I cannot guarantee that men will always respond, but these flirty texts will increase his response rate.

Now please do not misunderstand me.

I don’t want you to sit around your phone and wait for him to reply.

Chasing him goes against what I recommend women do in meeting men, dating and relationships.

On the contrary, I want you to control the situation.

Because we want to see you as the “prize”.

And in order for that to happen you need him to chase you.

These flirty texts can get the ball rolling for you in text conversations and flick his emotional triggers to ask and beg for more.

A heads up, many of these get pretty seductive, so please choose the flirty text examples that fit your situation best.

Factor in what you feel comfortable sending, how well you know the guy and the agreed-upon status of your relationship.

However, you are the bold, confident type then do not hesitate to take a little risk by dropping one of the more risqué texts in this blog post.

Also, if you seek some tips on how to talk dirty to a man that drives us wild then dating coach Felicity Keith’s Language of Desire hits the mark. (Many men she collaborated with to make the course would agree).

I’ve been reviewing lately and can attest that many of her lessons work to spark a strong sexual desire in us, even at times against our will.

Think of mastering these techniques as gaining an unfair advantage over us.

Now, let’s move onto the…

10 Kinds of Flirty Texts that Get Him to Respond and Make Him Ask for More

1. “Guess what?”

Who can resist answering this question?

You can’t over do this flirty text technique because it will look like you are luring him along.

Try different versions of this question.

Randomly drop him one.

• Guess what I dreamed about you last night?
• Guess why I couldn’t sleep last night handsome? 😉
• Guess what I’m thinking about right now gorgeous?
• Guess where you’re taking me cutie?
• Guess what I’m smiling about right now?
• Guess what I noticed about you the other day sexy?

And here are some sexy “Guessing What?” flirty texts (if your relationship is that point- or when it gets there).

• Guess what I’m not wearing?
• Guess where I just put my bra/panties? (The answer here is not what makes this super-hot text work. It’s the flirty teasing of planting the image in his mind).
• Guess what, umm, I’m about to do in this dark room alone 😉?

2. “Guess I’ll just have to …”

Drop one of these flirty texts in his inbox when he least expects it.

He’ll rush to find out the rest of your thoughts.

Kill us and dominate us with visuals (if you’re comfortable with it)

Again, choose who you send these to wisely, it might be to soon.

• Guess I’ll just have to stop admiring this picture of you.
• Guess I’ll just have to stop thinking about you.
• Guess I’ll just have to stop thinking about your … ha…

And now some sexier ones…

• Guess I’ll just have to put my panties back up.
• Guess I’ll just have to put my bra back on.

Keep in mind some of the keys to flirting via text and to make yourself the “prize-to-be-won” and to make men chase.

• Keep it fun, don’t always have normal serious conversations
• Tease him
• Make him guess what you’re thinking
• Leave out parts of the texts to get him to ask for the rest
• Make yourself mysterious
• And even be the one to END the conversations.

3. Inside Joke/Story

Take advantage of a recent situation that happened between you two or a running joke that started.

Any new story gives you more opportunities to turn up the flirty dial and have some fun.

• Elevator. 5 minutes. Let’s pick up where we left off last night. 😘
• You sure talked the big talk the other night. Let’s see if you can walk it tonight.
• So, when are you going to complete your promise?
• I’m still blushing handsome from what you said.
• What you said got me thinking.
• So, I did it again. 🙄
• I’m still waiting sweetie…

[Related blog post: 10 Sexy Texts to Drive Men Wild]

4. Unspoken Secrets

We go crazy when you share your ongoing secret desires.

To know that you’ve been holding back and admiring us makes us feel lucky and desired.

• My fingernails and blouse weren’t the only purple things I wore tonight. 😘
• Any idea how much I fantasized about you after our date tonight?
• If I revealed the thoughts I have about you at work, I’d end up in the HR office.
• Nothing. It’s smooth as silk. (Referring to his previous question in a previous conversation to what’s your “situation down there”.
• Wish you would have kept your hand there longer.
• Did you notice? (He’ll ask, “notice what”?). That I wasn’t wearing any underwear? 😘
• I hope you didn’t notice. (He’ll ask what you mean). How much I was sweating when you got close to me.

5. Flirty, Confident Assumptions

Most men would agree that confidence is the sexist trait a woman can possess.

And if you feel comfortable enough pulling these flirty texts off then you could have him wrapped around your finger.

Tease him, it entices him to play along.

We want text conversations to be fun.

• Hey! Stop thinking about me already! lol
• Why can’t you stop thinking about me? Lol
• So, how many times have you daydreamed about my ass?
• You can’t stop thinking about making out with me, can you? Lol
• I see you stare at me a lot. What part do you like best?
• Try to resist checking out my breasts. Bet you can’t. (And so, now guess what he’ll try to do).
• Admit it. I made you sweat when grabbed your arm and kissed you on the cheek.
• So, admit how, um, hard, did you get when I put my hand on your leg at the movies?
• I bet you can’t resist picturing me in an elevator right now making out.
• I bet you can’t resist picturing me in anything but my panties and bra right now.

6. If I … would you …?

Follow this simple flirty text script question.

Use them as is or create your own customized texts to fit your situation preferences, and personality

• Hey, good-looking, if I admitted thinking about you today would you mind?
• Hey sweetie, if I touched your hand would you pull away?
• Hey cutie, if I whispered a secret into your ear would you blush?
• Tell me if this bothers you. If I thought something slightly naughty about you, would you get offended?
• If I stared at your beautiful eyes, would you get nervous?
• Hey, honey, if I breathed on your neck, would you sweat?

Insert flirty phrases that help him ease into flirting back like:

• …would you be offended?
• …would you touch back?
• …would you play along?
• …could you resist me?
• …would you mind?
• …would you get upset?

7. If I were …?

Put some of the power back in his hands.

Allow him to get turned on with these seductive invitations to have some naughty fun.

These may not be for everyone.

• “If I were there right now, what would you do?”
• “If I were alone in an elevator going to the top floor what would you join me?”
• “If I were undressing in front of the window would you look?”
• “If I were alone in my office at night would you come visit?
• “If I were taking a bath with the door cracked open, would you look?”
• “If I were wearing nothing but just my undies would you get excited?”

8. If we were … what would you want/what would happen?

This time around create imaginary scenarios together.

I would not use these on a new guy unless he has shown some interest.

Of course, it could still work if you have the confidence to test them out.

Just careful not to use them too early in a relationship, but I will leave that up to you.

• If we were alone on a deserted beach, what would happen?
• If we were stranded alone in an elevator what would happen next?
• If we were alone on your couch right now what would happen next?
• If we were naked alone in a cabin in the mountains what would you want?
• If we were alone in the pool with no one home would you want to remove our suits?

9. Incomplete Desires to Make Him Bet for More

Allude to strong emotional feelings you have, but hold back at revealing too much at first.

Let him ask for the rest.

• Text 1) I just got reminded of something I find sexy about you. Text 2) Never mind. I’m too embarrassed.
• Something sexy about you popped in my mind and now I can’t stop thinking about … Yum!
• If you only knew what I was thinking about you right now…
• I noticed something about you that turned me on and now I can’t get it out of my mind.
• Did you know how much it turns me on when you … ?

10. May I Ask You a Question?

May I ask you a question? (Wait for him to respond) then follow up with these examples:

• How did you learn to make a girl smile so much?
• Have you ever caught me checking you out?
• Do you have any idea how nervous I get when you look me in the eye?
• Any idea how hard I find it to not think about your handsome face?
• Do you know how sexy I find you?

What If He Does Not Respond the Way You Want?

It could just be bad timing, or maybe he just cannot respond.

A one-time failure to get a response does not necessarily spell danger.

Test out a few of these flirty texts at different times.

The pattern of his responses (or lack of them) will show you how he feels about you.

But, make no mistake, these will be hard to resist responding to.

Compelling, attention grabbing flirty comments and questions target a basic instinct of his to want to play along.

It’s fun and a huge turn on.

Of course, you can also check out dating coach for women Amy North’s Text Chemistry.

Some of the chapters in her eBook/videos teach how to handle this tricky situation, plus other texting challenges with men like when he does not text for a few days or seems emotionally distant.

What are your favorite Flirty Texts to send men?

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