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50 Stay Home Date Night Ideas for Couples to Feel in Love Again

50 Stay Home Date Night Ideas for Couples to Feel in Love Again
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Stay at home date night ideas can create a connection with your partner better than going out.

Spending time at home blocks out distractions that take place around you when out on the town.

But more importantly, they can get you to interact in activities and engage, rather than just mindlessly watching a movie, scrolling through your phones, or forcing awkward conversations just for the sake of having conversations.

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50 Creative, Fun Stay Home Date Night Ideas for Couples

1. Homemade Pizza Together

Who doesn’t love pizza?

Easy to make and you can choose whatever toppings you want.

==>Check out this recipe and video.

2. Wine Tasting and Cheese and Meat Board

Time to get a little fancy. 

But guess what?

It doesn’t need to get that expensive.

You can get inexpensive yet still good bottles of wine at your local supermarkets or convenience stores like Walgreens.

I love using my charcuterie board for meats, cheeses, crackers, and dried fruits.

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3. Learn a Magic Trick 

Try out this interactive activity together.

How cool would it be to impress your friends and family with a trick you both learned?

==>Choose between these 20 magic tricks on this YouTube video.

4. Homemade Loaded Fries

Another easy recipe to make together while letting your imagination run wild on the kinds of toppings you wish to slap on top.

And guess what?

You can prepare healthy French Fries with an air fryer.

Ever since I got one recently I can’t imagine what it was like to live without it.

One of my favorite things to make is loaded tater tots.

==>Here is the air fryer I got on Amazon.

It doesn’t have a fryer basket, but it comes with 4 racks which is plenty of space for making homemade fries.

It’s also a little more expensive than other air fryers but I’ve used it every day almost as much as my microwave.

5. Craft Cocktails with Starter Bartender Kit

Here’s my favorite hobby and I love crafting homemade cocktails for my gf.

You don’t need a cocktail shaker to make homemade cocktails, instead, you can just use an iced coffee mug with a lid, but it just feels more legitimate to do it with a cocktail shaker.

==>I use a French cocktail shaker like this one on Amazon.

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6. Indoor Fort and Make Out

Who said you have to go out or spend money?

Feel like kids again and make a fort out of sheets.

7. Indoor Putter Golf

You can try this with or without golf clubs.

Instead, just roll a ball. 

And instead of a hole just use an object to hit the ball against like a can or cup.

8. Retro Video Games

Simple and fun to compete.

Try your hand at classic retro video games like Pac Man, Donkey Kong, Space Invaders, or Frogger.

9. Virtual Class- Learn a New Skill Together

Here’s one of those free fun home date night ideas that feel very satisfying.

Brainstorm a list together.

Try cooking a specific type of cuisine, how to make sushi, paint, draw, edit wedding or special event videos, try out homemade cocktail recipes, or try out couples massage.

10. Funny Karaoke 

Sing silly songs together.

==>Check out karaoke 80s songs with the lyrics on YouTube.

11. Solve a Rubik’s Cube

How cool would it be to learn how to solve a Rubik’s Cube?

==>Learn how together with this YouTube video.

12. Taco Tuesday (or Any Night)

Make homemade tacos with whatever ingredients your hearts desire.

==>Check out this list of 50 taco recipes.

13. Chocolate-Covered Apples or Strawberries

Ever made homemade chocolate covered apples or strawberries?

It’s easy.

Then place whatever toppings you want on them.

It’ll be much easier to do with a double boiler.

==>Check out this one on Amazon that’s similar to mine.

14. Learn to Juggle

No, it’s not as hard as you think.

I learned it by watching a video and so can you two.

==>Check out how to juggle for beginners from this professional juggler in this YouTube video.

15. Improv Comedy

One of the most interactive fun home date night ideas you’ll find because it requires both of you.

Just prepare yourself for some real zany comments.

==>Check out Ellen Degeneres and Steve Carroll do comedy improv together in this YouTube video.

16. Act Out Famous Movie Skits

You said you always wanted to act in movies.

Now’s your chance to practice.

Act out popular skits from movies.

==>Check out this long list of famous movie scenes from 1896 and on.

17. Fake and Funny Newscast

Here’s another one of those zany and fun home date night ideas for couples.

It will require you to come up with the newscast first before performing it.

One of the best ways to feel together is to make each other laugh.

18. Build House of Cards

Yes, it can get stressful, especially after you’ve added several levels of cards.

But it forces you to work together as a team.

And what better way to feel together than to work as a team?

==>Check out how to build a house of cards from this master in this video.

19. Break Crazy Unknown World Record

You’d be surprised how many crazy world records exist.

Here’s a list.

Choose one together and then begin to strategize how you will achieve the feat together.

You can do it just for fun or let the world know about your accomplishment with a video.

==>Check out the most romantic world records you could break together.

20. Learn Origami

Ever made a leaping frog or lion out of colored paper?

Check out how in these videos.

==>How to make a paper frog (that jumps).

==>Make a paper standing dinosaur.

==>How to make a simple origami heart.

Then check out this colorful paper designed for origami here on Amazon.

21. Internet Scavenger Hunt

Make a list for each other.

Decide to do it just for fun or compete with a timer to complete as much of your scavenger hunt as you can.

Look for odd places around the world, historical facts, strange animals, abandoned cities, etc.

Write in question form so that your partner must complete each item with an answer.

==>Check out this list of virtual scavenger hunt ideas for couples.

22. Rent Inflatable Playground

Some fun home date night ideas involve playing with kids.

Got nieces or nephews?

Rent inflatable playgrounds for a weekend afternoon and have a blast together with your little friends.

23. Virtual Cooking Class

My girlfriend and I took an in-person cooking class in New Orleans and it ended up being one of the most satisfying experiences for us as a couple.

Currently, with the pandemic, virtual classes are the only way to go.

This is more than just watching a YouTube video.

Here you will sign up for a class led by an instructor.

Choose some interesting cuisine to prepare together.

==>Check out these online cooking classes.

24. Full-body Massages with Essential Oils and Scented Candles

After a hard day’s work, a full body massage with essential oils and candles is just what you both need.

Add in some relaxing nature sounds from this app. (I use it every day to go to sleep to thunderstorm sounds).

Then check out some of these essential oils and scented candles on Amazon, plus this massage book.

25. Jigsaw Puzzle

At first, I thought that my girlfriend and I would find this boring, but we discovered that this was one of those fun home date night ideas that build great teamwork.

You both work together to strategize the best ways to face the challenge of finding the pieces that fit together.

Check out this challenging yet fun 500-piece jigsaw puzzle and this 1000-piece- jigsaw puzzle that couples could put together.

Then look at these jigsaw glue sheets to keep your puzzle together as a wall decoration.

And here’s a video on strategies on how to put puzzles together more easily.

26. Virtual Roller Coasters

“Go on” some of the best roller coasters on the planet virtually. Then plan a future trip to one of the amusement parks.

27. Funny Fake Newscast Idea 2.0

This time create a funny face-to-face newscast around each other’s funniest moments. Each of you make a list ahead of time before conducting the newscast.

28. Find Four-Leaf Clovers

You’d be surprised how relatively easy it is to find them. Find them in your yard or in a nearby field. I used to find them relatively often when I was a kid. I’ve even found several 5-leaf clovers and seven-leaf clovers.

==>Watch this video how to find 4-leaf clovers.

29. Indoor Camping and Ghost Stories

Pitch a tent or sleep in a fort made of sheets. Find some ghost or scary stories online and tell them to each other with the lights out.

30. Play a Sexy Board or Card Game

Finding new board games or card games for two players make for great interactive fun stay at home date nights- especially kinky games that help bring sparks to your relationship.

==>Check out this sexy card game.

31. Glow-in-the-Dark Bedroom Ceiling

Stick glow-in-the-dark stars on your bedroom ceiling. Turn out the lights make out or make love.

==>Check out these glow-in-the-dark stars.

32. Hire a Chef for Your Anniversary

Have a personalized, professionally-made meal and candlelit-dinner.

33. Herbal Garden on Deck or Balcony

Start an herb garden to use for home cooking and cocktail garnishes (basil, mint, rosemary, thyme, etc.)

34. Homemade Gift Basket/Box Exchange Night

Create gift baskets or gift boxes of your partner’s favor items.

35. Challenge Each Other to a Dance Off

Play music from your favorite apps or play music videos from YouTube. Set up some competition rules to determine a winner, but keep it fun, not too competitive.

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36. Memorable Moment Calendar

Create a calendar with the dates something special happened. Insert the details of the memory, plus day, date, and year.

37. Favorite Recipes Book

Create a recipe book of your favorite dishes, desserts, cocktails, etc. (Digital or paper format). Keep it handy for when you want to prepare them together or for each other- especially at special occasions.

38. Memorable Moments Video

Make a video together reliving memories you experienced together. Re-watch it a year, 3, or 5 years later.

39. Gag Gift Exchange Night

Another one of the funny stay home date night ideas on this list. Exchange gag gifts (or novelty gifts). Consider creating a scavenger hunt with map to find them hidden around the home.

40. Toy Foam Bullet Gun Fight (or Target Competition)

Buy toy guns online and create a target practice competition or duke it out in a toy gun fight. For the competition, use random non-breakable items around the house for targets (plastic cups, toys, hats, lamp shades, boxes, etc.).

==>Check out this toy gun blaster.

41. Cook Off/Bake Off Challenge

Challenge each other to a cook-off/ bake-off only using the ingredients you have lying around at home.

42. Guessing Game

Blindfold each other. Hand your partner random items. Allow them to ask questions for clues. Determine the limit on guesses.

43. Kinky Fantasies

Let’s face it. You both have some sexual fantasies you’d love to live out. Bring these sexy, creative, outlandish fantasies to life. Go all-in, dress up to live them out (examples: nurse-patient, teacher’s pet, pilot-flight attendant, devil-angel).

44. Romantic Meeting Fantasies

Make up cute, romantic meeting-as-strangers scenarios (examples: meeting for the first time at a bar, park bench, or on a plane).

45. Date Idea Box/Jar

Create a decorative date night ideas box or jar. Drop date idea cards in it. Pull out a card whenever you run out of date ideas or just want to look for new stay home date ideas.

==>Here are digital and printable date idea cards.

46. First-Date Picture Book

Create a picture book of drawings telling the story of your first date.

47. Home Treasure Hunt

Create a scavenger hunt with a treasure map for each other to find prizes around the house.

48. Time Capsule

Create a time capsule together to open in 3, 5, or 10 years.

49. Christmas in July

Christmas in July (or any middle-of-the-year month). Watch Christmas movie, make Christmas cookies.

50. First-Date Keepsake Frame

Create a keepsake memory frame of your first date.

==>Watch this video of how to make a keepsake memory frame.

Summary

Staying at home can be relaxing and even fun, but above all bring couples together by finding activities that make you interact and engage.

These activities limit or even eliminate distractions.

Some of my most memorable home date night ideas I’ve experienced were either cheap or completely free.

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50+ Fun Date Ideas for Couples and New Daters

50+ Fun Date Ideas for Couples and New Daters
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Bored of dinner dates? Time to revive your dating life with these fun date ideas for couples (and even new daters).

Ok, so I will confess.

I love going out for dinner and drinks. But then my girlfriend and I just end up staring at our phones.

I mean, what’s the point of going out then? Shouldn’t couples engage and interact? Isn’t the point of going out to feel closer to one another and partake in activities together?

When I started looking for new date ideas that involved less talking and more adventure or activities that involved us actually doing something together it changed our relationship.

It galvanized our friendship and elevated us from “people who happen to be dating” to a couple. Fun date ideas add that spice to your dating life.

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Find adventure. Do something spontaneous. Take the scenic route.

Interact.

Do something you’d never normally do.

Then even just the simplest couples date night ideas become memorable and draw you closer.

Check out my blog post 50 Stay at Home Date Night Ideas for Couples to Feel in Love Again.

And check out all the different date idea box card PDFs I created.

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Fun Date Ideas for Couples to Bring Back the Romance

and for New Daters to Feel Connected Faster

Find the most fun date ideas for couples (or new daters) by category to spark romance in your love life.

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Romantic Date Night Ideas for Couples

Some of my most memorable fun date ideas involve some kind of romantic twist or planned event.

Kiss at top of an observation deck or on the top floor of a tall building

Time stands still at the top of tall buildings.

Professional couples massage or hot stone treatment (check Groupon)

Rent a cabin and escape hectic daily life

Check out vrbo.com to find out where couples can rent cabins close to where you live.

Something about nature feels so serene and sets the stage for the ultimate escape from reality.

Watch a cosmic event

Meteor showers, lunar eclipses, view planets, full moons, etc. Check this cosmic event schedule.

Winery or Vineyard Tour (with wine tasting)

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Home Date Night Ideas for Couples

…who wish to find new bonding activities to do together

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Some of the most fun date ideas for couples happen without even leaving the house.

If you can have fun here then you can have fun anywhere and you’re on the fast route to rekindle the romance in your relationship. Your love life will thrive for a long time.

Create an indoor fort and make out and make love

Feel like teenagers again, pretend your sneaking out of the house to avoid your parents’ disapproval.

Play retro video games

Donkey Kong, Ms. Packman, or Frogger? Which is your favorite retro video game?

Learn to make sushi

Consider taking a class to learn, even if a virtual one.

Homemade cheese and charcuterie board with wine

Already touched on this one before, but this time make this be the focus of the night. Create an elaborate collection of cheeses, meats, baguettes, almonds, jams, mustards, dried fruits, crackers, etc.

We’ve done this several times together.

Make cocktails with a starter home bar kit

Literally, my favorite thing to do. My gf loves it when I make her drinks from my home bar. Check out these home bar starter ideas.

Or launch an Instagram hobby page

Share your crazy adventures to theme parks, burger spots, breweries, wall crawls, and more. Another great teamwork activity that keeps on keeping on.

Take a virtual class to learn a new skill

Take all kinds of cheap classes together on Udemy.com

Start mini herb and vegetable garden on the patio

Then create cocktail garnishes, of course. I have a basil plant and two mint plants on my balcony and made some great strawberry basil mojitos with them.

Create Own Wine Tasting (pair with cheese board)

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Free Date Ideas for Couples

Not all fun date ideas require spending money. Some of my favorite couples bonding activities came from simple free ideas.

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Offer to dogsit and walk a friend’s dog (if you don’t have one)

Take your fuzzy friend to a local dog park or trail.

Learn to solve a Rubik’s cube together

Imagine the exhilaration you’d feel from conquering this together.

Break a crazy world record and create a YouTube video about the journey

You’d be surprised how many crazy world records you could break together. What a great couples bonding activity!

Post photo wall crawl on Instagram

Check out these volunteering ideas

Use VolunteerMatch.com to find the best volunteering ideas that suit your talents. And here is a big list of volunteering ideas.

 Learn a magic trick together

Show off your skills to your friends or family afterward.

Check out these cool beginner magic tricks.

Spoon magic trick.

Card and dollar bill magic trick.

Mind Reading Card Trick

Visit the main library downtown

Before you yawn at me, have you gone to yours lately? You’d be shocked what’s actually there. This might just be one of the coolest places you could explore on this entire list.

Check out the coolest libraries in the US. (These pics will blow you away).

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Sexy Date Night Ideas for Couples

Send Romantic Text Messages

Check out my popular post Romantic Texts vs Dirty Texts.

Send some sweet romantic text messages or flirty texts to one another from separate rooms or from opposite ends of an upscale bar.

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On another blog that I run under the pseudonym Orlando, I write quite a bit about sending flirty texts (this is my all-time most popular post) and even dirty texts (check out the posts if you dare, get some free eBooks and videos). Both of these are written for women to send their men, but honestly most work for men to send women too.

You can also check out my post here to send sexy text messages. Or even sexy goodnight texts

Send them to each other from other rooms of the house, from opposite ends of the bar, or better yet, to each other from work.

Get super turned on, then make intense, orgasmic love after.

Sexy Role Play

Dress up in costume or just regular clothes.

One person flirts the other pretends to fall into the temptation.

Sexy at Home Role Play Idea Examples

  • He pretends to be the sexy plumber
  • You role-play the hot real estate agent
  • Your man plays the role of an insurance claims assessor
  • Pretend to be the domineering sexy female boss
  • He can deliver pizzas to the house and you answer naked or in skimpy lingerie.
  • Act as a “professional” masseuse

Find some fantasy and role-play that.

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Cheap Date Night Ideas for Couples

Even if not free, you can find plenty of fun date ideas where you spend little money.

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Get temporary tattoos together

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Window shop at your local neighborhood boutique and antique shops

Explore shops in parts of town you’ve never gone to.

Visit an old CD or record shop

Rent bikes or scooters and ride through historic or hip neighborhoods

Check out the Lime scooter rental app

Local coffee shop hopping

When you look for locally-owned coffee shops you discover plenty you’ve never visited.

Visit the main library downtown

Before you yawn at me, have you gone to yours lately? You’d be shocked what’s actually there. This might just be one of the coolest places you could explore on this entire list.

Check out the coolest libraries in the US. (These pics will blow you away).

Fun Date Night Ideas for Couples

…who wish to get out of the house to feel in love again

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Some fun date ideas make more sense to do at night.

Escape Room

Check out this list of US escape rooms.

Boba tea shop hopping

What is boba tea?

Rooftop bar hopping

How romantic! Check out this list of the best rooftop bars in the world.

Tiki bars

Most fun bars around. Find the nearest ones to you and check out this list of the cool tiki bars in the US.

Ice Skate (at ice rink)

Go-karts

Symphony

Any of these performing arts centers nearby.

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Funny Date Ideas for Couples

…to Stop Being So Serious

Act out funny skits together

Invent your own, re-enact famous romantic movie skits or try your hand at improv.

Write a funny song about each other

Read kids stories in famous people’s voices

Take an improv comedy class

Break out of your comfort zones together. You can even take online comedy classes.

Stand Up Comedy Show

Outdoor Date Ideas for Couples

… to explore nature together

Exploring nature together has a way of magically bonding couples and rekindling romance.

Here are some of my favorites. A few I still must check off my list. (By the way you can find some of these outdoor date ideas under my cheap date ideas too.)

Botanical gardens

I’ve gone to this famous botanical gardens in Omaha, Nebraska with my girlfriend and this one in Orlando, Florida

Hot air balloon ride

Visit an arboretum

A nature park comprised mostly of trees.

We went to this arboretum close to Cleveland, Ohio

Waterfalls

Can you think of many more romantic settings than this?

You’d be surprised how many waterfalls you have close by.

Check out this list of US waterfalls and these waterfalls in Canada.

Rent a Paddle Boat, Canoe on a Lake

Mountain Biking

Great exercise, bike around local lakes, parks, neighborhoods.

One-on-One Competitions

  • Compete at your local Dave and Buster’s in video games (car races are the best choice)
  • Take on each other in darts, foosball, pool, air hockey, or table tennis at local sports bars (or create your own home game room)
  • Try some strategic board games like chess, checkers, Battleship, Stratego, Cribbage
  • Test out some word game phone apps

Unusual Date Ideas for Couples

How about trying something a little out of the ordinary?

What do you think of these fun date ideas?

Search for 4-leaf clovers

I love finding four-leaf clovers! My record is a 7-leaf clover. Watch this video on how you can find your own 4-leaf clover.

Ax throwing

Ax throwing has gotten big all across the US.

Chocolate or Candy factory tour

Which candy factory tours do you near you?

Strange tourist attractions

Here is a list of strange tourist attractions that you and you partner will talk about for years.

Castle or Mansion Tour

Check out this list of some of the best US mansion museums.

Historic movie theater

I love the starlit ceilings, ornate walls, and grand entrances.

It feels like going back in time to watch a movie or live show.

See if any of these historic movie theaters are close to you.

Summary of Fun Date Ideas for Couples

The most fun date ideas bring you together.

They bring excitement to your lives and get you to look forward to spending time together.

This way you go from two people who just happen to go out into two people that feel like one.

Fun date ideas should be interactive, adventurous, engaging, or all of the above.

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How to Create Pinterest Pins Fast with Canva

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Tired of taking 30 minutes, 60 minutes or longer to create Pinterest Pins (or any social media images)?

Most internet marketing gurus suggest that you spend more time (80%) promoting your content than creating it (20%).

I’d agree.

You don’t know what your audience wants until they take action on it anyway.

Get your blog posts into the hands of your target audience- as many of them as possible.

If you’re reading this post then I’d assume that you use Pinterest and have experienced it’s raw awesome power to 2x, 3x or even MORE your traffic!

But if you cannot create high-quality Pins fast then you will miss out on making those viral Pins that hoard traffic like a vacuum.

(Some of my Pins on my Infidelity First Aid Kit Pinterest account get hundreds of new visitors to one blog post in one day- well after I published them. You’ve got to love the shear awesome power of sharing on Pinterest).

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That’s why I will show you the steps I take to create Pinterest Pins super fast with Canva.com

And not just any Pinterest Pins, but high quality viral Pins.

I made some short videos for you to watch each step.

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Why Create Multiple Pins for the Same Blog Post?

You never know what Pin will actually work to attract Pinners’ attention.

For some of my popular blog posts on InfidelityFirstAidKit.com I have created 50 or more Pins for the same blog post. 

Spread out over time you should to the same for your most read blog posts- especially for your money-making posts that convert affiliate sales.

 

[Pro Tip] Once you see which blog post Pins draw the most traffic focus most of your Pin creation efforts there because you know that people want to read them. 

Certain layouts or elements tend to make the difference between just a few clicks versus hundreds, if not thousands of clicks just for one Pin in a month.

The elements that tend to get me the most traffic are the following:

  • Image: matches the headline
  • Background color: don’t know why, but some colors work better with certain headlines than others
  • Image of person looking at headline: forces the eye to look at the headline
  • Headline: the easier you can communicate the purpose and benefit of the post with less words, the quicker you grab your audience’s attention
  • Headline Font: fonts create moods and touch certain feelings that coincide with the theme of the Pin.

[The Key] Duplicate and Swap Out Elements- Do NOT Start Over

Swap out these elements to see what works best.

No matter how much experience you have you never know what works until you try it.

You just don’t know what your audience wants until you review the results.

Some of my Pins that I created years ago still get me thousands of clicks a month.

Part of this is from regular publishing with Pin schedulers (I use Tailwind), but most of the success comes from the design of the Pin.

Now let’s look at the steps that I take to create high-quality Pins fast with Canva.com

(Get started with the free version of Canva.com. Although, I highly recommend Canva.com Pro. I’ve used both the free and Pro and the Pro version gives me many more options.)

Step One: Overview- Creating the First Pin

The key to fast Pin image creation with Canva is the first Pin. 

Create the template and then swap out other elements.

The easiest method to create multiple high-quality Pins fast is to just swap out one element like the image.

Watch my overview video above that explains the process that I follow to create Pin images with Canva that get me 15k+ visitors just for one Pin a month.

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Step Two: Choose Photo, Create Headline

 

The fastest and simplest way to create additional Pins after you design the first one is to just swap out the image.

Choose free of charge, royalty-free photos within Canva.

Click on the photo within your first Pin, delete then select another one to replace it. (Watch how I do it in my above short video).

With Canva you can access thousands of free images (although  I prefer Canva Pro in order to access even more without needing to pay for single images).

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Step Three: Add Subheadline and Elements

Next create a subheadline that describes more in detail the specific target audience and benefit of what you blog post offers.

The headline alone does not specify this.

If you only create a headline then your blog post looks too bland and does not stand out.

After you create the subheadline, then make it pop and stand out with a background element and the correct color.

Watch how I do it in my above video. (Unmute to hear audio)

It’s so simple.

Within seconds you will finish your second Pin image.

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Step Four: Add Blog Name, Duplicate Pin

In this short video I will show you how within seconds you can paste your blog name (or blog logo) on your first Pin image.

Then from there you can duplicate your Pin and finish the second image.

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I prefer to fill the Pin canvas with a photo, but some of my best Pins contain a background color.

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Romantic Texts vs Dirty Texts to Flirt and Dominate Men

Romantic Texts vs Dirty Texts to Flirt and Dominate Men
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Cute and romantic texts or seductive and dirty ones? Not sure which route to take? Fear it could get out of control and go the wrong direction?

I’m here to help.

I created this blog post to show you how to take a fill-in-the-blank texts message script (a template) and turn them into romantic texts or seductive texts

(I even give movie-style ratings for the dirty texts: R-rated up to XXX).

I’m a guy who runs a few relationship blogs and a newsletter with thousands of female subscribers.

My goal is always to help my female viewers and subscribers to connect with relationship-seeking men on a deeper level.

Every relationship situation is different and your flirting preferences may differ from other women.

But one thing is for sure, all of us men like to have fun and flirt via text.

You just have to choose which direction to take it.

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To Text or to Sext? That is the Question

Do you feel comfortable spicing things up and getting seductive?

Some of you don’t feel comfortable sexting.

Therefore, I want to give you options.

You cannot send the same message in every situation.

So, keep in mind how well you know the guy and how respectful he treats you.

What kinds of compliments does he give you?

Does he seem bring up sex often?

Is it too early for you to talk about sex?

Choose your own path.

But here is how you can take texts and make them either romantic texts or dirty texts.

Need suggestions? Let me help you brew up your own romantic texts or erotic texts. Email me.

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Romantic Texts vs Dirty Texts: Sweet and Cute or Spicy and Seductive?

(Fill-in-the-blank text scripts to create your own)

Directions: Check out the descriptions of each text script. Then look at my romantic texts and dirty texts examples first. Copy-and-paste to send as is or swap out the text in parentheses with your own based on your preference. Plus, feel free to change up my word choice to suit your needs.

1. If we were (______) what would happen next?

Give him the nudge to tell the rest of the story. Some guys won’t need a nudge, others will.

Romantic Texts Examples

  • If we were (outside, it was cold and we had no coats, just each other,) what would happen next?
  • If we were (bored with nothing else to do but stare into each other’s eyes) what would happen next?
  • If we were (seated at a fancy dimly lit bar, and your hand slipped on top of mine,) what would happen next?

*Single? Dating? Looking for more tips how to create romantic chemistry via texts? Check out one of my favorite flirty text guides Text Chemistry by dating coach Amy North.

*In a relationship? Feel like the loving feelings and romance have gone? I highly recommend mastering the fundamental techniques to bond with your partner taught in relationship coach Michael Fiore’s Text the Romance Back. Click here to watch the informational video on Text the Romance Back.

Dirty Texts Examples

  • (PG-rated) If we were (all alone in a parked car while it stormed outside) what would happen next?
  • (R-rated) If we were (stuck in traffic and my hand rested on your thigh) what would happen next?
  • (R-rated) If we were (scantily dressed while cooking together) what would happen next?

*Want more tips how to master the art of talking dirty to a man while keeping your dignity while releasing your inner sexual beast, including copy-and-paste text examples?

Check out one of my favorite seduction guides designed for women Language of Desire by dating coach Felicity Keith, who practices what she preaches.

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Which Romantic Text is Best?

2. If we (_____) would you rather (x) or (y)?

See what he’s thinking by giving him options.

Romantic Texts Examples

  • If we (were on a walk,) would you rather (we hold hands) or (should I pretend I don’t know you and walk fast)?

[Here you tease him a little to playfully make it like you don’t want to associate with him. Make him work to earn your affection and approval.]

  • If we (were watching Netflix on the couch) would you rather (whisper sweet things in my ear) or (get shy and just watch the movie?)
  • If we (got a drink at a rooftop bar with a scenic view) would you rather (get lost in my eyes) or (in my lips?)

Dirty Text Examples

  • (R-rated) If we (sat on the couch,) would you rather (get close and persona) l or (get shy and just watch the movie?)
  • (R-rated) If we (stood close together at a party,) would you rather (move closer) or (go somewhere more private?)
  • (R-rated) If we (were trapped inside a cabin in the middle of the woods while it snowed) would you rather (just sit by the fire and warm up) or (do something a little more “creative”?)
  • (R-rated) If we (waded through the water of a tropical beach with no one around) would you rather (stay clothed) or (not?)

3. If I told you a secret about (_____), would you (x) or (y)?

The power word “secret” triggers his need to unlock it, especially when he knows when you’re flirting with him.

Romantic Text Examples

  • If I told you a secret about (what I thought of your handsome face,) would you (get excited and do something about it) or (just get scared)?
  • If I told you a secret about (something hot, I noticed about you on our first date,) would you (blush) or (get excited)?
  • If I told you a secret yummy thought that I had about (my favorite photo of yours,) would you (get shy) or (ask for more)?

*In a relationship? Feel disconnected from your partner? Learn how to bring your partner closer with the texting strategies taught in relationship coach Michael Fiore’s Text the Romance Back. Click here to watch the informational video on Text the Romance Back.

Dirty Text Examples

I added the word “dirty” to all of them.

  • (R-rated) If I told you a dirty secret about (my favorite panties,) would you (blush and get shy) or (get excited)?
  • (R-rated) If I told you a dirty secret about (my body,) would you (want to know it) or (rather I just keep it to myself)?

[You can turn this X-rated by swapping out “body” for specific body parts].

  • (X-rated) If I told you a dirty secret thought I had about (a certain part of your body) would (your heart burst with excitement) or (would you keep calm and collect ha, ha, ha)?

[Take Poll] Choose One Response

Which Dirty Text will turn on your partner the most?

4. If a cute girl (_____), what would you do next?

This seems counter-intuitive, but you are teasing him here while referring to yourself in third-person. It’s just another way to act playfully and cute.

Romantic Text Examples

  • If a cute girl (moved closer to you while on a first date,) what would you do next handsome?
  • If a cute girl (looked right in your eyes for a few seconds then smiled,) what would you do next?
  • If a cute girl (with sweet perfume fixed your collar, smiled and winked while she did,) what would you do next?
  • If a cute girl (told you how handsome you were,) what would you do next?
  • If a cute girl (sat next to you at a bar with all the other seats empty, then said hello,) what would you do next?

*In a relationship? Feel like roommates instead of a couple? I highly recommend mastering the fundamental techniques to feel in love again taught in relationship coach Michael Fiore’s Text the Romance Back. Click here to watch the informational video on Text the Romance Back.

Dirty Text Examples

  • (R-rated) If a cute girl (were undressing with the bathroom door cracked open) what would you do next?
  • (X-rated) If a cute girl (were touching herself on the couch while watching a movie) what would you next?
  • (XXX-rated) If a cute girl (rubbed your inner thigh while watching TV) what would happen next?

5. You don’t mind (x) when (y), do you?

Here’s a push and pull technique. You give him what he wants while teasing him to take it away. In this case, you tease him to say in so many words, “No, of course I don’t mind, in fact, I want more.”

Romantic Text Examples

  • You don’t mind (me staring at your beautiful eyes when you drive,) do you?
  • You don’t mind (when I move in closer to you,) do you?
  • You don’t mind (when a cute girl tells you how handsome you are,) do you?
  • You don’t mind (if I get up close like this and smile,) do you?
  • You don’t mind (if a cute girl puts her hand here on your back,) do you?

Dirty Text Examples

  • (R-rated) You don’t mind (if a cute girl puts her hand, um, on your thigh), do you?
  • (X-rated) You don’t mind (me touching myself while we chat), do you?
  • (XXX-rated) You don’t mind me (thinking about imagining massaging your cock while we text,) do you?

Sweet or seductive, which romantic texts and dirty texts do you like most?

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10 Emotional Attraction Texts: The Key to His Heart

10 Emotional Attraction Texts: The Key to His Heart
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Ready for a shock? Want one of the keys to a man’s heart? Create emotional attraction.

Connect with us through our feelings.

Acknowledge that we have deep feelings and allow us to be the best version of ourselves.

Do you currently think about a man day-in-and-day-out, but feel like something is missing?

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The key to our hearts is connecting through our feelings by tripping our emotional attraction triggers.

Now, please understand that I do not think that there is just one way to do that.

But I will reveal one easy way to do it in this blog post, and you could start TODAY.

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What Matters Most to Us Men?

Master the art of emotional attraction and connection with men.

Watch the video of Make Him Worship You by dating coach Michael Fiore

Or His Secret Obsession by dating coach James Bauer.

I recommend these to my coaching clients and female friends to understand our deeper relationship and emotional needs.

EVERY man wants to feel like he is good at something– preferably many things.

We pride ourselves in what we believe we are good at.

And in relationships, we want to feel that we are good at making you happy.

As men, we deal with rejection from the opposite sex starting when we are just little boys.

Therefore, one key is to acknowledge how good he makes you feel.

Acknowledge to him the things that make him feel GOOD ENOUGH for you.

No guy is even near perfect, and we know that, but we do not want to lose that girl with whom we feel that genuine emotional attraction bond.

We know you have other suitors and do not want to lose you.

Losing you to another man, or just losing you at all, crushes our soul.

So, in what ways do we want to feel GOOD ENOUGH that we can fulfill you so that you see us as special and

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Qualities of How Men Want to Feel Good Enough to You

  • Our Giving and Kind Nature
  • The gifts we bring you
  • Being a Good Enough Cook for you
  • Feeling like we could protect you- stick up for you (we’re not a pushover)
  • Sense of Humor
  • Feeling Handsome and Physically Attractive to you
  • Fun to spend time with
  • Please you Sexually
  • Can Turn You On
  • We can make you Feel Attractive
  • Make Us Feel Like We Understand Your Needs and Wants
  • Value Our Ambitious Spirit
  • Finds Us Intelligent

This is just a shortlist, but the concept here is that you should acknowledge the Qualities and Characteristics that he takes pride in himself.

How Do You Acknowledge His Desire to Feel GOOD ENOUGH to You?

Honestly, you should do this not just in texts, but also in person.

Express this through your touch, facial expressions, and body language.

But here is a list of 5 text messages to create emotional attraction with your man.

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5 Emotional Attraction Trigger Texts that…

… Make Him Feel Connected: Acknowledge WHY He’s GOOD ENOUGH

I’ll just choose from the list above and provide you a copy-and-paste text message to send him.

The words do NOT matter as much as the concept.

That’s why the above list is so important.

1. “How do you know how to touch me the way you do? It sends shivers throughout my body. You know me so well hon.”

2. “Can I tell you a secret about you that sends electric pulses through my body?”

(Wait for him to reply).

“Staring at your eyes. I love your eyes. Hope you don’t mind.”

Expect him to ask you to keep staring.

As men, we love for you to objectify us.

Compliment our features.

3. “Do you know what you do that I appreciate more than anything?”

(Wait for him to reply).

“You want me to achieve my dreams. You make me feel like I can do anything if I just put my mind to it. You’re my biggest fan.”

Make him feel like he truly gets you.

Likewise, do the same for him.

Show him your support, let him chase his passions.

4. “I’m embarrassed to admit this. Don’t want to give you too much power over me. But want to know a secret? How you super turn me on?”

(Wait for reply)

“The way you hold the back of my head and pull it in when we kiss. You know how to make me feel special.”

Again, make him feel like he is your man because he knows how to fulfill you and give you what you want.

5. “I don’t know how you do it.”

(Wait for him to ask what you mean).

“How you just melt my heart with the sweetest words. I really feel like you listen to what matters to me.”

5 Emotional Attraction Trigger Texts that…

… Make Him Feel Connected: Admire or Acknowledge His Uniqueness that Attracts You

Another way we want you to acknowledge that we are good at something is by bringing up our unique talents, skills, and personality traits.

Identity is huge for us men.

We compete with each other to feel worthy, to feel like we offer something to the world and we want others to acknowledge these unique qualities about us.

One of the best ways to connect with a man is to allow him to feel like your protector, your rescuer or fixer.

You can learn how to trip these emotional attraction triggers one of my favorite dating coach eBooks His Secret Obsession by James Bauer.

Make Him Worship You by Michael Fiore is another great one that shows you how to create an emotional connection with a man.

What are some of the ways you can acknowledge or admire your man’s uniqueness?

Qualities of What Men Take Pride in Themselves About

  • His Choice of Career
  • Ambitious Spirit
  • Intelligence
  • Decisiveness
  • Desire for Improvement
  • His Hobbies
  • His Big Dreams
  • Awards He Wins
  • His Talents (Musical, athletic, artistic, engineering, etc.)
  • Creativity
  • Spontaneity
  • Adventurous Spirit

Again, this list is short, but the concept matters most.

Admire and acknowledge the things that he prides most about in himself.

Now check out this list of sample copy-and-paste texts that you could send to your man.

The word ADMIRE brings power to your texts.

I recommend that you use it.

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6. “Do you know what I admire about you?”

(Wait for him to reply).

“How decisive and spontaneous you are! It’s so sexy! I love that you take charge and we just go somewhere.”

7. “I want you to know honey that I admire that you do what you love! Not many people can say that they work in what they are passionate about.”

We want to feel that you support us in our careers.

I cannot tell you the damage that you can create by making him change careers just to suit your needs when he loves what he does.

8. “Sweetie, I admire that you chase your dreams. I know you do not do what you love, but I love how you keep pushing to pursue your passions.”

We need your support to chase our dreams. Many guys feel trapped being someone we are not.

You can cultivate emotional attraction by supporting his inner happiness and need to do what he loves.

9. “Honey I admire your creativity. You never cease to amaze me how you keep coming up with amazing ideas. (Give him examples of something from his career or hobbies).

10. “Honey, how did you learn to cook so well on your own? You’re so smart. I find that so attractive about you that you can learn things without being taught.”

Here we admire a couple of things in one single text: his creativity and intelligence.

Watch how your man opens up, works harder to earn your affection or even changes just by you simply regularly acknowledging how well he gets you and pleases you, and his unique qualities.

The key to emotional attraction and connection with men (or anyone really) is to understand what matters most to them and to let them be the best version of themselves around you.

Make Him Worship You by dating coach Michael Fiore and His Secret Obsession by James Bauer are two of my favorite resources that I suggest to my coaching clients and female friends.

What are Favorite Ways to Create Emotional Attraction with Your Man?

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