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July 10, 2020 by Roaster Rick 3 Comments

Flirty Good Night Messages to Turn Him On

With “good morning” texts you want to entice him to respond, but with good night messages you want him to think about you all night.

You don’t want to keep chatting.

The goal is to gain all the power by building up his desire to want you but give him no way to release this sexual tension.

Instead, you make him wait.

It puts you in control and makes him chase.

Once again, you become the “prize”.

But at night, I don’t want you to entice him to keep talking because it looks desperate that you want him to keep going.

Instead, I want you to end the conversation and make him think about what you said to the point he cannot sleep.

Keep the power. Show you are fine waiting until tomorrow.

So, even if he responds, do not keep going.

Good night messages mean good night.

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Flirty Text Messages to Keep Him Up All Night Thinking About You

Guess I’ll just squirm in bed all night thinking about that kiss. Good night hun.
Sweetie, want to know a secret? Guess what I’m not wearing? 😉 Good night.
How do you turn me on with just words? Keep it up sweetie. Good night. (He’ll want to keep trying to turn you on with his texts, but you cut him off and now he wants you more).
Ugh, super turned on by that kiss. But got to get up early. 😉 Good night handsome.
Wow, you just get me. Super turned on now by what you said tonight. Guess I just gotta wait until next time. Good night honey…
When you get close, I start to, maybe I shouldn’t say. Never mind. I’m too embarrassed. Well, gotta get up early. Later babe. Good night.
I don’t want to get you too excited, but I put your arm around me tonight I started to feel things… in certain places… Sorry, gotta go sweetie. I’m too shy. Good night.
I hope you didn’t notice how much I sweat when you held my hand. Let’s see what happens next time. Good night love.
If you don’t dream about me and wake up sweating in the middle of the night, I’ll be upset. Ha, ha. Good night gorgeous.
I hope you don’t mind me having naughty dreams about you tonight handsome. I’ll tell you tomorrow. Good night.

[Bonus] Done! All off! No pajamas tonight! Feels so good on the cool sheets. Hope I didn’t make you too excited. So tired. Good night.

Again, do NOT reply if he continues to text.

Do you like these good night messages?

Check out dating coach Amy North’s Text Chemistry to learn how to maintain power over a man with just text messages.

Also, learn what to do when he does not respond favorably, or worse, disrespectfully.

Summary of Seductive Good Night Text Messages to Keep Him Excited

The objective behind these texts is that you fulfill his need to feel like he has earned your approval.

He wants to feel like he can please a woman and has learned how to peel back the layers of defenses to win your heart.

Then by YOU ending the conversation (and not him), he knows that he must continue to work on earning that approval.

The second of the good night messages and the last two, of course, are top-notch flirty and will keep him up thinking all night.

I know it can be hard to end a conversation especially when you want to get as much feedback as possible to know how he feels about you.

But I cannot stress enough how much power you maintain by stopping.

It gives him the impression that you’re under control and are fine just pacing instead of spilling everything out of your mind.

Again, make him chase.

Keep him guessing what you’re feeling.

In a Relationship?

Yes, these texts work for you too.

Of course, you wouldn’t send them if you’re sleeping in the same bed together.

However, if you’re not in the same bed then send these and keep the flirting alive in your relationship.

What’s your favorite flirty way to say good night?

July 8, 2020 by Roaster Rick 4 Comments

10 Ways to Dominate and Turn On Men with Touch

NOTHING drives us men wilder than when you touch us.

Sounds pretty obvious, but I don’t just mean sexually.

In fact, in this post, I will NOT discuss anything sexual, just cute, and romantic.

When my girlfriend put her arm around my side for the first time on our first date, it instantly ignited an emotional attraction switch inside me.

I couldn’t help but like it and like her back.

I felt at ease, accepted, desired.

It gave me the “green light” I needed to know that she liked me and that I had permission to proceed to flirt back.

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Now, understand, that I’m NOT suggesting that it’s your responsibility to make the first move as a woman.

No.

But if you like a guy and you want him to see you for more than friends then you must touch him in ways that give him the signal that expresses your attraction to him.

Make it known that you like him.

Then he knows that he can proceed without fear of rejection or feeling like a creep.

It won’t take much, just a small gesture to send shivers throughout his body.

The combination of where you touch him, how you do it, and the flirty comments you say to tease him will tell him that he has permission to flirt back.

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Touch Him, Tease Him, Give Him Permission to Flirt Back Like This…

1. Back of Head

Watch your dirty mind now.

Not that head, his actual head.

Nothing on this list will warm him up to you and draw him closer to you faster than when you touch and caress the back of his head.

It feels so soothing, like a mini massage.

Flirt with him a bit and say, “If I keep petting you like this will your leg start to shake?”

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2. Forearm

Ask him to get something down for you from a high shelf then touch his forearm, make eye contact, smile, and say thank you. Or get bolder and say “thank you handsome”.

Or…

***(This one is only for the most confident girls BUT it is SUUUPER FLIRTY and EPICALLY Cute…)

Lightly touch his forearm, look him in the eyes, then pretend to appear serious and say, “(his name) I’m sorry, but I think we have to break up. I want to see other people.” Then smile, giggle, wink, and walk away.

OR…

Tease him. Open the door for him, lightly touch his forearm and say, “It’s not every day I get to hold the door open for a handsome man.”

Now you might think that I am asking you to play a game.

And I am, just not mind games.

If you don’t have fun and we don’t have fun then what’s the point?

How would you expect him to feel attracted to you if you do not have fun with him and tease him a bit?

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3. Bicep

Lock one arm of his and jokingly ask, “So, when are we getting married?”

Or…

Grab his arm and jokingly ask him to step over in your office (three feet away). Then say something flirty like “Mister you’ve got to stop turning on all these girls around here with your manly voice.”

Or…

While in a parking lot, put your arm around his and ask him to accompany you to your car. Try something flirty like, “You know, it’s a dangerous world out here? How about protecting a damsel in distress and escorting her safely to her car? It’s just over there. Let’s go.”

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4. Hand

Jokingly ask to read his palm so you can tell him his future.

Then tease him about how he’s going to find his princess (describe yourself) and that you’ll carry her off to his castle far away.

Or something else just as silly like he’s going to become a farmer and marry a girl (describe yourself) and have some ridiculously high number of kids. Then you’ll raise a bunch of goats, cows, horses, llamas, whatever. Make a joke of it. But look at him in the eyes, smile, and laugh.

It’s silly and fun- it’s supposed to be.

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5. Shoulder, Upper Back

Say that you’re tired then give a pouty puppy dog face then place one arm around him and lean your head on his shoulder for a quick second.

Or…

Compliment his eyes and ask to take a closer look to determine the color while you place your hand on his shoulder.

6. Lower Back

Pick up something he dropped then touch the small of his back, look in his eyes and say “You’re welcome handsome”.

Or as you pass by him place your hand on his lower back and hold it there a second and say, “Excuse me handsome.”

7. Adjust His Collar, Shirt or Tie

Fix his collar or tie, straighten his shirt, remove a piece of lint.
Take your time doing it. Ask him permission first.

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8. Play with Him, Compare Feet Size

Ask to compare feet size. Then place your foot next to his or your hand up to his hand.

There are endless ways to find a reasonable excuse to move in close and apply innocent touch to non-private parts of his body.

This is an easy one.

9. Chest

Nothing sexual.

Just rest your hand on his chest when making a point.

It’ll look natural.

Make sure to look him in the eyes and hold eye contact, and give a smile- nothing to happy, though.

Say something bold and flirty like, “Wow, you’re heart’s really racing. Do I make you nervous darling.”

Or “Wow, I can feel your heart beating, do you always get this nervous around girls?”

No guy could help but get turned on from flirty, confident remarks like those.

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10. Leg

Still not getting sexual, but a simple resting of your hand on his leg while he drives or you sit next to him at a restaurant or bench outdoors while looking up at the moon and stars.

Just having your warm hand there will give him butterflies.

Say something romantic like, “You know I already made my wish to my lucky star, still waiting for my kiss, though.”

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Summary of Ways to Touch Men that Dominate Them and Draw them Closer to You

In case you feel uncertain about your ability to attract men and draw them to you, guess again.

You have an abundance of female superpowers that drive us wild that we find super attractive.

Touch is by far the most effective one.

In this blog post, we only discussed innocent and romantic ways to touch him and the cute, flirty comments that you could make to turn him on.

Again, if you want some tips on how to say the right things to turn on men sexually while still guarding your dignity and maintaining the power then check out Language of Desire.

Dating coach Felicity Keith has helped thousands of women to successfully flirt and turn on men without feeling ashamed and while earning the respect of the men they interact with.

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July 8, 2020 by Roaster Rick 4 Comments

Flirty Texts to Send Men and Get a Naughty Response Back

I cannot guarantee that men will always respond, but these flirty texts will increase his response rate.

Now please do not misunderstand me.

I don’t want you to sit around your phone and wait for him to reply.

Chasing him goes against what I recommend women do in meeting men, dating and relationships.

On the contrary, I want you to control the situation.

Because we want to see you as the “prize”.

And in order for that to happen you need him to chase you.

These flirty texts can get the ball rolling for you in text conversations and flick his emotional triggers to ask and beg for more.

A heads up, many of these get pretty seductive, so please choose the flirty text examples that fit your situation best.

Factor in what you feel comfortable sending, how well you know the guy and the agreed-upon status of your relationship.

However, you are the bold, confident type then do not hesitate to take a little risk by dropping one of the more risqué texts in this blog post.

Also, if you seek some tips on how to talk dirty to a man that drives us wild then dating coach Felicity Keith’s Language of Desire hits the mark. (Many men she collaborated with to make the course would agree).

I’ve been reviewing lately and can attest that many of her lessons work to spark a strong sexual desire in us, even at times against our will.

Think of mastering these techniques as gaining an unfair advantage over us.

Now, let’s move onto the…

10 Kinds of Flirty Texts that Get Him to Respond and Make Him Ask for More

1. “Guess what?”

Who can resist answering this question?

You can’t over do this flirty text technique because it will look like you are luring him along.

Try different versions of this question.

Randomly drop him one.

Guess what I dreamed about you last night?
Guess why I couldn’t sleep last night handsome? 😉
Guess what I’m thinking about right now gorgeous?
Guess where you’re taking me cutie?
Guess what I’m smiling about right now?
Guess what I noticed about you the other day sexy?

And here are some sexy “Guessing What?” flirty texts (if your relationship is that point- or when it gets there).

Guess what I’m not wearing?
Guess where I just put my bra/panties? (The answer here is not what makes this super-hot text work. It’s the flirty teasing of planting the image in his mind).
Guess what, umm, I’m about to do in this dark room alone 😉?

2. “Guess I’ll just have to …”

Drop one of these flirty texts in his inbox when he least expects it.

He’ll rush to find out the rest of your thoughts.

Kill us and dominate us with visuals (if you’re comfortable with it)

Again, choose who you send these to wisely, it might be to soon.

Guess I’ll just have to stop admiring this picture of you.
Guess I’ll just have to stop thinking about you.
Guess I’ll just have to stop thinking about your … ha…

And now some sexier ones…

Guess I’ll just have to put my panties back up.
Guess I’ll just have to put my bra back on.

Keep in mind some of the keys to flirting via text and to make yourself the “prize-to-be-won” and to make men chase.

Keep it fun, don’t always have normal serious conversations
Tease him
Make him guess what you’re thinking
Leave out parts of the texts to get him to ask for the rest
Make yourself mysterious
And even be the one to END the conversations.

3. Inside Joke/Story

Take advantage of a recent situation that happened between you two or a running joke that started.

Any new story gives you more opportunities to turn up the flirty dial and have some fun.

Elevator. 5 minutes. Let’s pick up where we left off last night. 😘
You sure talked the big talk the other night. Let’s see if you can walk it tonight.
So, when are you going to complete your promise?
I’m still blushing handsome from what you said.
What you said got me thinking.
So, I did it again. 🙄
I’m still waiting sweetie…

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4. Unspoken Secrets

We go crazy when you share your ongoing secret desires.

To know that you’ve been holding back and admiring us makes us feel lucky and desired.

My fingernails and blouse weren’t the only purple things I wore tonight. 😘
Any idea how much I fantasized about you after our date tonight?
If I revealed the thoughts I have about you at work, I’d end up in the HR office.
Nothing. It’s smooth as silk. (Referring to his previous question in a previous conversation to what’s your “situation down there”.
Wish you would have kept your hand there longer.
Did you notice? (He’ll ask, “notice what”?). That I wasn’t wearing any underwear? 😘
I hope you didn’t notice. (He’ll ask what you mean). How much I was sweating when you got close to me.

5. Flirty, Confident Assumptions

Most men would agree that confidence is the sexist trait a woman can possess.

And if you feel comfortable enough pulling these flirty texts off then you could have him wrapped around your finger.

Tease him, it entices him to play along.

We want text conversations to be fun.

Hey! Stop thinking about me already! lol
Why can’t you stop thinking about me? Lol
So, how many times have you daydreamed about my ass?
You can’t stop thinking about making out with me, can you? Lol
I see you stare at me a lot. What part do you like best?
Try to resist checking out my breasts. Bet you can’t. (And so, now guess what he’ll try to do).
Admit it. I made you sweat when grabbed your arm and kissed you on the cheek.
So, admit how, um, hard, did you get when I put my hand on your leg at the movies?
I bet you can’t resist picturing me in an elevator right now making out.
I bet you can’t resist picturing me in anything but my panties and bra right now.

6. If I … would you …?

Follow this simple flirty text script question.

Use them as is or create your own customized texts to fit your situation preferences, and personality

Hey, good-looking, if I admitted thinking about you today would you mind?
Hey sweetie, if I touched your hand would you pull away?
Hey cutie, if I whispered a secret into your ear would you blush?
Tell me if this bothers you. If I thought something slightly naughty about you, would you get offended?
If I stared at your beautiful eyes, would you get nervous?
Hey, honey, if I breathed on your neck, would you sweat?

Insert flirty phrases that help him ease into flirting back like:

…would you be offended?
…would you touch back?
…would you play along?
…could you resist me?
…would you mind?
…would you get upset?

7. If I were …?

Put some of the power back in his hands.

Allow him to get turned on with these seductive invitations to have some naughty fun.

These may not be for everyone.

“If I were there right now, what would you do?”
“If I were alone in an elevator going to the top floor what would you join me?”
“If I were undressing in front of the window would you look?”
“If I were alone in my office at night would you come visit?
“If I were taking a bath with the door cracked open, would you look?”
“If I were wearing nothing but just my undies would you get excited?”

8. If we were … what would you want/what would happen?

This time around create imaginary scenarios together.

I would not use these on a new guy unless he has shown some interest.

Of course, it could still work if you have the confidence to test them out.

Just careful not to use them too early in a relationship, but I will leave that up to you.

If we were alone on a deserted beach, what would happen?
If we were stranded alone in an elevator what would happen next?
If we were alone on your couch right now what would happen next?
If we were naked alone in a cabin in the mountains what would you want?
If we were alone in the pool with no one home would you want to remove our suits?

9. Incomplete Desires to Make Him Bet for More

Allude to strong emotional feelings you have, but hold back at revealing too much at first.

Let him ask for the rest.

Text 1) I just got reminded of something I find sexy about you. Text 2) Never mind. I’m too embarrassed.
Something sexy about you popped in my mind and now I can’t stop thinking about … Yum!
If you only knew what I was thinking about you right now…
I noticed something about you that turned me on and now I can’t get it out of my mind.
Did you know how much it turns me on when you … ?

10. May I Ask You a Question?

May I ask you a question? (Wait for him to respond) then follow up with these examples:

How did you learn to make a girl smile so much?
Have you ever caught me checking you out?
Do you have any idea how nervous I get when you look me in the eye?
Any idea how hard I find it to not think about your handsome face?
Do you know how sexy I find you?

What If He Does Not Respond the Way You Want?

It could just be bad timing, or maybe he just cannot respond.

A one-time failure to get a response does not necessarily spell danger.

Test out a few of these flirty texts at different times.

The pattern of his responses (or lack of them) will show you how he feels about you.

But, make no mistake, these will be hard to resist responding to.

Compelling, attention grabbing flirty comments and questions target a basic instinct of his to want to play along.

It’s fun and a huge turn on.

Of course, you can also check out dating coach for women Amy North’s Text Chemistry.

Some of the chapters in her eBook/videos teach how to handle this tricky situation, plus other texting challenges with men like when he does not text for a few days or seems emotionally distant.