10 Flirty Moves for Introverted Women to Make His Heart Skip a Beat

Share This

There’s something mysterious about quiet women that makes them downright irresistible. These flirty moves for introverted women give them an unfair advantage over our meager male hearts.

And let’s be clear when I say introverted I don’t mean deathly fearful to talk to and meet men, I just mean not shamefully outgoing and forward.

It Just Takes One Move to Render Him Helpless

No need to try anything fancy. Just show him that you approve of him and that you give him the “green light” to advance and make the next meaningful move.

The average person will not approach other people unless they feel the other person wants to meet them.

As men, we enjoy the excitement of trying to dominate women’s hearts, some of us call it “hunting”. But we still want to limit the risk of rejection.

No man enjoys outright rejection.

These simple flirty moves for introverted women limit the risk for him while still letting him feel the excitement of “making a move on you”.

I’m not asking you to ask for his phone number or ask to meet up with him, rather just give him the “right to advance”.

Here’s how to do it…

Simple Flirty Moves for Introverted Women that Grant Him the Right to Advance

1. Eye Contact

I’m not asking for much here. Just hold eye contact for 2 to 3 seconds. Let him know you mean to look and that you enjoy the view. He should know that you did it on purpose.

Sometimes making eye contact is accidental.

But when the same woman catches our glance on multiple occasions or holds it steady rather than looking away, we know this means more than a coincidence.

And that’s all the nudge we need to make a move.

If he doesn’t make eye contact first, would you have the courage to do it?

2. Smile

Now that you got his attention smile. Nothing gaudy. Just a quick smile to say hello.

The key here is to both 1) make eye contact and 2) smile at the same time.

This gets me (and every other guy) every time.

That’s really all it takes.

The entire list here of flirty moves for introverted women is simple- nothing fancy, just easy ways to get a man’s attention if you need to.

3. Say Hello

Of course, if you can muster up the courage, actually say, “Hello.”

Do so softly.

And do it while smiling- again, nothing big, just a small smile.

This is so adorable.

He will know it took courage- that makes it all the more irresistible.

4. Introduce Yourself

When you come across a guy you’ve never met, or you know of him but you’ve never spoken consider just starting with a subtle introduction.

That might be all you need to win him over and open things up for him to want to know more about you.

Just simply state your name and state that it’s nice to meet him.

He will follow suit and introduce himself.

5. Compliment Him

Subtly draw attention to yourself by complimenting something about him.

He’ll have no choice but to find you attractive for it.

Not sure what to compliment?

Try any of these:

  • Something he’s wearing
  • Something he’s carrying.
  • A sticker, pin, patch on his coat, bag, or laptop
  • The way he does something
  • His laugh
  • And you can gather up enough courage and really want to make his heart thump, his smile or eyes.

What do you say?

Just simply say either “I like (fill in the blank)” or “Nice (fill in the blank).”

He knows you’re normally more on the quiet side which makes you that much more attractive when you show a bit of courage to break out of your shell.

6. Address Him By Name

Nothing sounds sweeter when a girl calls us by name, except calling us handsome of course.

Whenever a girl says my name, especially when I see her more on the shy side, my heart pounds.

I think, “What about me made her open up?”

It makes me feel special, and thus, I have no choice but to find her attractive for it.

7. Wave

There’s something irresistible about an introverted girl waving to say “hello”. It’s just so cute.

It shows that you’re approachable.

If you want a man to make a move then he must feel like you want him to approach.

8. Straighten His Collar

Pretend to be doing something nice for him, just straighten up his collar. Pretend to straighten it. He won’t know the difference.

Or pretend to remove a piece of lint from his shirt.

Having you close will make his blood pump faster.

9. Laugh at His Jokes

Most of us men cannot resist finding a girl attractive when she laughs at our jokes, as long as she doesn’t do it in an obnoxious and annoying way.

Just like you, we want to feel appreciated and liked.

And when you laugh at his jokes it makes him feel accepted and that he can entertain you.

All of those feelings serve as nudges to give him the confidence to proceed and make the next move.

Remember leave the door open, let him pass through.

10. Touch His Arm

Any time you can get up close within his personal space and while showing no fear, like you enjoy being next to him, his heart will pause.

But when you touch him, even when innocently just touching his arm for a second or lower back, you place a goddess-like spell over him.

The flirty moves for introverted women in this blog post serve as your sign of approval.

You are saying I like you. I approve of you, but now it’s your turn.

Almost like you’re playing a game of tag.

Now he chases.

Have You Tried Any of These Flirty Moves for Introverted Women Before?

GRAB Your FREE Downloads

[Checklist] Things for Couples to Do on Vacation

[Printable Cards] Home Date Ideas

Roaster Rick

Recent Posts

20 New Orleans Bucket List Things to Do for Couples

Ready to add these New Orleans bucket list items to this year's travel plans? For the record, I never thought…

11 months ago

10 Famous Behind-the-Scenes Tours in the US

Time to tick off some famous behind-the-scenes tours off your couples' travel bucket list? I finally visited Alcatraz in San…

11 months ago

10 Famous Underground Caves in the World for Adventurous Couples

Got famous underground caves on your bucket list for couples' travel ideas? If you're an adventurous type of couple then…

11 months ago

10 Top Destinations for Shark Encounters in the World

Ready to travel to one of the best bucket-list, world-famous destinations for shark encounters? Are you the adventurous type of…

11 months ago

10 Romantic Spa Resorts in the US for Romantic Getaways

Is it time to book a reservation at one of the top romantic spa resorts in the US for you…

11 months ago

10 Healthy Drinks to Lose Weight When You Don’t Exercise

One easy way to gain weight is not paying attention to what we drink, but these healthy drinks to lose…

11 months ago