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May 17, 2021 by Roaster Rick Leave a Comment

10 Love Text Messages for Him to Strengthen Your Relationship

10 Love Text Messages for Him to Strengthen Your Relationship

With these love text messages, you will build a stronger bond with your man.

Except these texts are better than anything you’ve ever sent.

Why?

Because they reach him at a much deeper level than flirty or romantic texts.

Men may not seem expressive to you at times.

It’s because they don’t trust that you get them. And that you will take advantage of him and make him feel bad about who he is and even worse…

…manipulate and guilt him to do things for you. This is literally the worse thing you can do to a guy if you want him to stick around. And no other guy will tell you this besides me.

Guys understand guys.

And we’ll share more with our guy friends more than with you.

Sorry.

But you have a secret weapon.

Me.

To help you hack your man’s mind…

…in a good way

…that he will appreciate.

And…

…if you’d like to learn what matters most to us guys on a deeper emotional level then I highly recommend that you master the concepts and action steps taught in HIS SECRET OBSESSION by dating and relationship coach James Bauer.

I swear by these techniques when advising my female mail subscribers.

[Click here] to scan through the best parts of HIS SECRET OBSESSION that I highlight here in this post of mine 9 Secret Signals of His Secret Obsession that Trigger the Hero Instinct.

Or go straight to the source and watch James’s informational video.

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10 Kinds of Love Text Messages Designed to Connect with Your Boyfriend or Husband…

…so that he trusts that you actually love him and want what’s best for him

love text messages to make him fall in love
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How to Tell Him that He’s Your Guy (explain what we need and what we fear), do not lie, be genuine, see it from both your viewpoint and his

Love Text Messages to Show Your Approval of, Appreciation for, Admiration of or Attraction to…

1. His Career: Choice, Accomplishments, or Just Having His Back During Struggles

Guys brag about themselves.

You know that.

But do you take advantage of that and put it in your favor?

I’d bet that you don’t because you fear stroking his ego.

There are positive, healthy ways to do it which will give him no choice but to adore you.

  • “I couldn’t be more proud of you for winning the (x) award. You deserved it. I admire your persistence to succeed.”
  • “Nothing makes me happier to see you doing what you love most.”
  • “Keep your head up, honey. Remember that the most rewarding things in life don’t usually come easy. You’ll find a way to make it work.”

2. Him Making You Feel Safe, Protected

This doesn’t mean being physically protected like a knight with a sword and shield, rather that he’s looking out for your best interests and well-being.

  • “Thank you for always checking if I arrive to work safely. I love having a man who looks out for my best interests.”
  • “When you held me tonight I felt like I was in Superman’s strong arms.”
  • “Sweetie, I love your gentleman gestures, like when you walk me to the passenger side door and open it more me. It feels like your my lover and guardian.”

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3. His Lover Skills

We men want to feel like we can please you intimately. In our minds, if we do that, then you won’t want to seek another man because you will feel fulfilled.

This can be romantic or downright sexy and dirty.

  • “I get shivers throughout my body when you touch me.”
  • “Just the way you look at me when you smile sends shivers throughout my body.”
  • “I get wet just thinking about making love to you.”
Love text messages that he wants to receive from you.
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4. His Sense of Humor

Do you know one of the best paths to a guy’s heart?

Laugh at his jokes.

We want to feel like we can entertain you.

  • “Even when I feel most down you find a way to make me laugh to cheer me up. Thank you darling.”
  • “You know how to make any moment entertaining. Thank you for the laughs tonight.”
  • “I feel so special that we still create new inside jokes. It keeps things fresh and new. Love you.”

5. He Wants to Feel Like a Good Provider

He knows that you don’t need taken care of. This has nothing to do with that. Instead, he just wants to know that you appreciate his effort to do his part financially. We as men fear that we will lose you to another man who can offer more financially. This is why you have had men try to impress you with what they own, what they do for a living and how much money they have.

  • “I know times have been tough for you financially this year. I appreciate everything you do for me, darling.”
  • “You’ve got a lot on your plate financially sweetie. Thank you for dinner and the beautiful flowers. Just know I always have your back. I love you for who you are no matter what you give me.”
  • “The expensive perfume was quite the surprise. Thank you. Just know that it’s never the price but the thought that matters most to me. Love you.”

6. Show that You Appreciate His Giving Nature

We want to feel like you notice our efforts to make you happy. Even when we bring you a gift or do something special for you and you don’t like the gift or need the favor, we want you to recognize our good intentions.

You can voice this with texts so that he knows that you appreciate him.

  • “Thank you sweetie for doing all that you do for our kids. I couldn’t ask for a better husband.”
  • “I love when you bring me beautiful flowers. It makes me feel special. I’m so lucky to have you.”
  • “You give me the best birthday gifts. How do you know exactly what I want. You know me so well.”
love text messages that show him you get him and understand him
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7. Express How Much Fun He Is to Spend Time With

We also want to feel that you have a good time with us. That when we’re not together that you think about having a good time with us. We also want to feel like we know how to show you a good time.

And in this way, it brings us a sense of security that you won’t need another man who can entertain you better than us.

  • “Oh, honey, how do you know what I like so well? You sure know how to show a girl a good time.”
  • “You sure know how to surprise me. How did you know that I would like to (x)?”
  • “Even when I feel down, you know how to lift my spirits by showing me a good time. Thank you, honey.”

8. Show Interest in His Passions, Skills, and Talents

Show him that what matters to him matters to you. It’s another way to show that you care about his needs.

  • “I love that you have a passion for (x) and that you are so good at it. Not everyone has the persistence to strive for excellence.”
  • “It’s amazing that you learned to (x). You’re so smart. It’s quite impressive sweetie.”
  • “Honey, how did you learn to (x), anyway? I find that amazing about you.”

9. Show Support for His Personal Space

Displaying trust and that you understand his need for time to himself will go a long way. This shows that you are secure in yourself and that you don’t need to smother him.

Big wins for any guy.

  • “I know we planned to (x) together, but we can do it another time. Have fun with your friends. I know you haven’t seen them much of late.”
  • “You’ve been working so hard lately. How about you go on a getaway trip with some of your friends? A guys’ trip.”
  • “It seems like you’re stressed from a the things you’re juggling. Would you like some time to yourself to recoup?”

10. Let Him Know that You Respect and Value the Qualities He Prides about Himself…

… without stroking his ego too much.

One of the best ways, if not the best way, to connect with someone, is to identify the qualities they take pride in about themselves and recognize them for it.

Do that, and they will adore you.

  • “I’ve never met someone more persistent and determined to achieve their dreams. Love you hun.”
  • “You never cease to amaze me how you juggle everything and still get it done.”
  • “How do you manage to handle the stress in your life and still carry that stunning smile.”

Learn to Get to His Heart and Become the Center of His Life

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I’ve received tons of emails from women wanting to know how to connect with their man in ways that turn her into his obsession.

The key to his heart is simple (provided you make a good long-term personality and life goals match).

Show him that you know what matters most to him.

What he wants in life.

How he sees himself.

And what role he wants to play in a relationship with a woman.

How can you do that?

Unlock those secrets in relationship coach James Bauer’s “His Secret Obsession”.

I HIGHLY recommend that read this cover-to-cover at least twice.

And then read the sections that stand out to you from time to time.

Either [click here] to get more information about His Secret Obsession in this video.

Or read this post of mine 9 Secret Signals of His Secret Obsession that Trigger the Hero Instinct to find out what I feel the most important sections of the eBook to open the door to his heart.

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Which Love Text Messages Open the Door to His Heart Most?

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July 28, 2020 by Roaster Rick 1 Comment

Romantic Texts vs Dirty Texts to Flirt and Dominate Men

Romantic Texts vs Dirty Texts to Flirt and Dominate Men

Cute and romantic texts or seductive and dirty ones? Not sure which route to take? Fear it could get out of control and go the wrong direction?

I’m here to help.

I created this blog post to show you how to take a fill-in-the-blank texts message script (a template) and turn them into romantic texts or seductive texts

(I even give movie-style ratings for the dirty texts: R-rated up to XXX).

I’m a guy who runs a few relationship blogs and a newsletter with thousands of female subscribers.

My goal is always to help my female viewers and subscribers to connect with relationship-seeking men on a deeper level.

Every relationship situation is different and your flirting preferences may differ from other women.

But one thing is for sure, all of us men like to have fun and flirt via text.

You just have to choose which direction to take it.

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To Text or to Sext? That is the Question

Do you feel comfortable spicing things up and getting seductive?

Some of you don’t feel comfortable sexting.

Therefore, I want to give you options.

You cannot send the same message in every situation.

So, keep in mind how well you know the guy and how respectful he treats you.

What kinds of compliments does he give you?

Does he seem bring up sex often?

Is it too early for you to talk about sex?

Choose your own path.

But here is how you can take texts and make them either romantic texts or dirty texts.

Need suggestions? Let me help you brew up your own romantic texts or erotic texts. Email me.

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Romantic Texts vs Dirty Texts: Sweet and Cute or Spicy and Seductive?

(Fill-in-the-blank text scripts to create your own)

Directions: Check out the descriptions of each text script. Then look at my romantic texts and dirty texts examples first. Copy-and-paste to send as is or swap out the text in parentheses with your own based on your preference. Plus, feel free to change up my word choice to suit your needs.

1. If we were (______) what would happen next?

Give him the nudge to tell the rest of the story. Some guys won’t need a nudge, others will.

Romantic Texts Examples

  • If we were (outside, it was cold and we had no coats, just each other,) what would happen next?
  • If we were (bored with nothing else to do but stare into each other’s eyes) what would happen next?
  • If we were (seated at a fancy dimly lit bar, and your hand slipped on top of mine,) what would happen next?

*Single? Dating? Looking for more tips how to create romantic chemistry via texts? Check out one of my favorite flirty text guides Text Chemistry by dating coach Amy North.

*In a relationship? Feel like the loving feelings and romance have gone? I highly recommend mastering the fundamental techniques to bond with your partner taught in relationship coach Michael Fiore’s Text the Romance Back. Click here to watch the informational video on Text the Romance Back.

Dirty Texts Examples

  • (PG-rated) If we were (all alone in a parked car while it stormed outside) what would happen next?
  • (R-rated) If we were (stuck in traffic and my hand rested on your thigh) what would happen next?
  • (R-rated) If we were (scantily dressed while cooking together) what would happen next?

*Want more tips how to master the art of talking dirty to a man while keeping your dignity while releasing your inner sexual beast, including copy-and-paste text examples?

Check out one of my favorite seduction guides designed for women Language of Desire by dating coach Felicity Keith, who practices what she preaches.

[Take Poll] Choose One Answer

Which Romantic Text is Best?

2. If we (_____) would you rather (x) or (y)?

See what he’s thinking by giving him options.

Romantic Texts Examples

  • If we (were on a walk,) would you rather (we hold hands) or (should I pretend I don’t know you and walk fast)?

[Here you tease him a little to playfully make it like you don’t want to associate with him. Make him work to earn your affection and approval.]

  • If we (were watching Netflix on the couch) would you rather (whisper sweet things in my ear) or (get shy and just watch the movie?)
  • If we (got a drink at a rooftop bar with a scenic view) would you rather (get lost in my eyes) or (in my lips?)

Dirty Text Examples

  • (R-rated) If we (sat on the couch,) would you rather (get close and persona) l or (get shy and just watch the movie?)
  • (R-rated) If we (stood close together at a party,) would you rather (move closer) or (go somewhere more private?)
  • (R-rated) If we (were trapped inside a cabin in the middle of the woods while it snowed) would you rather (just sit by the fire and warm up) or (do something a little more “creative”?)
  • (R-rated) If we (waded through the water of a tropical beach with no one around) would you rather (stay clothed) or (not?)

3. If I told you a secret about (_____), would you (x) or (y)?

The power word “secret” triggers his need to unlock it, especially when he knows when you’re flirting with him.

Romantic Text Examples

  • If I told you a secret about (what I thought of your handsome face,) would you (get excited and do something about it) or (just get scared)?
  • If I told you a secret about (something hot, I noticed about you on our first date,) would you (blush) or (get excited)?
  • If I told you a secret yummy thought that I had about (my favorite photo of yours,) would you (get shy) or (ask for more)?

*In a relationship? Feel disconnected from your partner? Learn how to bring your partner closer with the texting strategies taught in relationship coach Michael Fiore’s Text the Romance Back. Click here to watch the informational video on Text the Romance Back.

Dirty Text Examples

I added the word “dirty” to all of them.

  • (R-rated) If I told you a dirty secret about (my favorite panties,) would you (blush and get shy) or (get excited)?
  • (R-rated) If I told you a dirty secret about (my body,) would you (want to know it) or (rather I just keep it to myself)?

[You can turn this X-rated by swapping out “body” for specific body parts].

  • (X-rated) If I told you a dirty secret thought I had about (a certain part of your body) would (your heart burst with excitement) or (would you keep calm and collect ha, ha, ha)?

[Take Poll] Choose One Response

Which Dirty Text will turn on your partner the most?

4. If a cute girl (_____), what would you do next?

This seems counter-intuitive, but you are teasing him here while referring to yourself in third-person. It’s just another way to act playfully and cute.

Romantic Text Examples

  • If a cute girl (moved closer to you while on a first date,) what would you do next handsome?
  • If a cute girl (looked right in your eyes for a few seconds then smiled,) what would you do next?
  • If a cute girl (with sweet perfume fixed your collar, smiled and winked while she did,) what would you do next?
  • If a cute girl (told you how handsome you were,) what would you do next?
  • If a cute girl (sat next to you at a bar with all the other seats empty, then said hello,) what would you do next?

*In a relationship? Feel like roommates instead of a couple? I highly recommend mastering the fundamental techniques to feel in love again taught in relationship coach Michael Fiore’s Text the Romance Back. Click here to watch the informational video on Text the Romance Back.

Dirty Text Examples

  • (R-rated) If a cute girl (were undressing with the bathroom door cracked open) what would you do next?
  • (X-rated) If a cute girl (were touching herself on the couch while watching a movie) what would you next?
  • (XXX-rated) If a cute girl (rubbed your inner thigh while watching TV) what would happen next?

5. You don’t mind (x) when (y), do you?

Here’s a push and pull technique. You give him what he wants while teasing him to take it away. In this case, you tease him to say in so many words, “No, of course I don’t mind, in fact, I want more.”

Romantic Text Examples

  • You don’t mind (me staring at your beautiful eyes when you drive,) do you?
  • You don’t mind (when I move in closer to you,) do you?
  • You don’t mind (when a cute girl tells you how handsome you are,) do you?
  • You don’t mind (if I get up close like this and smile,) do you?
  • You don’t mind (if a cute girl puts her hand here on your back,) do you?

Dirty Text Examples

  • (R-rated) You don’t mind (if a cute girl puts her hand, um, on your thigh), do you?
  • (X-rated) You don’t mind (me touching myself while we chat), do you?
  • (XXX-rated) You don’t mind me (thinking about imagining massaging your cock while we text,) do you?

Sweet or seductive, which romantic texts and dirty texts do you like most?

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