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May 17, 2021 by Roaster Rick Leave a Comment

10 Love Text Messages for Him to Strengthen Your Relationship

With these love text messages, you will build a stronger bond with your man.

Except these texts are better than anything you’ve ever sent.

Why?

Because they reach him at a much deeper level than flirty or romantic texts.

Men may not seem expressive to you at times.

It’s because they don’t trust that you get them. And that you will take advantage of him and make him feel bad about who he is and even worse…

…manipulate and guilt him to do things for you. This is literally the worse thing you can do to a guy if you want him to stick around. And no other guy will tell you this besides me.

Guys understand guys.

And we’ll share more with our guy friends more than with you.

Sorry.

But you have a secret weapon.

Me.

To help you hack your man’s mind…

…in a good way

…that he will appreciate.

And…

…if you’d like to learn what matters most to us guys on a deeper emotional level then I highly recommend that you master the concepts and action steps taught in HIS SECRET OBSESSION by dating and relationship coach James Bauer.

I swear by these techniques when advising my female mail subscribers.

[Click here] to scan through the best parts of HIS SECRET OBSESSION that I highlight here in this post of mine 9 Secret Signals of His Secret Obsession that Trigger the Hero Instinct.

Or go straight to the source and watch James’s informational video.

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10 Kinds of Love Text Messages Designed to Connect with Your Boyfriend or Husband…

…so that he trusts that you actually love him and want what’s best for him

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How to Tell Him that He’s Your Guy (explain what we need and what we fear), do not lie, be genuine, see it from both your viewpoint and his

Love Text Messages to Show Your Approval of, Appreciation for, Admiration of or Attraction to…

1. His Career: Choice, Accomplishments, or Just Having His Back During Struggles

Guys brag about themselves.

You know that.

But do you take advantage of that and put it in your favor?

I’d bet that you don’t because you fear stroking his ego.

There are positive, healthy ways to do it which will give him no choice but to adore you.

“I couldn’t be more proud of you for winning the (x) award. You deserved it. I admire your persistence to succeed.”
“Nothing makes me happier to see you doing what you love most.”
“Keep your head up, honey. Remember that the most rewarding things in life don’t usually come easy. You’ll find a way to make it work.”

2. Him Making You Feel Safe, Protected

This doesn’t mean being physically protected like a knight with a sword and shield, rather that he’s looking out for your best interests and well-being.

“Thank you for always checking if I arrive to work safely. I love having a man who looks out for my best interests.”
“When you held me tonight I felt like I was in Superman’s strong arms.”
“Sweetie, I love your gentleman gestures, like when you walk me to the passenger side door and open it more me. It feels like your my lover and guardian.”

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3. His Lover Skills

We men want to feel like we can please you intimately. In our minds, if we do that, then you won’t want to seek another man because you will feel fulfilled.

This can be romantic or downright sexy and dirty.

“I get shivers throughout my body when you touch me.”
“Just the way you look at me when you smile sends shivers throughout my body.”
“I get wet just thinking about making love to you.”

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4. His Sense of Humor

Do you know one of the best paths to a guy’s heart?

Laugh at his jokes.

We want to feel like we can entertain you.

“Even when I feel most down you find a way to make me laugh to cheer me up. Thank you darling.”
“You know how to make any moment entertaining. Thank you for the laughs tonight.”
“I feel so special that we still create new inside jokes. It keeps things fresh and new. Love you.”

5. He Wants to Feel Like a Good Provider

He knows that you don’t need taken care of. This has nothing to do with that. Instead, he just wants to know that you appreciate his effort to do his part financially. We as men fear that we will lose you to another man who can offer more financially. This is why you have had men try to impress you with what they own, what they do for a living and how much money they have.

“I know times have been tough for you financially this year. I appreciate everything you do for me, darling.”
“You’ve got a lot on your plate financially sweetie. Thank you for dinner and the beautiful flowers. Just know I always have your back. I love you for who you are no matter what you give me.”
“The expensive perfume was quite the surprise. Thank you. Just know that it’s never the price but the thought that matters most to me. Love you.”

6. Show that You Appreciate His Giving Nature

We want to feel like you notice our efforts to make you happy. Even when we bring you a gift or do something special for you and you don’t like the gift or need the favor, we want you to recognize our good intentions.

You can voice this with texts so that he knows that you appreciate him.

“Thank you sweetie for doing all that you do for our kids. I couldn’t ask for a better husband.”
“I love when you bring me beautiful flowers. It makes me feel special. I’m so lucky to have you.”
“You give me the best birthday gifts. How do you know exactly what I want. You know me so well.”

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7. Express How Much Fun He Is to Spend Time With

We also want to feel that you have a good time with us. That when we’re not together that you think about having a good time with us. We also want to feel like we know how to show you a good time.

And in this way, it brings us a sense of security that you won’t need another man who can entertain you better than us.

“Oh, honey, how do you know what I like so well? You sure know how to show a girl a good time.”
“You sure know how to surprise me. How did you know that I would like to (x)?”
“Even when I feel down, you know how to lift my spirits by showing me a good time. Thank you, honey.”

8. Show Interest in His Passions, Skills, and Talents

Show him that what matters to him matters to you. It’s another way to show that you care about his needs.

“I love that you have a passion for (x) and that you are so good at it. Not everyone has the persistence to strive for excellence.”
“It’s amazing that you learned to (x). You’re so smart. It’s quite impressive sweetie.”
“Honey, how did you learn to (x), anyway? I find that amazing about you.”

9. Show Support for His Personal Space

Displaying trust and that you understand his need for time to himself will go a long way. This shows that you are secure in yourself and that you don’t need to smother him.

Big wins for any guy.

“I know we planned to (x) together, but we can do it another time. Have fun with your friends. I know you haven’t seen them much of late.”
“You’ve been working so hard lately. How about you go on a getaway trip with some of your friends? A guys’ trip.”
“It seems like you’re stressed from a the things you’re juggling. Would you like some time to yourself to recoup?”

10. Let Him Know that You Respect and Value the Qualities He Prides about Himself…

… without stroking his ego too much.

One of the best ways, if not the best way, to connect with someone, is to identify the qualities they take pride in about themselves and recognize them for it.

Do that, and they will adore you.

“I’ve never met someone more persistent and determined to achieve their dreams. Love you hun.”
“You never cease to amaze me how you juggle everything and still get it done.”
“How do you manage to handle the stress in your life and still carry that stunning smile.”

Learn to Get to His Heart and Become the Center of His Life

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I’ve received tons of emails from women wanting to know how to connect with their man in ways that turn her into his obsession.

The key to his heart is simple (provided you make a good long-term personality and life goals match).

Show him that you know what matters most to him.

What he wants in life.

How he sees himself.

And what role he wants to play in a relationship with a woman.

How can you do that?

Unlock those secrets in relationship coach James Bauer’s “His Secret Obsession”.

I HIGHLY recommend that read this cover-to-cover at least twice.

And then read the sections that stand out to you from time to time.

Either [click here] to get more information about His Secret Obsession in this video.

Or read this post of mine 9 Secret Signals of His Secret Obsession that Trigger the Hero Instinct to find out what I feel the most important sections of the eBook to open the door to his heart.

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July 8, 2020 by Roaster Rick 4 Comments

Flirty Texts to Send Men and Get a Naughty Response Back

I cannot guarantee that men will always respond, but these flirty texts will increase his response rate.

Now please do not misunderstand me.

I don’t want you to sit around your phone and wait for him to reply.

Chasing him goes against what I recommend women do in meeting men, dating and relationships.

On the contrary, I want you to control the situation.

Because we want to see you as the “prize”.

And in order for that to happen you need him to chase you.

These flirty texts can get the ball rolling for you in text conversations and flick his emotional triggers to ask and beg for more.

A heads up, many of these get pretty seductive, so please choose the flirty text examples that fit your situation best.

Factor in what you feel comfortable sending, how well you know the guy and the agreed-upon status of your relationship.

However, you are the bold, confident type then do not hesitate to take a little risk by dropping one of the more risqué texts in this blog post.

Also, if you seek some tips on how to talk dirty to a man that drives us wild then dating coach Felicity Keith’s Language of Desire hits the mark. (Many men she collaborated with to make the course would agree).

I’ve been reviewing lately and can attest that many of her lessons work to spark a strong sexual desire in us, even at times against our will.

Think of mastering these techniques as gaining an unfair advantage over us.

Now, let’s move onto the…

10 Kinds of Flirty Texts that Get Him to Respond and Make Him Ask for More

1. “Guess what?”

Who can resist answering this question?

You can’t over do this flirty text technique because it will look like you are luring him along.

Try different versions of this question.

Randomly drop him one.

Guess what I dreamed about you last night?
Guess why I couldn’t sleep last night handsome? 😉
Guess what I’m thinking about right now gorgeous?
Guess where you’re taking me cutie?
Guess what I’m smiling about right now?
Guess what I noticed about you the other day sexy?

And here are some sexy “Guessing What?” flirty texts (if your relationship is that point- or when it gets there).

Guess what I’m not wearing?
Guess where I just put my bra/panties? (The answer here is not what makes this super-hot text work. It’s the flirty teasing of planting the image in his mind).
Guess what, umm, I’m about to do in this dark room alone 😉?

2. “Guess I’ll just have to …”

Drop one of these flirty texts in his inbox when he least expects it.

He’ll rush to find out the rest of your thoughts.

Kill us and dominate us with visuals (if you’re comfortable with it)

Again, choose who you send these to wisely, it might be to soon.

Guess I’ll just have to stop admiring this picture of you.
Guess I’ll just have to stop thinking about you.
Guess I’ll just have to stop thinking about your … ha…

And now some sexier ones…

Guess I’ll just have to put my panties back up.
Guess I’ll just have to put my bra back on.

Keep in mind some of the keys to flirting via text and to make yourself the “prize-to-be-won” and to make men chase.

Keep it fun, don’t always have normal serious conversations
Tease him
Make him guess what you’re thinking
Leave out parts of the texts to get him to ask for the rest
Make yourself mysterious
And even be the one to END the conversations.

3. Inside Joke/Story

Take advantage of a recent situation that happened between you two or a running joke that started.

Any new story gives you more opportunities to turn up the flirty dial and have some fun.

Elevator. 5 minutes. Let’s pick up where we left off last night. 😘
You sure talked the big talk the other night. Let’s see if you can walk it tonight.
So, when are you going to complete your promise?
I’m still blushing handsome from what you said.
What you said got me thinking.
So, I did it again. 🙄
I’m still waiting sweetie…

[Related blog post: 10 Sexy Texts to Drive Men Wild]

4. Unspoken Secrets

We go crazy when you share your ongoing secret desires.

To know that you’ve been holding back and admiring us makes us feel lucky and desired.

My fingernails and blouse weren’t the only purple things I wore tonight. 😘
Any idea how much I fantasized about you after our date tonight?
If I revealed the thoughts I have about you at work, I’d end up in the HR office.
Nothing. It’s smooth as silk. (Referring to his previous question in a previous conversation to what’s your “situation down there”.
Wish you would have kept your hand there longer.
Did you notice? (He’ll ask, “notice what”?). That I wasn’t wearing any underwear? 😘
I hope you didn’t notice. (He’ll ask what you mean). How much I was sweating when you got close to me.

5. Flirty, Confident Assumptions

Most men would agree that confidence is the sexist trait a woman can possess.

And if you feel comfortable enough pulling these flirty texts off then you could have him wrapped around your finger.

Tease him, it entices him to play along.

We want text conversations to be fun.

Hey! Stop thinking about me already! lol
Why can’t you stop thinking about me? Lol
So, how many times have you daydreamed about my ass?
You can’t stop thinking about making out with me, can you? Lol
I see you stare at me a lot. What part do you like best?
Try to resist checking out my breasts. Bet you can’t. (And so, now guess what he’ll try to do).
Admit it. I made you sweat when grabbed your arm and kissed you on the cheek.
So, admit how, um, hard, did you get when I put my hand on your leg at the movies?
I bet you can’t resist picturing me in an elevator right now making out.
I bet you can’t resist picturing me in anything but my panties and bra right now.

6. If I … would you …?

Follow this simple flirty text script question.

Use them as is or create your own customized texts to fit your situation preferences, and personality

Hey, good-looking, if I admitted thinking about you today would you mind?
Hey sweetie, if I touched your hand would you pull away?
Hey cutie, if I whispered a secret into your ear would you blush?
Tell me if this bothers you. If I thought something slightly naughty about you, would you get offended?
If I stared at your beautiful eyes, would you get nervous?
Hey, honey, if I breathed on your neck, would you sweat?

Insert flirty phrases that help him ease into flirting back like:

…would you be offended?
…would you touch back?
…would you play along?
…could you resist me?
…would you mind?
…would you get upset?

7. If I were …?

Put some of the power back in his hands.

Allow him to get turned on with these seductive invitations to have some naughty fun.

These may not be for everyone.

“If I were there right now, what would you do?”
“If I were alone in an elevator going to the top floor what would you join me?”
“If I were undressing in front of the window would you look?”
“If I were alone in my office at night would you come visit?
“If I were taking a bath with the door cracked open, would you look?”
“If I were wearing nothing but just my undies would you get excited?”

8. If we were … what would you want/what would happen?

This time around create imaginary scenarios together.

I would not use these on a new guy unless he has shown some interest.

Of course, it could still work if you have the confidence to test them out.

Just careful not to use them too early in a relationship, but I will leave that up to you.

If we were alone on a deserted beach, what would happen?
If we were stranded alone in an elevator what would happen next?
If we were alone on your couch right now what would happen next?
If we were naked alone in a cabin in the mountains what would you want?
If we were alone in the pool with no one home would you want to remove our suits?

9. Incomplete Desires to Make Him Bet for More

Allude to strong emotional feelings you have, but hold back at revealing too much at first.

Let him ask for the rest.

Text 1) I just got reminded of something I find sexy about you. Text 2) Never mind. I’m too embarrassed.
Something sexy about you popped in my mind and now I can’t stop thinking about … Yum!
If you only knew what I was thinking about you right now…
I noticed something about you that turned me on and now I can’t get it out of my mind.
Did you know how much it turns me on when you … ?

10. May I Ask You a Question?

May I ask you a question? (Wait for him to respond) then follow up with these examples:

How did you learn to make a girl smile so much?
Have you ever caught me checking you out?
Do you have any idea how nervous I get when you look me in the eye?
Any idea how hard I find it to not think about your handsome face?
Do you know how sexy I find you?

What If He Does Not Respond the Way You Want?

It could just be bad timing, or maybe he just cannot respond.

A one-time failure to get a response does not necessarily spell danger.

Test out a few of these flirty texts at different times.

The pattern of his responses (or lack of them) will show you how he feels about you.

But, make no mistake, these will be hard to resist responding to.

Compelling, attention grabbing flirty comments and questions target a basic instinct of his to want to play along.

It’s fun and a huge turn on.

Of course, you can also check out dating coach for women Amy North’s Text Chemistry.

Some of the chapters in her eBook/videos teach how to handle this tricky situation, plus other texting challenges with men like when he does not text for a few days or seems emotionally distant.