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10 Subtle Ways to Make Men Chase and Dominate Their Hearts

10 Subtle Ways to Make Men Chase and Dominate Their Hearts

Attractive regular everyday women can practice these same subtle ways to make men chase and thus become irresistible and approachable to high quality, relationship-seeking men.

Before we begin, I wish to clarify my definition of “make men chase”.

To some, “make men chase” depicts some women as unattainable and placed on some kind of towering pedestal. She glides down the street or hall in grace while on a mission, always equipped with a forward glance while never paying mind to the mere mortal men she passes.

This strategy of “hard-to-get” limits her circle of choices to the small pool of men who foolishly chase after those “limited-access” women.

The problem with this concept is simple.

It scares off most men and prevents a woman from meeting the men who could make a good personality and value match- a healthy relationship partner.

Do You Want to Be“Hard-to-Get” or “Impossible-to-Get”?

Playing “hard-to-get” is quite different than playing “impossible-to-get”.

The average regular man who will make a good partner with you will NOT approach women who outright ignore him- who do not give him any sign of approval.

Yes, we want to feel like we’re “hunting” and that we have won our “prize woman”, but only if we FEEL THERE IS A CHANCE OF WINNING.

When an attractive man approaches you without you giving him a hint that you like him great, perfect.

But what about when he doesn’t? Do you want to risk that you never see him again or that he approaches other women? No, right?

When this happens your objective should shift to giving him subtle signs that he has permission to advance.

Grant him the opportunity to “audition” for the right to reach the next stage of courtship.

Grant him the opportunity to “audition” for the right to reach the next stage of courtship.

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Keep your dignity and try these…

10 Subtle Ways to Make Men Chase and Attempt to Win You Over

Grant Them the Audition for the Right to Advance

As I stated before, we love “the hunt”, “the chase”, but very few men will initiate the chase if they feel they have NO CHANCE of winning.

These subtle ways to make men chase and make the first big move to win you over is a combination of light flirting and you sending the message, “I like what I see Mister. Now let’s see what you’ve got. Showtime. Go!”

1. Eye Contact

One of the most powerful ways to dominate a man is with eye contact.

If you want to give him the “green light” then hold eye contact for at least 2-3 seconds.

Make him feel that you offer your approval while still leaving room for him to make the next move.

(Eye contact also makes my list of flirty moves for shy women to dominate men).

What NOT to Do

Make him feel your look is accidental. Don’t make a split-second glance, then look away.

He won’t any reason to make a move and try to talk with you.

2. Face Him

Show him you mean to look at him.

Make him feel that you enjoy it, but that he will have to work to get more of your attention.

Let him feel that he has a chance, almost like you grant him an audition.

What NOT to Do

Do not look like you are in a hurry to get away or that you have more important things to do. While you speak with him he should feel like you enjoy it.

3. Smile

Show him that you are a happy person, at least around him.

Smile to show him that you enjoy seeing him.

Make him feel like he makes you smile.

That’s a feeling that’s hard to beat for us men.

We want to feel that you approve, that we have a shot to succeed with you.

What NOT to Do

Do not smile quickly to get it over with and especially do not smile with fear. He should feel like you are smiling because you enjoy looking at him and vice versa.

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4. Fun and Flirtatious

You prefer a man who knows how to have fun, right?

We want the same from you.

Laugh.

Tease.

Make flirty comments (make a post about this- Wow, I’m so distracted right now)

Wink.

Poke him.

Try these flirty conversation starters.

What NOT to Do

Do not see flirting as childish or a chore. If you do then have you considered that you might lack the confidence to flirt? Honestly, who finds overly serious people attractive? Love is supposed to be fun and vulnerable at the same time.

4. Display Confidence

Confident body language such as eye contact, powerful arm, and hand positions, and face him when you speak are some of the most subtle ways to make men chase and find you irresistible.

Show that you move with purpose and without fear. Speak up, speak clearly.

Display excitement when you speak. He should see it in your body and hear it in your voice.

What NOT to Do

Do not overdo the excitement. Instead, scale it up. First, show him you are happy to see him. Then when he matches your level of excitement. Move it up a notch. But not too much, just enough that he sees you are giving him more attention than you would normally to other men.

Also, do not send mixed signals. This one is huge. For example, do not make eye contact or do other things to get his attention such as flirting, then when he gives you attention, come across uninterested. It’s understandable to be nervous but do not seem disinterested or you may not get another chance.

5. Touch Him

Nothing makes his heart pump faster than when you touch him.

I’m not suggesting anything sexual. Just innocent touch on this arm, shoulder, or lower back.

Make him feel that you’re comfortable being close and that you enjoy being in his close personal space.

What NOT to Do

Do not make it look accidental. Make him feel that you want to touch him. If he sees you doing this to all men then he’ll just assume that you are just confident women with all men. Make the ones you like to know that they are special, different than the rest in your eyes.

6. Compliment Him

I’m not asking you to make his head swell and make him feel conceited.

Just make him feel special, that he stands out to you with a cute, innocent, but simple compliment.

Compliment something he’s wearing, his smile, a personality trait you observe about him, anything that stands out that you find unique to him.

In the end, we want to feel unique to someone.

He’ll adore you for it and find you irresistible.

What NOT to Do

Do not feel that you have to compliment big things or that it is your job to build up his confidence. Just show your approval of genuine things you like about him.

Make Him Earn Your Respect, Time, and Affection

These last few subtle ways to make men chase serve as the basis for creating the allure that you are the “prize-to-be-won”. Make him earn your respect now that you got his attention.

He should feel that you have granted him “an audition” and now he needs to perform to get to the next step.

These keys set the stage to earn his respect and ultimately separate mature relationship-seeking men from all the rest.

7. Tell Him What You Don’t Like

One of the best moments to get a man to chase and see where you stand with him is when he makes a mistake.

You CANNOT just let his mistake slide.

Instead, tell him the behaviors that you do NOT approve of.

Give him the opportunity to make things right.

What he does next will allow things to move forward or come to a halt.

If he works to make things right and to get your approval, then you know that you’re special to him.

What NOT to Do

Do NOT complain about things you do not like or belittle him. The idea here is not to bash him and ruin his confidence. What I mean is make him respect you. Point out the disrespectful things he does or ways he neglects you. (Do not give him reasons to run away. Do not do these things that push men away.)

8. Tell Him What You Like and Want

Make it clear the things you like such as your preferences (things you like to do for fun, your favorite foods, etc.) and the behaviors you expect from men.

Also, make it known what you would like to happen next, but allow him the opportunity to take action.

Try out these ways to tell a man what you want and get it.

What NOT to Do

I am not referring to the things that you like about him. Instead, I mean hint to him the things that you enjoy. Then sit back and see if he takes action to make you happy. The same thing goes for expectations. Once you start to date or establish a relationship, state your side of what you want to happen. Then see if he follows through.

9. Make Him Earn Your Approval and Affection

This is really a mindset piece.

By confirming which behaviors and actions that you approve of and also by stating what you would like to see happen in the future, you put the ball in his court.

You’re leaving it up to him to follow through or to fail.

This gives him the reins, but it also makes him work to earn the right to advance or to lose it.

Reward him for the things he does that you like.

Here are the best ways to thank a man.

What NOT to Do

Do not manipulate him into getting what you want. This will ultimately end with your demise. Do not state what you will give in return. And do not shame a man to get what you want. Eventually, he will catch on and leave you or cheat.

10. Make Him Fit You into His Schedule

If you want another way to see how hard a man will work to find time for you, do just that, make him find time for you. Make him fit into your schedule.

Give him the days and times that you can see him.

What NOT to Do

Do not get bossy. Work out the details with him. If he cannot make the times you offer, then suggest a Plan B. Search for other times. I just do not want you to come across as always being available or someone ready to drop everything they’re doing to see him. This looks needy and insecure.

Bonus: Live a Happy Fruitful Life With Or Without Him

People who enjoy life draw people to them like magnets. Who wants to be around negative people?

Enjoy your life for your own sake and subconsciously send the message that you do not need him, but that you would prefer he be around.

Furthermore, this illustrates that you are not one to sit around and wait for him, that you are not always readily available.

Once again, he must find the time to fit into your schedule.

How Do You Feel About these Subtle Ways to Make Men Chase and Make the First Big Move?

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July 8, 2020 by Roaster Rick 4 Comments

Flirty Texts to Send Men and Get a Naughty Response Back

Flirty Texts to Send Men and Get a Naughty Response Back

I cannot guarantee that men will always respond, but these flirty texts will increase his response rate.

Now please do not misunderstand me.

I don’t want you to sit around your phone and wait for him to reply.

Chasing him goes against what I recommend women do in meeting men, dating and relationships.

On the contrary, I want you to control the situation.

Because we want to see you as the “prize”.

And in order for that to happen you need him to chase you.

These flirty texts can get the ball rolling for you in text conversations and flick his emotional triggers to ask and beg for more.

A heads up, many of these get pretty seductive, so please choose the flirty text examples that fit your situation best.

Factor in what you feel comfortable sending, how well you know the guy and the agreed-upon status of your relationship.

However, you are the bold, confident type then do not hesitate to take a little risk by dropping one of the more risqué texts in this blog post.

Also, if you seek some tips on how to talk dirty to a man that drives us wild then dating coach Felicity Keith’s Language of Desire hits the mark. (Many men she collaborated with to make the course would agree).

I’ve been reviewing lately and can attest that many of her lessons work to spark a strong sexual desire in us, even at times against our will.

Think of mastering these techniques as gaining an unfair advantage over us.

Now, let’s move onto the…

10 Kinds of Flirty Texts that Get Him to Respond and Make Him Ask for More

1. “Guess what?”

Who can resist answering this question?

You can’t over do this flirty text technique because it will look like you are luring him along.

Try different versions of this question.

Randomly drop him one.

  • Guess what I dreamed about you last night?
  • Guess why I couldn’t sleep last night handsome? 😉
  • Guess what I’m thinking about right now gorgeous?
  • Guess where you’re taking me cutie?
  • Guess what I’m smiling about right now?
  • Guess what I noticed about you the other day sexy?

And here are some sexy “Guessing What?” flirty texts (if your relationship is that point- or when it gets there).

  • Guess what I’m not wearing?
  • Guess where I just put my bra/panties? (The answer here is not what makes this super-hot text work. It’s the flirty teasing of planting the image in his mind).
  • Guess what, umm, I’m about to do in this dark room alone 😉?

2. “Guess I’ll just have to …”

Drop one of these flirty texts in his inbox when he least expects it.

He’ll rush to find out the rest of your thoughts.

Kill us and dominate us with visuals (if you’re comfortable with it)

Again, choose who you send these to wisely, it might be to soon.

  • Guess I’ll just have to stop admiring this picture of you.
  • Guess I’ll just have to stop thinking about you.
  • Guess I’ll just have to stop thinking about your … ha…

And now some sexier ones…

  • Guess I’ll just have to put my panties back up.
  • Guess I’ll just have to put my bra back on.

Keep in mind some of the keys to flirting via text and to make yourself the “prize-to-be-won” and to make men chase.

  • Keep it fun, don’t always have normal serious conversations
  • Tease him
  • Make him guess what you’re thinking
  • Leave out parts of the texts to get him to ask for the rest
  • Make yourself mysterious
  • And even be the one to END the conversations.

3. Inside Joke/Story

Take advantage of a recent situation that happened between you two or a running joke that started.

Any new story gives you more opportunities to turn up the flirty dial and have some fun.

  • Elevator. 5 minutes. Let’s pick up where we left off last night. 😘
  • You sure talked the big talk the other night. Let’s see if you can walk it tonight.
  • So, when are you going to complete your promise?
  • I’m still blushing handsome from what you said.
  • What you said got me thinking.
  • So, I did it again. 🙄
  • I’m still waiting sweetie…

[Related blog post: 10 Sexy Texts to Drive Men Wild]

4. Unspoken Secrets

We go crazy when you share your ongoing secret desires.

To know that you’ve been holding back and admiring us makes us feel lucky and desired.

  • My fingernails and blouse weren’t the only purple things I wore tonight. 😘
  • Any idea how much I fantasized about you after our date tonight?
  • If I revealed the thoughts I have about you at work, I’d end up in the HR office.
  • Nothing. It’s smooth as silk. (Referring to his previous question in a previous conversation to what’s your “situation down there”.
  • Wish you would have kept your hand there longer.
  • Did you notice? (He’ll ask, “notice what”?). That I wasn’t wearing any underwear? 😘
  • I hope you didn’t notice. (He’ll ask what you mean). How much I was sweating when you got close to me.

5. Flirty, Confident Assumptions

Most men would agree that confidence is the sexist trait a woman can possess.

And if you feel comfortable enough pulling these flirty texts off then you could have him wrapped around your finger.

Tease him, it entices him to play along.

We want text conversations to be fun.

  • Hey! Stop thinking about me already! lol
  • Why can’t you stop thinking about me? Lol
  • So, how many times have you daydreamed about my ass?
  • You can’t stop thinking about making out with me, can you? Lol
  • I see you stare at me a lot. What part do you like best?
  • Try to resist checking out my breasts. Bet you can’t. (And so, now guess what he’ll try to do).
  • Admit it. I made you sweat when grabbed your arm and kissed you on the cheek.
  • So, admit how, um, hard, did you get when I put my hand on your leg at the movies?
  • I bet you can’t resist picturing me in an elevator right now making out.
  • I bet you can’t resist picturing me in anything but my panties and bra right now.

6. If I … would you …?

Follow this simple flirty text script question.

Use them as is or create your own customized texts to fit your situation preferences, and personality

  • Hey, good-looking, if I admitted thinking about you today would you mind?
  • Hey sweetie, if I touched your hand would you pull away?
  • Hey cutie, if I whispered a secret into your ear would you blush?
  • Tell me if this bothers you. If I thought something slightly naughty about you, would you get offended?
  • If I stared at your beautiful eyes, would you get nervous?
  • Hey, honey, if I breathed on your neck, would you sweat?

Insert flirty phrases that help him ease into flirting back like:

  • …would you be offended?
  • …would you touch back?
  • …would you play along?
  • …could you resist me?
  • …would you mind?
  • …would you get upset?

7. If I were …?

Put some of the power back in his hands.

Allow him to get turned on with these seductive invitations to have some naughty fun.

These may not be for everyone.

  • “If I were there right now, what would you do?”
  • “If I were alone in an elevator going to the top floor what would you join me?”
  • “If I were undressing in front of the window would you look?”
  • “If I were alone in my office at night would you come visit?
  • “If I were taking a bath with the door cracked open, would you look?”
  • “If I were wearing nothing but just my undies would you get excited?”

8. If we were … what would you want/what would happen?

This time around create imaginary scenarios together.

I would not use these on a new guy unless he has shown some interest.

Of course, it could still work if you have the confidence to test them out.

Just careful not to use them too early in a relationship, but I will leave that up to you.

  • If we were alone on a deserted beach, what would happen?
  • If we were stranded alone in an elevator what would happen next?
  • If we were alone on your couch right now what would happen next?
  • If we were naked alone in a cabin in the mountains what would you want?
  • If we were alone in the pool with no one home would you want to remove our suits?

9. Incomplete Desires to Make Him Bet for More

Allude to strong emotional feelings you have, but hold back at revealing too much at first.

Let him ask for the rest.

  • Text 1) I just got reminded of something I find sexy about you. Text 2) Never mind. I’m too embarrassed.
  • Something sexy about you popped in my mind and now I can’t stop thinking about … Yum!
  • If you only knew what I was thinking about you right now…
  • I noticed something about you that turned me on and now I can’t get it out of my mind.
  • Did you know how much it turns me on when you … ?

10. May I Ask You a Question?

May I ask you a question? (Wait for him to respond) then follow up with these examples:

  • How did you learn to make a girl smile so much?
  • Have you ever caught me checking you out?
  • Do you have any idea how nervous I get when you look me in the eye?
  • Any idea how hard I find it to not think about your handsome face?
  • Do you know how sexy I find you?
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What If He Does Not Respond the Way You Want?

It could just be bad timing, or maybe he just cannot respond.

A one-time failure to get a response does not necessarily spell danger.

Test out a few of these flirty texts at different times.

The pattern of his responses (or lack of them) will show you how he feels about you.

But, make no mistake, these will be hard to resist responding to.

Compelling, attention grabbing flirty comments and questions target a basic instinct of his to want to play along.

It’s fun and a huge turn on.

Of course, you can also check out dating coach for women Amy North’s Text Chemistry.

Some of the chapters in her eBook/videos teach how to handle this tricky situation, plus other texting challenges with men like when he does not text for a few days or seems emotionally distant.

What are your favorite Flirty Texts to send men?

Leave a comment below.

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