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10 Flirty Comments to Turn Him On and Make Him Want You

10 Flirty Comments to Turn Him On and Make Him Want You

She kept sneaking in and saying, “I’m so distracted”, every time I got close, then she’d walk off.

Little did I know she was hacking my mind and dominating my heart against my will.

And it was working- trust me. She had me mesmerized.

Enjoy casting a spell and hacking a man’s mind and soul with these flirty comments to turn him on and make him want you.

Take advantage of your enchanting female sorcery.

This list comprises quick, “hit-and-run” flirty remarks and questions is designed to make a man chase.

Don’t get shy on me now.

Trust me these work- they’ve been used on me in one form or another.

Of course, nothing works 100% of the time, but these are very hard to resist from just about any woman.

So ask yourself.

Are you brave enough to test them out for yourself?

You aren’t shy around girls, are you? (wink)

“Hit-and-Run” Flirty Comments to Turn Men On by RelationshipBrew.com

10 Flirty Comments to Turn Him On

…and Hack His Mind and Heart Against His Will

1. Wow. Sorry, just got a little distracted.

Wait for him to get close. Then enjoy the pleasure of watching a man do a double-take when you surprise him with this off-topic flirty remark.

2. You must break a lot of girls’ hearts.

All men want to feel handsome to women, just like you want good-looking to men. Don’t worry this flirty comment won’t make his head swell. Instead, it will hack his heart against his will and make it skip a beat.

3. Don’t mind me staring, I’m just trying to figure out the color of your eyes.

Put him in a trance with this creative flirty comment. On the surface, it sounds innocent, as if you only want to know the color of his eyes, but you both know that you’re hitting on him. And damn that’s hot!

4. Wow, thank you for reminding me what it’s like to feel butterflies in my stomach.

One of the best “hit-and-run” flirty comments to turn him on and make him chase after you. Don’t laugh when you watch his jaw drop.

5. You don’t mind me being this close, do you?

The confirmation extension at the end is quite hot. Oh, you’re such an innocent diva, aren’t you? A woman at work did this to me then ran off. I literally stood there for a second grasping for breath wondering what had just happened.

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6. When’s the last time someone admired your smile beside right now?

Wait for it. Bam! It took him a second to realize you checking him out. Hear that gulp? That was him swallowing his heart.

7. Hmm … Do you use your cologne to cast spells on other helpless women?

Let him enjoy feeling like a wizard ha, ha. Wink before you walk off.

8. Huh, and here I thought handsome gentlemen no longer existed.

We all want to feel special and unique to a woman. Plus, you win extra points by suggesting he knows how to treat a lady.

9. If I got closer you wouldn’t turn shy, would you?

Challenge him. Tease him by suggesting he doesn’t possess the strength to resist your superpowers.

10. You wouldn’t get shy if I fixed your collar and admired the view, would you?

Fixing his collar is the best innocent excuse to get close to a man. The combination of touching him and flirting with him at the same time is so evil and hot. He won’t know what hit him.

Bonus: If I kissed your cheek, would you tell on me?

I saved the best of the flirty comments to turn him on and make you want you for last. Who doesn’t want to feel like a teenager in love again?

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10 Subtle Ways to Make Men Chase and Dominate Their Hearts

10 Subtle Ways to Make Men Chase and Dominate Their Hearts

Attractive regular everyday women can practice these same subtle ways to make men chase and thus become irresistible and approachable to high quality, relationship-seeking men.

Before we begin, I wish to clarify my definition of “make men chase”.

To some, “make men chase” depicts some women as unattainable and placed on some kind of towering pedestal. She glides down the street or hall in grace while on a mission, always equipped with a forward glance while never paying mind to the mere mortal men she passes.

This strategy of “hard-to-get” limits her circle of choices to the small pool of men who foolishly chase after those “limited-access” women.

The problem with this concept is simple.

It scares off most men and prevents a woman from meeting the men who could make a good personality and value match- a healthy relationship partner.

Do You Want to Be“Hard-to-Get” or “Impossible-to-Get”?

Playing “hard-to-get” is quite different than playing “impossible-to-get”.

The average regular man who will make a good partner with you will NOT approach women who outright ignore him- who do not give him any sign of approval.

Yes, we want to feel like we’re “hunting” and that we have won our “prize woman”, but only if we FEEL THERE IS A CHANCE OF WINNING.

When an attractive man approaches you without you giving him a hint that you like him great, perfect.

But what about when he doesn’t? Do you want to risk that you never see him again or that he approaches other women? No, right?

When this happens your objective should shift to giving him subtle signs that he has permission to advance.

Grant him the opportunity to “audition” for the right to reach the next stage of courtship.

Grant him the opportunity to “audition” for the right to reach the next stage of courtship.

-Relationshipbrew.com

Keep your dignity and try these…

10 Subtle Ways to Make Men Chase and Attempt to Win You Over

Grant Them the Audition for the Right to Advance

As I stated before, we love “the hunt”, “the chase”, but very few men will initiate the chase if they feel they have NO CHANCE of winning.

These subtle ways to make men chase and make the first big move to win you over is a combination of light flirting and you sending the message, “I like what I see Mister. Now let’s see what you’ve got. Showtime. Go!”

1. Eye Contact

One of the most powerful ways to dominate a man is with eye contact.

If you want to give him the “green light” then hold eye contact for at least 2-3 seconds.

Make him feel that you offer your approval while still leaving room for him to make the next move.

(Eye contact also makes my list of flirty moves for shy women to dominate men).

What NOT to Do

Make him feel your look is accidental. Don’t make a split-second glance, then look away.

He won’t any reason to make a move and try to talk with you.

2. Face Him

Show him you mean to look at him.

Make him feel that you enjoy it, but that he will have to work to get more of your attention.

Let him feel that he has a chance, almost like you grant him an audition.

What NOT to Do

Do not look like you are in a hurry to get away or that you have more important things to do. While you speak with him he should feel like you enjoy it.

3. Smile

Show him that you are a happy person, at least around him.

Smile to show him that you enjoy seeing him.

Make him feel like he makes you smile.

That’s a feeling that’s hard to beat for us men.

We want to feel that you approve, that we have a shot to succeed with you.

What NOT to Do

Do not smile quickly to get it over with and especially do not smile with fear. He should feel like you are smiling because you enjoy looking at him and vice versa.

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4. Fun and Flirtatious

You prefer a man who knows how to have fun, right?

We want the same from you.

Laugh.

Tease.

Make flirty comments (make a post about this- Wow, I’m so distracted right now)

Wink.

Poke him.

Try these flirty conversation starters.

What NOT to Do

Do not see flirting as childish or a chore. If you do then have you considered that you might lack the confidence to flirt? Honestly, who finds overly serious people attractive? Love is supposed to be fun and vulnerable at the same time.

4. Display Confidence

Confident body language such as eye contact, powerful arm, and hand positions, and face him when you speak are some of the most subtle ways to make men chase and find you irresistible.

Show that you move with purpose and without fear. Speak up, speak clearly.

Display excitement when you speak. He should see it in your body and hear it in your voice.

What NOT to Do

Do not overdo the excitement. Instead, scale it up. First, show him you are happy to see him. Then when he matches your level of excitement. Move it up a notch. But not too much, just enough that he sees you are giving him more attention than you would normally to other men.

Also, do not send mixed signals. This one is huge. For example, do not make eye contact or do other things to get his attention such as flirting, then when he gives you attention, come across uninterested. It’s understandable to be nervous but do not seem disinterested or you may not get another chance.

5. Touch Him

Nothing makes his heart pump faster than when you touch him.

I’m not suggesting anything sexual. Just innocent touch on this arm, shoulder, or lower back.

Make him feel that you’re comfortable being close and that you enjoy being in his close personal space.

What NOT to Do

Do not make it look accidental. Make him feel that you want to touch him. If he sees you doing this to all men then he’ll just assume that you are just confident women with all men. Make the ones you like to know that they are special, different than the rest in your eyes.

6. Compliment Him

I’m not asking you to make his head swell and make him feel conceited.

Just make him feel special, that he stands out to you with a cute, innocent, but simple compliment.

Compliment something he’s wearing, his smile, a personality trait you observe about him, anything that stands out that you find unique to him.

In the end, we want to feel unique to someone.

He’ll adore you for it and find you irresistible.

What NOT to Do

Do not feel that you have to compliment big things or that it is your job to build up his confidence. Just show your approval of genuine things you like about him.

Make Him Earn Your Respect, Time, and Affection

These last few subtle ways to make men chase serve as the basis for creating the allure that you are the “prize-to-be-won”. Make him earn your respect now that you got his attention.

He should feel that you have granted him “an audition” and now he needs to perform to get to the next step.

These keys set the stage to earn his respect and ultimately separate mature relationship-seeking men from all the rest.

7. Tell Him What You Don’t Like

One of the best moments to get a man to chase and see where you stand with him is when he makes a mistake.

You CANNOT just let his mistake slide.

Instead, tell him the behaviors that you do NOT approve of.

Give him the opportunity to make things right.

What he does next will allow things to move forward or come to a halt.

If he works to make things right and to get your approval, then you know that you’re special to him.

What NOT to Do

Do NOT complain about things you do not like or belittle him. The idea here is not to bash him and ruin his confidence. What I mean is make him respect you. Point out the disrespectful things he does or ways he neglects you. (Do not give him reasons to run away. Do not do these things that push men away.)

8. Tell Him What You Like and Want

Make it clear the things you like such as your preferences (things you like to do for fun, your favorite foods, etc.) and the behaviors you expect from men.

Also, make it known what you would like to happen next, but allow him the opportunity to take action.

Try out these ways to tell a man what you want and get it.

What NOT to Do

I am not referring to the things that you like about him. Instead, I mean hint to him the things that you enjoy. Then sit back and see if he takes action to make you happy. The same thing goes for expectations. Once you start to date or establish a relationship, state your side of what you want to happen. Then see if he follows through.

9. Make Him Earn Your Approval and Affection

This is really a mindset piece.

By confirming which behaviors and actions that you approve of and also by stating what you would like to see happen in the future, you put the ball in his court.

You’re leaving it up to him to follow through or to fail.

This gives him the reins, but it also makes him work to earn the right to advance or to lose it.

Reward him for the things he does that you like.

Here are the best ways to thank a man.

What NOT to Do

Do not manipulate him into getting what you want. This will ultimately end with your demise. Do not state what you will give in return. And do not shame a man to get what you want. Eventually, he will catch on and leave you or cheat.

10. Make Him Fit You into His Schedule

If you want another way to see how hard a man will work to find time for you, do just that, make him find time for you. Make him fit into your schedule.

Give him the days and times that you can see him.

What NOT to Do

Do not get bossy. Work out the details with him. If he cannot make the times you offer, then suggest a Plan B. Search for other times. I just do not want you to come across as always being available or someone ready to drop everything they’re doing to see him. This looks needy and insecure.

Bonus: Live a Happy Fruitful Life With Or Without Him

People who enjoy life draw people to them like magnets. Who wants to be around negative people?

Enjoy your life for your own sake and subconsciously send the message that you do not need him, but that you would prefer he be around.

Furthermore, this illustrates that you are not one to sit around and wait for him, that you are not always readily available.

Once again, he must find the time to fit into your schedule.

How Do You Feel About these Subtle Ways to Make Men Chase and Make the First Big Move?

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Make Him Want You: 10 Keys to Become His Queen

Make Him Want You: 10 Keys to Become His Queen

Yes, there are ways to make him want you.

And if you’d like to learn more about those male mind hack techniques then read the first two blog posts in this mini-series:

  1. Make Him Want You: 10 Ways to Make Him Attracted to You
  2. Make Him Want You: His 15 Needs to Make Him Want More Time with You

Finding long-term love may be the single most important accomplishment in your life.

Because when you find the One, the rest of your life becomes more enjoyable.

But be wary of who you choose to spend the rest of your life with because choosing the wrong man brings you endless misery.

Here are some techniques to nudge him along to make him want you as his life-long partner and to become his queen.

Even if you are married or have a boyfriend this list can help rejuvenate your relationship.

10 Techniques to Make Him Want You, Open His Heart and Mind to See You as “The One”

Make him want you as his long-term partner
What make us men see women as long-term partners?

1. He Must Find You Attractive

No matter how much you have in common he likely will not see you as a long-term partner unless he finds you attractive.

And no matter how attractive you view yourself beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Therefore, it doesn’t matter how you view yourself, only how he views you.

Read my first blog post in this mini-series to view the checklist of ways to make him want you and find you attractive.

2. **Does He Want to Spend Time with You?

And no matter how much he’s attracted to you it won’t lead to love if he doesn’t want to spend time with you.

Check out the second blog post in this mini-series for ways to get him to want more time with you.

3. Accept that We Men Have Deep Feelings Too

What you think affects what you say and do. Therefore, if you THINK that men do not have DEEP feelings, or that we are just robots then you will NOT be able to connect with us.

And you will always wonder why men disappear, ghost, or hide from you.

We commit to women who get us and take the time to learn about our deep emotional needs.

So, if you want to become his queen, then pay attention to this special point on this list.

4. Make Him Feel Good Enough

Relationships are a two-way street, are they not?

Why would you expect your man to commit to you when you don’t make him feel like he’s the one for you.

Do what it takes to make him feel like he’s the only one you have eyes for.

If you feel like that makes you too vulnerable or that it would make you chase him instead of the other way around, then have you considered that you are not with the right guy?

Love only works when we both sacrifice.

5. Be His Biggest Fan (Support His Passions, Goals, Ambitions)

We both want to live a good life. Compatible companions want to experience good times together.

They want to be happy, and one of the best ways to feel happy in a relationship is when your partner roots for you.

They celebrate your successes.

And they support your pursuits.

Take interest in his hobbies.

Show him that you care about his pursuit of passions, goals, and ambitions.

6. Respect His Boundaries

Part of him feeling comfortable around you and wanting to get close rather than run off to his man cave every chance he gets is to respect his boundaries.

We men want you to respect us.

What does that involve?

  • Give him the benefit of the doubt
  • Praise Him- Do Not Belittle Him
  • Give him personal space
  • Show interest in who his friends and co-workers are
  • Encourage him to spend time with his friends

7. Give Him Glimpse of a Bright and Exciting Future Together

Encourage him to discuss what fascinates him about his future. What gets him excited?

Where does he want to travel to?

What experiences or projects does he mention?

How does he feel about volunteering?

(Do any of them match what you want to do? This is a good way to see if you make a good long-term match.)

And if you’ve learned what matters most to him then paint a picture of how you could accomplish them together with glimpse phrases.

  • Imagine us cruising along the coast of Alaska watching Humback whales leap out of the ocean.
  • Can you imagine how it’d feel to bring gifts to kids at an orphange?
  • Can you feel your heart pounding just thinking about riding horseback along the paths of the Grand Canyon?

Show him that both of your visions of the future match.

Learn more about glimpse phrases and other techniques that make him want you and to become his queen.

Click here to view my blog post What Is the Hero Instinct?

8. Respect His Family and Choice of Friends

This one could fall under the list of ways to make him more comfortable around you, but it still impacts his long-term outlook on a relationship with you.

Do not get jealous of his time with friends or family, and instead show genuine interest to get to know them.

Showing support for his relationships with family and friends will demonstrate to him that you care about his needs.

9. Identify His “Prized” Qualities, Skills

I mention this in my blog post about helping him to get more comfortable with you so that he wants more time with you.

It’s a valuable step in opening his heart to make him to want you as his long-term partner and queen.

Show him that you know the qualities that he prides in himself.

Here are some ideas:

What are his hobbies?

What is he most passionate about?

  • Volunteering?
  • Playing music?
  • Health and conditioning,
  • Entrepreneurship,
  • Traveling?

How about the little, not-so-obvious skills?

  • Is he a good problem-solver?
  • Does he have good taste in wines?
  • Does he display a strong desire to live an exciting and fulfilling life?
  • How well does he take care of his belongings and keep things clean and organized?
  • How well does he get along with kids?

All of these traits he likely prides himself in doing well.

And when you bring them up to him it goes a long way to open his heart and see you as the ONE woman who truly understands his deep emotional needs.

10. Hold Out for Mr. Right- Don’t Force the Relationship

Here is a simple reminder to NOT force love.

How many unhappily married people have you come across in your life that probably should not have married?

And how many of them do you believe probably just forced the marriage because it was the convenient thing to do?

Do NOT fall in love with the idea of falling in love.

Marrying the WRONG person can set you on a very long and miserable road, one which many people have traveled down.

Instead, hold out for the right partner:

  • One who matches your life-long goals and aspirations,
  • Share the same (or very similar) set of core values and beliefs
  • Someone you want to spend time with
  • Find attractive
  • Who you can respect and vice-versa (and doesn’t drive you to the poin of insanity)
  • Whose personality you can get along with more often than not.

BONUS 1: Ask for Help- Fix Your Problem

Men cannot resist the temptation to solve problems for you. It makes us feel useful and needed.

Learn how to tap into our male emotional trigger systems with the help of relationship coach James Bauer’s His Secret Obsession.

I share the highlights of the top features of His Secret Obsession here in my blog post.

BONUS 2: Learn About the Hero Instinct

Why do we men fascinate about feeling like your hero?

When you accept that our needs to please you are simple and do not take it personally that we want to help you then you’ll be amazed how easy it becomes to make men chase you.

Check out these male emotional mind hacks in my blog post.

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Make Him Want You: 15 Ways to Make Him Want More Time with You

Make Him Want You: 15 Ways to Make Him Want More Time with You

Want the KEY to make him want more time with you?

He must feel comfortable around you and thoroughly enjoy your presence.

Not just that, he must not get annoyed to the point he wants to avoid you.

Plus, he must want to spend time with you even when you’re not doing anything exciting.

Show him that you accept him for who he is.

IN ADDITION to enticing him to want more time with you these tips pave the way for the next stage in the relationship- seeing you as the One, your wife.

HEED MY WARNING: You cannot GUILT him to want more time with you.

Learn to master the art of making him chase (more on that later).

15 Male Mind Hacks to Make Him Want More Time with You

How can you influence a man to want to spend more time with you?

1. Learn How to Attract Him (read the first blog post in this series)

If you haven’t read my first blog post in this mini-series then check it out here: 10 Simple Regular Women Attract Men to Them Like a Magnet

Finding you attractive and wanting to spend more time with you go hand-in-hand.

2. Make Him Earn Your Respect

He will want more time with you if he respects you. Ask for what you want. Tell him what you don’t like. Don’t let mistreatment slide.

3. State Your Boundaries

Another way to earn respect from your man is to state your boundaries ahead of time.

It serves you better to state them early instead of waiting for him to cross them.

4. Set Your Expectations

The best way to get what you want with a man and to earn his respect is to state your expectations early in the relationship.

If you haven’t, then do so ASAP.

Be firm.

And if it scares you to set them because you think it will push him away then just remember…

… if you do not set your expectations of what you want to happen in the relationship then there is little chance it will happen anyway.

5. Give Him His Personal Space

When we want our personal space and time then you MUST give it.

It may conflict with your needs but guilting him to spend time with you will not make him want more time with you.

Even if he agrees he will despise you for manipulating him.

Again, one of the best ways to get him to want more time with you is to show him that you care about his needs.

6. Give Him Pieces of Your Attention- NOT Huge Chunks (not yet)

Here is the key to make men chase.

Give him a little of what he likes then STOP.

Think of how simple that psychology is for a second.

Sound familiar?

On our last visit to the grocery store, did try a sample of something?

Did you want more of it?

This is the same concept.

But do you have the strength to pull it off?

Especially when he expresses a positive response to what you did?

Not many women can pull this off.

But the ones with the most success with getting men to want to spend more time with them and chase get this concept and put it into regular practice.

7. Make Him Schedule His Time Around Your Personal Life

Here’s yet another concept that only a few women get I’ve come across.

Confident women with a high self-image make men work their schedule into hers- not the other way around.

We men will work harder to find time for you if you make us, well, just that…

… work to find time for you.

8. Enjoy Life without Him

These same women who make men find time to see her based on her schedule also have a fun-filled life.

They have other friends they regularly see and/or they have plenty of activities and hobbies that they participate in.

You don’t need a man in your life.

Any man will not do.

Hold out for the right man who gets you and wants you to be happy and cares about your well-being.

9. Fewer Gifts, But GOOD Ones

First of all, do NOT shower him with gifts.

Resist the temptation.

Why would you do that?

Is this about you feeling a connection or you wanting to get him to want more time with you?

Be memorable to him.

Show him that you understand his needs.

Learn if your man wants useful, everyday functional gifts or collection/hobby gifts?

One of my exes knew how to get the right gifts for me.

I still use many of them every day.

Show your man that you understand him. When you get him gifts, get him the right gifts.

This is yet another way to get him to want more time with you.

10. Touch Him How He Likes It When He Wants It

Touch him when he does NOT want to be touched or touch him in ways he doesn’t like and he will push you away.

Do you want him to want more time with you?

Then master the skill of touch that makes us men most comfortable and dominates our feelings.

The women who get this skill get men to want like them against their own will.

They understand how to trigger these male mind hacks.

11. Show Confidence and Security, Not Neediness

Do not guilt or beg a man for things you need. It only pushes us away.

The same thing happens in the reverse when we look needy and helpless.

It’s better to communicate your needs early.

Explain what happens when you start to feel neglected rather than beg and plead and look desperate.

Communicate the importance of scheduling a date night time for you both.

Click here for fun date ideas and here for stay-home date ideas.

12. Break Plans from Time-to-Time

This may go against common sense, but it is another male mind hack to get him to chase.

Break plans with him.

But only when something truly comes up.

Do not manipulate and make up a story just in an attempt to lift up your value.

13. Identify His Talents and Best Qualities (that he likes about himself)

Show him that you get him and he will want more time with you.

He wants you to appreciate his talents and for the qualities that he is most proud of.

Make him feel special for the things that matter most to him just like you want him to do for you.

Here are some ideas:

  • Does he play a musical instrument?
  • Does he possess any artistic talent?
  • What are his best attributes: is he a good problem-solver? Is he persistent? Does he possess a drive to succeed?
  • How about his sense of humor?
  • Does he show compassion for others?

14. Find the Date Ideas that You Both Enjoy

Check out my list of fun date ideas for couples.

I also offer downloadable and printable date idea cards at my Etsy shop

15. Also Find the Date Ideas that Only He Enjoys

Ask him to take you places that you enjoy, it’s only fair.

But also go on dates that matter more to him than you and he will appreciate you for it.

Check out these fun date ideas for couples and my downloadable, printable date idea cards for couples at my Etsy shop.

BONUS 1: Ask for Help- Fix Your Problem

Men cannot resist the temptation to solve problems for you. It makes us feel useful and needed.

Learn how to tap into our male emotional trigger systems with the help of relationship coach James Bauer’s His Secret Obsession.

I share the highlights of the top features of His Secret Obsession here in my blog post.

BONUS 2: Learn About the Hero Instinct

Why do we men fascinate about feeling like your hero?

When you accept that our needs to please you are simple and do not take it personally that we want to help you then you’ll be amazed how easy it becomes to make men chase you.

Check out these male emotional mind hacks in my blog post.

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Make Him Want You: 10 Ways Men Find Women Attractive

Make Him Want You: 10 Ways Men Find Women Attractive

How familiar are you with the ways men find women attractive for more than just looks- do you know the different ways men find women attractive?

Some women just get it. They swallow their pride and let men be the person they want to be- while still earning their respect.

These women possess the confidence to pull this list of male mind hacks to drive us men wild for them.

It doesn’t matter if they are tall and skinny, short and pudgy, or not the best-looking.

They know things other women do not understand about men.

These women enjoy their lives with or without men and hold out for only the right emotionally mature relationship-seeking, available men who treat them well.

They don’t live in the past or beat themselves up when things don’t work out with a guy.

And above they stay true to themselves.

How open are you to learning new ways to dominate men emotionally?

Or do you just want to keep getting in your own way and pushing him away?

Learn the simple ways to make him want you while still getting the respect you desire.

Here are some of the things women do who have mastered the ways men find women attractive.

10 Ways Men Find Women Attractive that ONLY SOME Women Understand

Make Him Want You and Get the Respect You Desire

What do men find attractive in women?

First, let’s start with the ONLY two suggestions in this list that relate to physical beauty.

1. Choose Clothes and Apparel that Suit Your Body Type

I am NOT a fashionista by any means. But I do know that when a female dresses in a way that matches her body type it is quite attractive. We men like it when women carefully select a look that suits them. Think of it as finding the right brand for yourself. It makes you stand out.

Here are a few blog posts on other blogs that cover this topic:

2. Choose the Hairstyle that Suits Your Body Type

Again, I’m personally know nothing about HOW to choose fashion or hairstyles BUT I do know how it makes me and other men feel when a woman chooses the right ones that fit her height and body type. No matter if you have extra padding or are tall or short, choosing the right fashion and hairstyle matters and can make you look super attractive.

Here are some blog posts on other blogs that cover this topic:

3. Enter His Personal Space

Show him that you don’t fear him and that you enjoy being up close and personal. Do this by simply entering his personal space within 3 feet of him. As you get close make sure you…

Here are some simple ways to move in on him that we men like:

  • Fix his collar
  • Remove a piece of lint from his shoulder
  • Straighten his shirt
  • Pull down the bill of his hat
  • Interlock your arm with his
  • Side-hug him for a second

And if you’re bold enough hug him around the neck and tell him how manly he smells.

4. Touch Him

…dominate him with simple inoffensive touch and watch how he warms up to you real quick.

Check out my blog post 10 Ways to Dominate a Man with Your Touch

Then next be sure to…

5. Hold Eye Contact and Slight Smile

We need to know that you approve of us and find us attractive. Besides just coming right out and telling us that another way is to 1) Enter His Personal Space 2) Touch Him (check out my post 10 Ways to Inoffensively Touch a Man and Make Him Want You 3) Hold Eye Contact and Smile

You don’t need a big smile (just a small, quick one) nor do you need to hold eye contact for long (just 1 to 2 seconds).

Read this blog post about these flirty female power moves.

6. Make Him Want More (Make Him Chase)

This may sound so simple that you get the urge to ignore it, but this is the single best advice for women dating or in a relationship with men I can give you.

Learn to make him want more.

Give him a little taste then metaphorically walk away.

This includes ALL aspects of communication:

  • Body language
  • Gestures and mannerisms
  • Text Messages
  • Voicemails
  • Phone Calls
  • Face-to-Face conversation

7. Tease Him with Playful Remarks and Questions

This one gets me… every time.

One of my all-time favorite exchanges with a woman came from a simple flirty remark.

After we worked together one day, she asked if I was checking her out.

When I said, “No.”

She replied, “That’s too bad. I wish you had.”

8. Flirty Curiosity-Inducing Text Messages

Text messages provide you with a quick way to turn things flirty with a man.

The trick is to write engaging texts that fascinate him and make it too hard to resist replying to.

One time I sent a text to a woman I met at a company softball league game.

In it, I commented and asked, ” I didn’t want to stare but what color are your eyes.”

Replied, “You can stare all you want.”

I about fell down from the excitement.

9. Cute Animated Gestures and Mannerisms

The more confident a woman feels and interactive she gets with a man, the more interesting it makes her look.

The same woman from number 8 on this list was an expert at expressing herself through animated body language.

I found her irresistibly attractive because of it.

Her feminine energy overpowered me.

She attracted me against my will.

Check out these examples of her animated gestures and mannerisms:

  • Blowing a kiss and winking
  • Walking as if modeling on a catwalk
  • Winking and then smiling
  • Tilting your head and laying it on your open hand while smiling and making eye contact
  • Waving and smiling
  • Biting your lower lip, winking, slightly smiling, and then making eye contact
  • Putting your hand up in a stop motion and turning your head away, then peeking back and smiling

10. Play with Props

Hats, coats, scarves, skirts… well… playing with any prop makes you more interesting and makes you magnetic.

Think of it like acting.

It just optimizes your attractiveness- your cuteness.

Here are some examples:

  • Partially covering your face with a hat while peeking around it with one eye.
  • Tilting your glasses down while peeking above them and smirking
  • Tilting your hat to the side while making eye contact and smiling
  • Holding up your coat and hiding behind it like a curtain then dropping it and curtsying like an actress
  • Swirling your finger around the rim of a wine glass in a circular motion while making powerful eye contact

BONUS 1: Ask for Help- Fix Your Problem

Men cannot resist the temptation to solve problems for you. It makes us feel useful and needed.

Learn how to tap into our male emotional trigger systems with the help of relationship coach James Bauer’s His Secret Obsession.

I share the highlights of the top features of His Secret Obsession here in my blog post.

BONUS 2: Learn About the Hero Instinct

Why do we men fascinate about feeling like your hero?

When you accept that our needs to please you are simple and do not take it personally that we want to help you then you’ll be amazed how easy it becomes to make men chase you.

Check out these male emotional mind hacks in my blog post.

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