to hear a secret?”

You nod eagerly.

She whispers, “Our relationship was just like everyone else’s before. But then I found out about this crazy secret. It’s from this relationship coach named James Bauer. It’s, like, the key to unlocking men.”

You nod even more vigorously, but she’s stopped talking. You follow her gaze across the room. Her boyfriend is holding up a drink, asking her wordlessly if she wants one. She shakes her head, blows him a kiss, and turns back to you. “So, do you want to know what it is?”

“Yeah!” you say. “If it will help me and my guy read each other’s minds, like you two just did.”

“Okay, then listen closely…”

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Women across the world make one universal mistake with men.

It’s not their fault. They’re just following common wisdom. Common wisdom says that men only fall for exceptional women. (Exceptional bodies, mainly.)

If you see a woman with a man trailing behind her like a puppy dog, common wisdom says you can be sure she has something you don’t.

It’s such an obvious explanation and yet…

It’s dead wrong.

That woman?

She’s no more exceptional than you. (Whatever THAT means.)

But what she does have is a very special understanding of men.

She understands that what matters most is NOT what he sees when he looks at her…

But how he sees himself reflected in her eyes.

The truth is this:

Men fall for women because of how those women make them feel.

When a man feels like a hero in a woman’s eyes, he swears his undying loyalty to her.

He can’t help it.

Most women don’t have that effect on him.

When he’s around most women, he feels like a dumb guy. Like he’s always doing something wrong. Like he needs a nanny to look after him.

He can count on one hand the number of women who look up to him. Who really, really respect him.

And he’s always going to have a place in his life for those women.

So, how do you make a man feel like a hero?

It sounds kind of silly.

Do you have to engineer some kind of scenario where he has to save kids from a burning house or a little old lady from getting hit by a car?

No. It’s a lot simpler than that.

To make your man feel like a hero, there’s one easy thing you can do starting right now:

You can thank him warmly for every single thing he does for you.

Did he offer to get you a drink?

Thank him.

Did he clear the dishes off the table?

Thank him.

Did he drive you to a meeting?

Thank him.

He’s a hero to you every day, even though you may not see it like that.

Has your man “rescued you”—metaphorically speaking—any time in the last week?

Maybe he dropped everything to help you. Maybe he was there when you needed a sounding board. Maybe his advice helped you make a difficult decision.

We tend to take those things for granted. We expect it. It numbs us to the actual miracle of having someone to rely on.

But the more you appreciate him…

The more he appreciates YOU.

Now, that’s not how most people think.

Most women think they can earn a man’s appreciation by doing lots of things for him.

They’ve got it backward.

The best way to earn a man’s appreciation is to appreciate everything he does for you, no matter how little.

It triggers his “Hero Instinct.”

(You can learn more about the Hero Instinct in James’ video here.)

For now, just know that the key to unlocking his undying devotion is NOT in everything you do for him…

But in how you respond to everything he does for you.

Did he just wrap his arms around you?

Give a little wiggle of contentment.

Did he agree to watch the program you wanted to see on TV?

Give him an appreciative kiss.

Reward the little things he does, and you’ll find your man striving more and more to please you.

He’s your hero.

And that’s what heroes do.

But that’s just the beginning.

There’s so much more you can do to trigger his hero instinct.

There are phrases you can say, texts you can send, and little requests you can use to trigger his hero instinct 100 times more powerfully than just saying thanks.

And because no man can resist a woman who makes him feel like a hero, it’s worth learning a few of these emotional trigger points.

Want to take your relationship skills to the next level with men? Then learn more about how you can master this powerful technique (from the man who invented it) watch this short video.

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