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May 17, 2021 by Roaster Rick Leave a Comment

10 Love Text Messages for Him to Strengthen Your Relationship

10 Love Text Messages for Him to Strengthen Your Relationship

With these love text messages, you will build a stronger bond with your man.

Except these texts are better than anything you’ve ever sent.

Why?

Because they reach him at a much deeper level than flirty or romantic texts.

Men may not seem expressive to you at times.

It’s because they don’t trust that you get them. And that you will take advantage of him and make him feel bad about who he is and even worse…

…manipulate and guilt him to do things for you. This is literally the worse thing you can do to a guy if you want him to stick around. And no other guy will tell you this besides me.

Guys understand guys.

And we’ll share more with our guy friends more than with you.

Sorry.

But you have a secret weapon.

Me.

To help you hack your man’s mind…

…in a good way

…that he will appreciate.

And…

…if you’d like to learn what matters most to us guys on a deeper emotional level then I highly recommend that you master the concepts and action steps taught in HIS SECRET OBSESSION by dating and relationship coach James Bauer.

I swear by these techniques when advising my female mail subscribers.

[Click here] to scan through the best parts of HIS SECRET OBSESSION that I highlight here in this post of mine 9 Secret Signals of His Secret Obsession that Trigger the Hero Instinct.

Or go straight to the source and watch James’s informational video.

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10 Kinds of Love Text Messages Designed to Connect with Your Boyfriend or Husband…

…so that he trusts that you actually love him and want what’s best for him

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How to Tell Him that He’s Your Guy (explain what we need and what we fear), do not lie, be genuine, see it from both your viewpoint and his

Love Text Messages to Show Your Approval of, Appreciation for, Admiration of or Attraction to…

1. His Career: Choice, Accomplishments, or Just Having His Back During Struggles

Guys brag about themselves.

You know that.

But do you take advantage of that and put it in your favor?

I’d bet that you don’t because you fear stroking his ego.

There are positive, healthy ways to do it which will give him no choice but to adore you.

  • “I couldn’t be more proud of you for winning the (x) award. You deserved it. I admire your persistence to succeed.”
  • “Nothing makes me happier to see you doing what you love most.”
  • “Keep your head up, honey. Remember that the most rewarding things in life don’t usually come easy. You’ll find a way to make it work.”

2. Him Making You Feel Safe, Protected

This doesn’t mean being physically protected like a knight with a sword and shield, rather that he’s looking out for your best interests and well-being.

  • “Thank you for always checking if I arrive to work safely. I love having a man who looks out for my best interests.”
  • “When you held me tonight I felt like I was in Superman’s strong arms.”
  • “Sweetie, I love your gentleman gestures, like when you walk me to the passenger side door and open it more me. It feels like your my lover and guardian.”

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3. His Lover Skills

We men want to feel like we can please you intimately. In our minds, if we do that, then you won’t want to seek another man because you will feel fulfilled.

This can be romantic or downright sexy and dirty.

  • “I get shivers throughout my body when you touch me.”
  • “Just the way you look at me when you smile sends shivers throughout my body.”
  • “I get wet just thinking about making love to you.”
Love text messages that he wants to receive from you.
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4. His Sense of Humor

Do you know one of the best paths to a guy’s heart?

Laugh at his jokes.

We want to feel like we can entertain you.

  • “Even when I feel most down you find a way to make me laugh to cheer me up. Thank you darling.”
  • “You know how to make any moment entertaining. Thank you for the laughs tonight.”
  • “I feel so special that we still create new inside jokes. It keeps things fresh and new. Love you.”

5. He Wants to Feel Like a Good Provider

He knows that you don’t need taken care of. This has nothing to do with that. Instead, he just wants to know that you appreciate his effort to do his part financially. We as men fear that we will lose you to another man who can offer more financially. This is why you have had men try to impress you with what they own, what they do for a living and how much money they have.

  • “I know times have been tough for you financially this year. I appreciate everything you do for me, darling.”
  • “You’ve got a lot on your plate financially sweetie. Thank you for dinner and the beautiful flowers. Just know I always have your back. I love you for who you are no matter what you give me.”
  • “The expensive perfume was quite the surprise. Thank you. Just know that it’s never the price but the thought that matters most to me. Love you.”

6. Show that You Appreciate His Giving Nature

We want to feel like you notice our efforts to make you happy. Even when we bring you a gift or do something special for you and you don’t like the gift or need the favor, we want you to recognize our good intentions.

You can voice this with texts so that he knows that you appreciate him.

  • “Thank you sweetie for doing all that you do for our kids. I couldn’t ask for a better husband.”
  • “I love when you bring me beautiful flowers. It makes me feel special. I’m so lucky to have you.”
  • “You give me the best birthday gifts. How do you know exactly what I want. You know me so well.”
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7. Express How Much Fun He Is to Spend Time With

We also want to feel that you have a good time with us. That when we’re not together that you think about having a good time with us. We also want to feel like we know how to show you a good time.

And in this way, it brings us a sense of security that you won’t need another man who can entertain you better than us.

  • “Oh, honey, how do you know what I like so well? You sure know how to show a girl a good time.”
  • “You sure know how to surprise me. How did you know that I would like to (x)?”
  • “Even when I feel down, you know how to lift my spirits by showing me a good time. Thank you, honey.”

8. Show Interest in His Passions, Skills, and Talents

Show him that what matters to him matters to you. It’s another way to show that you care about his needs.

  • “I love that you have a passion for (x) and that you are so good at it. Not everyone has the persistence to strive for excellence.”
  • “It’s amazing that you learned to (x). You’re so smart. It’s quite impressive sweetie.”
  • “Honey, how did you learn to (x), anyway? I find that amazing about you.”

9. Show Support for His Personal Space

Displaying trust and that you understand his need for time to himself will go a long way. This shows that you are secure in yourself and that you don’t need to smother him.

Big wins for any guy.

  • “I know we planned to (x) together, but we can do it another time. Have fun with your friends. I know you haven’t seen them much of late.”
  • “You’ve been working so hard lately. How about you go on a getaway trip with some of your friends? A guys’ trip.”
  • “It seems like you’re stressed from a the things you’re juggling. Would you like some time to yourself to recoup?”

10. Let Him Know that You Respect and Value the Qualities He Prides about Himself…

… without stroking his ego too much.

One of the best ways, if not the best way, to connect with someone, is to identify the qualities they take pride in about themselves and recognize them for it.

Do that, and they will adore you.

  • “I’ve never met someone more persistent and determined to achieve their dreams. Love you hun.”
  • “You never cease to amaze me how you juggle everything and still get it done.”
  • “How do you manage to handle the stress in your life and still carry that stunning smile.”

Learn to Get to His Heart and Become the Center of His Life

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I’ve received tons of emails from women wanting to know how to connect with their man in ways that turn her into his obsession.

The key to his heart is simple (provided you make a good long-term personality and life goals match).

Show him that you know what matters most to him.

What he wants in life.

How he sees himself.

And what role he wants to play in a relationship with a woman.

How can you do that?

Unlock those secrets in relationship coach James Bauer’s “His Secret Obsession”.

I HIGHLY recommend that read this cover-to-cover at least twice.

And then read the sections that stand out to you from time to time.

Either [click here] to get more information about His Secret Obsession in this video.

Or read this post of mine 9 Secret Signals of His Secret Obsession that Trigger the Hero Instinct to find out what I feel the most important sections of the eBook to open the door to his heart.

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July 22, 2020 by Roaster Rick Leave a Comment

10 Emotional Attraction Texts: The Key to His Heart

10 Emotional Attraction Texts: The Key to His Heart

Ready for a shock? Want one of the keys to a man’s heart? Create emotional attraction.

Connect with us through our feelings.

Acknowledge that we have deep feelings and allow us to be the best version of ourselves.

Do you currently think about a man day-in-and-day-out, but feel like something is missing?

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The key to our hearts is connecting through our feelings by tripping our emotional attraction triggers.

Now, please understand that I do not think that there is just one way to do that.

But I will reveal one easy way to do it in this blog post, and you could start TODAY.

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Master the art of emotional attraction and connection with men.

Watch the video of Make Him Worship You by dating coach Michael Fiore

Or His Secret Obsession by dating coach James Bauer.

I recommend these to my coaching clients and female friends to understand our deeper relationship and emotional needs.

EVERY man wants to feel like he is good at something– preferably many things.

We pride ourselves in what we believe we are good at.

And in relationships, we want to feel that we are good at making you happy.

As men, we deal with rejection from the opposite sex starting when we are just little boys.

Therefore, one key is to acknowledge how good he makes you feel.

Acknowledge to him the things that make him feel GOOD ENOUGH for you.

No guy is even near perfect, and we know that, but we do not want to lose that girl with whom we feel that genuine emotional attraction bond.

We know you have other suitors and do not want to lose you.

Losing you to another man, or just losing you at all, crushes our soul.

So, in what ways do we want to feel GOOD ENOUGH that we can fulfill you so that you see us as special and

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Qualities of How Men Want to Feel Good Enough to You

  • Our Giving and Kind Nature
  • The gifts we bring you
  • Being a Good Enough Cook for you
  • Feeling like we could protect you- stick up for you (we’re not a pushover)
  • Sense of Humor
  • Feeling Handsome and Physically Attractive to you
  • Fun to spend time with
  • Please you Sexually
  • Can Turn You On
  • We can make you Feel Attractive
  • Make Us Feel Like We Understand Your Needs and Wants
  • Value Our Ambitious Spirit
  • Finds Us Intelligent

This is just a shortlist, but the concept here is that you should acknowledge the Qualities and Characteristics that he takes pride in himself.

How Do You Acknowledge His Desire to Feel GOOD ENOUGH to You?

Honestly, you should do this not just in texts, but also in person.

Express this through your touch, facial expressions, and body language.

But here is a list of 5 text messages to create emotional attraction with your man.

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5 Emotional Attraction Trigger Texts that…

… Make Him Feel Connected: Acknowledge WHY He’s GOOD ENOUGH

I’ll just choose from the list above and provide you a copy-and-paste text message to send him.

The words do NOT matter as much as the concept.

That’s why the above list is so important.

1. “How do you know how to touch me the way you do? It sends shivers throughout my body. You know me so well hon.”

2. “Can I tell you a secret about you that sends electric pulses through my body?”

(Wait for him to reply).

“Staring at your eyes. I love your eyes. Hope you don’t mind.”

Expect him to ask you to keep staring.

As men, we love for you to objectify us.

Compliment our features.

3. “Do you know what you do that I appreciate more than anything?”

(Wait for him to reply).

“You want me to achieve my dreams. You make me feel like I can do anything if I just put my mind to it. You’re my biggest fan.”

Make him feel like he truly gets you.

Likewise, do the same for him.

Show him your support, let him chase his passions.

4. “I’m embarrassed to admit this. Don’t want to give you too much power over me. But want to know a secret? How you super turn me on?”

(Wait for reply)

“The way you hold the back of my head and pull it in when we kiss. You know how to make me feel special.”

Again, make him feel like he is your man because he knows how to fulfill you and give you what you want.

5. “I don’t know how you do it.”

(Wait for him to ask what you mean).

“How you just melt my heart with the sweetest words. I really feel like you listen to what matters to me.”

5 Emotional Attraction Trigger Texts that…

… Make Him Feel Connected: Admire or Acknowledge His Uniqueness that Attracts You

Another way we want you to acknowledge that we are good at something is by bringing up our unique talents, skills, and personality traits.

Identity is huge for us men.

We compete with each other to feel worthy, to feel like we offer something to the world and we want others to acknowledge these unique qualities about us.

One of the best ways to connect with a man is to allow him to feel like your protector, your rescuer or fixer.

You can learn how to trip these emotional attraction triggers one of my favorite dating coach eBooks His Secret Obsession by James Bauer.

Make Him Worship You by Michael Fiore is another great one that shows you how to create an emotional connection with a man.

What are some of the ways you can acknowledge or admire your man’s uniqueness?

Qualities of What Men Take Pride in Themselves About

  • His Choice of Career
  • Ambitious Spirit
  • Intelligence
  • Decisiveness
  • Desire for Improvement
  • His Hobbies
  • His Big Dreams
  • Awards He Wins
  • His Talents (Musical, athletic, artistic, engineering, etc.)
  • Creativity
  • Spontaneity
  • Adventurous Spirit

Again, this list is short, but the concept matters most.

Admire and acknowledge the things that he prides most about in himself.

Now check out this list of sample copy-and-paste texts that you could send to your man.

The word ADMIRE brings power to your texts.

I recommend that you use it.

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6. “Do you know what I admire about you?”

(Wait for him to reply).

“How decisive and spontaneous you are! It’s so sexy! I love that you take charge and we just go somewhere.”

7. “I want you to know honey that I admire that you do what you love! Not many people can say that they work in what they are passionate about.”

We want to feel that you support us in our careers.

I cannot tell you the damage that you can create by making him change careers just to suit your needs when he loves what he does.

8. “Sweetie, I admire that you chase your dreams. I know you do not do what you love, but I love how you keep pushing to pursue your passions.”

We need your support to chase our dreams. Many guys feel trapped being someone we are not.

You can cultivate emotional attraction by supporting his inner happiness and need to do what he loves.

9. “Honey I admire your creativity. You never cease to amaze me how you keep coming up with amazing ideas. (Give him examples of something from his career or hobbies).

10. “Honey, how did you learn to cook so well on your own? You’re so smart. I find that so attractive about you that you can learn things without being taught.”

Here we admire a couple of things in one single text: his creativity and intelligence.

Watch how your man opens up, works harder to earn your affection or even changes just by you simply regularly acknowledging how well he gets you and pleases you, and his unique qualities.

The key to emotional attraction and connection with men (or anyone really) is to understand what matters most to them and to let them be the best version of themselves around you.

Make Him Worship You by dating coach Michael Fiore and His Secret Obsession by James Bauer are two of my favorite resources that I suggest to my coaching clients and female friends.

What are Favorite Ways to Create Emotional Attraction with Your Man?

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