Romantic Texts vs Dirty Texts to Flirt and Dominate Men

Cute and romantic texts or seductive and dirty ones? Not sure which route to take? Fear it could get out of control and go the wrong direction?

I’m here to help.

I created this blog post to show you how to take a fill-in-the-blank texts message script (a template) and turn them into romantic texts or seductive texts

(I even give movie-style ratings for the dirty texts: R-rated up to XXX).

I’m a guy who runs a few relationship blogs and a newsletter with thousands of female subscribers.

My goal is always to help my female viewers and subscribers to connect with relationship-seeking men on a deeper level.

Every relationship situation is different and your flirting preferences may differ from other women.

But one thing is for sure, all of us men like to have fun and flirt via text.

You just have to choose which direction to take it.

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To Text or to Sext? That is the Question

Do you feel comfortable spicing things up and getting seductive?

Some of you don’t feel comfortable sexting.

Therefore, I want to give you options.

You cannot send the same message in every situation.

So, keep in mind how well you know the guy and how respectful he treats you.

What kinds of compliments does he give you?

Does he seem bring up sex often?

Is it too early for you to talk about sex?

Choose your own path.

But here is how you can take texts and make them either romantic texts or dirty texts.

Need suggestions? Let me help you brew up your own romantic texts or erotic texts. Email me.

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Romantic Texts vs Dirty Texts: Sweet and Cute or Spicy and Seductive?

(Fill-in-the-blank text scripts to create your own)

Directions: Check out the descriptions of each text script. Then look at my romantic texts and dirty texts examples first. Copy-and-paste to send as is or swap out the text in parentheses with your own based on your preference. Plus, feel free to change up my word choice to suit your needs.

1. If we were (______) what would happen next?

Give him the nudge to tell the rest of the story. Some guys won’t need a nudge, others will.

Romantic Texts Examples

If we were (outside, it was cold and we had no coats, just each other,) what would happen next?
If we were (bored with nothing else to do but stare into each other’s eyes) what would happen next?
If we were (seated at a fancy dimly lit bar, and your hand slipped on top of mine,) what would happen next?

*Single? Dating? Looking for more tips how to create romantic chemistry via texts? Check out one of my favorite flirty text guides Text Chemistry by dating coach Amy North.

*In a relationship? Feel like the loving feelings and romance have gone? I highly recommend mastering the fundamental techniques to bond with your partner taught in relationship coach Michael Fiore’s Text the Romance Back. Click here to watch the informational video on Text the Romance Back.

Dirty Texts Examples

(PG-rated) If we were (all alone in a parked car while it stormed outside) what would happen next?
(R-rated) If we were (stuck in traffic and my hand rested on your thigh) what would happen next?
(R-rated) If we were (scantily dressed while cooking together) what would happen next?

*Want more tips how to master the art of talking dirty to a man while keeping your dignity while releasing your inner sexual beast, including copy-and-paste text examples?

Check out one of my favorite seduction guides designed for women Language of Desire by dating coach Felicity Keith, who practices what she preaches.

[Take Poll] Choose One Answer

2. If we (_____) would you rather (x) or (y)?

See what he’s thinking by giving him options.

Romantic Texts Examples

If we (were on a walk,) would you rather (we hold hands) or (should I pretend I don’t know you and walk fast)?

[Here you tease him a little to playfully make it like you don’t want to associate with him. Make him work to earn your affection and approval.]

If we (were watching Netflix on the couch) would you rather (whisper sweet things in my ear) or (get shy and just watch the movie?)
If we (got a drink at a rooftop bar with a scenic view) would you rather (get lost in my eyes) or (in my lips?)

Dirty Text Examples

(R-rated) If we (sat on the couch,) would you rather (get close and persona) l or (get shy and just watch the movie?)
(R-rated) If we (stood close together at a party,) would you rather (move closer) or (go somewhere more private?)
(R-rated) If we (were trapped inside a cabin in the middle of the woods while it snowed) would you rather (just sit by the fire and warm up) or (do something a little more “creative”?)
(R-rated) If we (waded through the water of a tropical beach with no one around) would you rather (stay clothed) or (not?)

3. If I told you a secret about (_____), would you (x) or (y)?

The power word “secret” triggers his need to unlock it, especially when he knows when you’re flirting with him.

Romantic Text Examples

If I told you a secret about (what I thought of your handsome face,) would you (get excited and do something about it) or (just get scared)?
If I told you a secret about (something hot, I noticed about you on our first date,) would you (blush) or (get excited)?
If I told you a secret yummy thought that I had about (my favorite photo of yours,) would you (get shy) or (ask for more)?

*In a relationship? Feel disconnected from your partner? Learn how to bring your partner closer with the texting strategies taught in relationship coach Michael Fiore’s Text the Romance Back. Click here to watch the informational video on Text the Romance Back.

Dirty Text Examples

I added the word “dirty” to all of them.

(R-rated) If I told you a dirty secret about (my favorite panties,) would you (blush and get shy) or (get excited)?
(R-rated) If I told you a dirty secret about (my body,) would you (want to know it) or (rather I just keep it to myself)?

[You can turn this X-rated by swapping out “body” for specific body parts].

(X-rated) If I told you a dirty secret thought I had about (a certain part of your body) would (your heart burst with excitement) or (would you keep calm and collect ha, ha, ha)?

[Take Poll] Choose One Response

4. If a cute girl (_____), what would you do next?

This seems counter-intuitive, but you are teasing him here while referring to yourself in third-person. It’s just another way to act playfully and cute.

Romantic Text Examples

If a cute girl (moved closer to you while on a first date,) what would you do next handsome?
If a cute girl (looked right in your eyes for a few seconds then smiled,) what would you do next?
If a cute girl (with sweet perfume fixed your collar, smiled and winked while she did,) what would you do next?
If a cute girl (told you how handsome you were,) what would you do next?
If a cute girl (sat next to you at a bar with all the other seats empty, then said hello,) what would you do next?

*In a relationship? Feel like roommates instead of a couple? I highly recommend mastering the fundamental techniques to feel in love again taught in relationship coach Michael Fiore’s Text the Romance Back. Click here to watch the informational video on Text the Romance Back.

Dirty Text Examples

(R-rated) If a cute girl (were undressing with the bathroom door cracked open) what would you do next?
(X-rated) If a cute girl (were touching herself on the couch while watching a movie) what would you next?
(XXX-rated) If a cute girl (rubbed your inner thigh while watching TV) what would happen next?

5. You don’t mind (x) when (y), do you?

Here’s a push and pull technique. You give him what he wants while teasing him to take it away. In this case, you tease him to say in so many words, “No, of course I don’t mind, in fact, I want more.”

Romantic Text Examples

You don’t mind (me staring at your beautiful eyes when you drive,) do you?
You don’t mind (when I move in closer to you,) do you?
You don’t mind (when a cute girl tells you how handsome you are,) do you?
You don’t mind (if I get up close like this and smile,) do you?
You don’t mind (if a cute girl puts her hand here on your back,) do you?

Dirty Text Examples

(R-rated) You don’t mind (if a cute girl puts her hand, um, on your thigh), do you?
(X-rated) You don’t mind (me touching myself while we chat), do you?
(XXX-rated) You don’t mind me (thinking about imagining massaging your cock while we text,) do you?