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December 11, 2021 by Roaster Rick Leave a Comment

Make Him Want You: 10 Ways Men Find Women Attractive

Make Him Want You: 10 Ways Men Find Women Attractive

How familiar are you with the ways men find women attractive for more than just looks- do you know the different ways men find women attractive?

Some women just get it. They swallow their pride and let men be the person they want to be- while still earning their respect.

These women possess the confidence to pull this list of male mind hacks to drive us men wild for them.

It doesn’t matter if they are tall and skinny, short and pudgy, or not the best-looking.

They know things other women do not understand about men.

These women enjoy their lives with or without men and hold out for only the right emotionally mature relationship-seeking, available men who treat them well.

They don’t live in the past or beat themselves up when things don’t work out with a guy.

And above they stay true to themselves.

How open are you to learning new ways to dominate men emotionally?

Or do you just want to keep getting in your own way and pushing him away?

Learn the simple ways to make him want you while still getting the respect you desire.

Here are some of the things women do who have mastered the ways men find women attractive.

10 Ways Men Find Women Attractive that ONLY SOME Women Understand

Make Him Want You and Get the Respect You Desire

What do men find attractive in women?

First, let’s start with the ONLY two suggestions in this list that relate to physical beauty.

1. Choose Clothes and Apparel that Suit Your Body Type

I am NOT a fashionista by any means. But I do know that when a female dresses in a way that matches her body type it is quite attractive. We men like it when women carefully select a look that suits them. Think of it as finding the right brand for yourself. It makes you stand out.

Here are a few blog posts on other blogs that cover this topic:

  • Dressing for Your Body Shape Guide
  • The Five Most Flattering Dress for Your Body Shape
  • Determining Your Body Shape and Styles that Will Fit and Flatter

2. Choose the Hairstyle that Suits Your Body Type

Again, I’m personally know nothing about HOW to choose fashion or hairstyles BUT I do know how it makes me and other men feel when a woman chooses the right ones that fit her height and body type. No matter if you have extra padding or are tall or short, choosing the right fashion and hairstyle matters and can make you look super attractive.

Here are some blog posts on other blogs that cover this topic:

  • The Best Hairstyles for Women of Every Body Type
  • The Most Flattering Haircut for Your Body Type
  • Why Face Shape Matters When Choosing a Hairstyle

3. Enter His Personal Space

Show him that you don’t fear him and that you enjoy being up close and personal. Do this by simply entering his personal space within 3 feet of him. As you get close make sure you…

Here are some simple ways to move in on him that we men like:

  • Fix his collar
  • Remove a piece of lint from his shoulder
  • Straighten his shirt
  • Pull down the bill of his hat
  • Interlock your arm with his
  • Side-hug him for a second

And if you’re bold enough hug him around the neck and tell him how manly he smells.

4. Touch Him

…dominate him with simple inoffensive touch and watch how he warms up to you real quick.

Check out my blog post 10 Ways to Dominate a Man with Your Touch

Then next be sure to…

5. Hold Eye Contact and Slight Smile

We need to know that you approve of us and find us attractive. Besides just coming right out and telling us that another way is to 1) Enter His Personal Space 2) Touch Him (check out my post 10 Ways to Inoffensively Touch a Man and Make Him Want You 3) Hold Eye Contact and Smile

You don’t need a big smile (just a small, quick one) nor do you need to hold eye contact for long (just 1 to 2 seconds).

Read this blog post about these flirty female power moves.

6. Make Him Want More (Make Him Chase)

This may sound so simple that you get the urge to ignore it, but this is the single best advice for women dating or in a relationship with men I can give you.

Learn to make him want more.

Give him a little taste then metaphorically walk away.

This includes ALL aspects of communication:

  • Body language
  • Gestures and mannerisms
  • Text Messages
  • Voicemails
  • Phone Calls
  • Face-to-Face conversation

7. Tease Him with Playful Remarks and Questions

This one gets me… every time.

One of my all-time favorite exchanges with a woman came from a simple flirty remark.

After we worked together one day, she asked if I was checking her out.

When I said, “No.”

She replied, “That’s too bad. I wish you had.”

8. Flirty Curiosity-Inducing Text Messages

Text messages provide you with a quick way to turn things flirty with a man.

The trick is to write engaging texts that fascinate him and make it too hard to resist replying to.

One time I sent a text to a woman I met at a company softball league game.

In it, I commented and asked, ” I didn’t want to stare but what color are your eyes.”

Replied, “You can stare all you want.”

I about fell down from the excitement.

9. Cute Animated Gestures and Mannerisms

The more confident a woman feels and interactive she gets with a man, the more interesting it makes her look.

The same woman from number 8 on this list was an expert at expressing herself through animated body language.

I found her irresistibly attractive because of it.

Her feminine energy overpowered me.

She attracted me against my will.

Check out these examples of her animated gestures and mannerisms:

  • Blowing a kiss and winking
  • Walking as if modeling on a catwalk
  • Winking and then smiling
  • Tilting your head and laying it on your open hand while smiling and making eye contact
  • Waving and smiling
  • Biting your lower lip, winking, slightly smiling, and then making eye contact
  • Putting your hand up in a stop motion and turning your head away, then peeking back and smiling

10. Play with Props

Hats, coats, scarves, skirts… well… playing with any prop makes you more interesting and makes you magnetic.

Think of it like acting.

It just optimizes your attractiveness- your cuteness.

Here are some examples:

  • Partially covering your face with a hat while peeking around it with one eye.
  • Tilting your glasses down while peeking above them and smirking
  • Tilting your hat to the side while making eye contact and smiling
  • Holding up your coat and hiding behind it like a curtain then dropping it and curtsying like an actress
  • Swirling your finger around the rim of a wine glass in a circular motion while making powerful eye contact

BONUS 1: Ask for Help- Fix Your Problem

Men cannot resist the temptation to solve problems for you. It makes us feel useful and needed.

Learn how to tap into our male emotional trigger systems with the help of relationship coach James Bauer’s His Secret Obsession.

I share the highlights of the top features of His Secret Obsession here in my blog post.

BONUS 2: Learn About the Hero Instinct

Why do we men fascinate about feeling like your hero?

When you accept that our needs to please you are simple and do not take it personally that we want to help you then you’ll be amazed how easy it becomes to make men chase you.

Check out these male emotional mind hacks in my blog post.

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November 7, 2021 by Roaster Rick 1 Comment

50+ Fun Activities for Couples on Vacation in the US

50+ Fun Activities for Couples on Vacation in the US

What fun activities for couples do you do on your vacations?

The Years 2020 and 2021 were scary at times, surrounded by so much uncertainty, but my girlfriend and I found some that we like while traveling.

These activities helped draw us closer.

What fun things do you like to do on vacation with your partner? (Please share in the comments field at the bottom).

You don’t even have to go to the hottest destinations to escape reality with your romantic partner and have a memorable time.

Nor do you have to travel far away.

We live in Florida so we have world-class beaches all around, but we’ve encountered “time-stands-still” moments in some not-as-known spots in 2020 and 2021…

…places like Omaha, Nebraska; Cleveland, Ohio, or St. Louis, Missouri.

Regardless of how popular the vacation spot is, big or small it was, we found the same fun activities for couples to enjoy.

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Tours for Couples

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Iconic Landmarks

You’ve seen them on TV. Now it’s time to experience them in person. One of my all-time favorite fun activities for couples I’ve done is visit and go to the top of the Gateway Arch in St Louis during a long layover.

  • Check out 25 Top US Landmarks

Top Ten Things to Do List

Every city showcases a Top 10 list of sites to experience whether that’s iconic landmarks, recreational activities, restaurants, historical landmarks, etc.

Walking Tours

Cities that have many landmark sites within walking distance offer short walking tours.

Cultural

Many big cities offer tours through their artistic, trendy neighborhoods.

Architecture

Check out the story behind the buildings. Take an architectural tour in the next city you visit.

Historic

From haunted to a city’s first settlers. Learn the story behind the character of a city.

Segway

Scoot around on a futuristic-style scooter.

  • All US guided Segway Tours

ATVs

Give your next tour an adventurous twist. Take an ATV for a test run.

Culinary

Let a local guide take you to the best restaurants and bars. Plus, learn the history behind them.

Cocktail

Discover the popular spots and hidden gems.

Haunted Tours

Ghost tours provide great thrills and frills. Check out these haunted tours in your next city. Check these haunted tours in different US cities.

Art

Check out the hipster neighborhoods of the cities you visit. These sections of town normally are full of local coffee shops, boutique stores, and bars too.

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Guided boating tours in either the warm waters off the coast of Florida or in the cold waters of the Puget Sound by Seattle.

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Sunset Boat Rides

Sip on a split of sparkling wine and cuddle while you watch the sun go down.

Ferry Rides

Get a history lesson on the great Mississippi or Missouri rivers or on one of our country’s iconic bays.

Scenic Ferry Rides in North America

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Fishing

Guided deep-sea fishing excursions or on rivers or lakes.

Snorkeling and Scuba Diving

View an underwater paradise in the gulf or ocean waters.

Swim with Dolphins

Get close and personal with one of nature’s most beloved mammals.

Trolley Ride

Most big cities in the US have trolley transportation, but, of course, none is more iconic than the ones in San Francisco.

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Adventures for Couples

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Island Hopping

By boat or by plane.

Helicopter Ride

A nature view or in the city.

Skydiving

Only for the most adventurous and brave.

Zipline

Another one for thrill-seekers in nature.

  • Highest Ziplines in the US

Rock Climbing

For the fittest.

Hot Air Balloon Ride

Great in wine country.

  • Top Hot Air Balloon Rides in the US

Paddle Boarding

In rivers, lakes, ponds, or even bays.

Horseback Riding

Trek through hills, valleys, mountains, or the countryside.

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Culinary and Beverage Experienes

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Wine in Napa Anyone?

Local Culinary Tours

Find the best spots to dine in town and the history behind them.

  • Top Foodie US Cities

Beverage Tours

Check out the most popular libation joints in town and the history behind them.

Factory Tours

Breweries, distilleries, candy, and more. Discovery the secrets to success behind some of your favorite brands.

  • Factory Tours Directory in Every State

Top Local Restaurants

Instead of a tour, find the spots that interest you most.

Courses and Classes

Cocktail or cooking classes, learn how the locals craft their creations and learn the history behind them. These are some of the more interactive fun activities for couples to experience.

Wine/Beer/Spirits Tastings

Another way to experience what the locals have to offer.

  • Best West Coast Wineries to Visit

Cafe or Bakery Hopping

Finding the hard-to-find desserts feels like one of the biggest accomplishments. Check out the local coffee shops and bakeries in the next city or town you visit.

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Fun Rentals for Couples

Scooter Rentals- Fun Activities for Couples Vacations
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Scooters

A fun way to explore neighborhoods, popular thorough ways, and scenic spots.

Bikes

Exercise while taking in the local scene.

Kayaks

On rivers, bays, or lakes.

  • Best Kayak Rental Sites in the US

Jet Skis

Get your blood flowing while flying across the surface of the water.

Sports Cars

Buzz down the freeway and soak in the sun in a convertible.

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ATVs

Try some backroad excitement and leave your worries behind.

Go Carts

Race each other to the finish line for bragging rights.

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Iconic Places of Interest for Couples

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Bird’s Eye View of the City from an Observation Deck or Rooftop Bar

Popular Landmarks and Monuments

Nothing like seeing the real thing in person.

  • 50 Top US Landmarks

Bridges

The coolest ones you can drive on and experience them first hand.

  • 25 Famous US Bridges

Observation Decks

Take in the breathtaking views of the city from hotel rooftops, office buildings, or even designated observation towers.

  • 10 Observation Decks in the US

Parks with a View

Some of the best overlook the city skyline.

  • Top Scenic US City Parks

Historic Theaters

Plays, musicals, or even movies. Check out these local jewels.

  • Oldest Theaters in America

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Seasonal and Special Events for Couples

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Music Festivals

Popular world-renown bands or local artists.

  • Top US Music Festivals

Food Festivals

BBQ, local cuisine, or a mix of different types of cuisine all at one single event.

  • 28 Best Food Festivals in the US

Historic

Re-enactments of an event in our history to observe or an immersive experience to engage in.

  • Top US Living History Events

Sports

Feel the roar of the crowd and join in while the locals root on their heroes. Plus take in local cuisines and beers.

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  • Most Exciting Sporting Event in Every State

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Historical Places of Interest for Couples

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Get Lost in a Museum Together?

Museums

Find some peace and quiet in the halls of the town’s best displays of art, history, inventions, and more.

  • Top 25 US Museums Ranked

Parks

Another great escape from the noise. See where the locals go to get away from life’s hectic routines.

Buildings and Other Architectural Structures

Even if you don’t go inside, just stand at the base and look up. Feel the majestic allure of the town’s most iconic pieces of architecture.

  • America’s Favorite Architectural Structures

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Theme Parks and Amusement Parks

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Walt Disney World

Let’s just say, I know a thing or two about WDW. I’ve worked there for decades. Check out some of the great events for adults that take place at EPCOT such as the International Food and Wine Festival in the fall. And right now the 50th anniversary for the entire resort just kicked off 10/01/21 and lasts until April 2023.

  • WDW Special Events Calendar (WDW Official Site)
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Universal Studios Orlando

Some absolutely fabulous attractions have popped up in both theme parks. Universal Orlando makes for a great weekend trip for couples.

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Cedar Point

Growing up in Ohio I got to experience the best roller coaster park in the world every summer. If you two are roller coaster enthusiasts then Cedar Point is a must-see.

  • Visit Cedar Point in Ohio

Six Flags Amusement Parks

Six Flags produces some of the best amusement parks in the country. Find the closest Six Flags Park to you for a weekend getaway.

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Nature Sites and Outdoor Fun Activities for Couples

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Beaches and Shelling

Some of the best beaches in the US you’ll find in Florida, especially on the Gulf Coast. Check out some of the best ones here. Fly into a nearby city, and leave your worries behind.

  • Best Florida Gulf Coast Beaches

Hiking in the Mountains or National Parks

I have this marked on my wishlist, and the US offers some great mountain weekend getaway trips for couples.

Here’s a list of mountain resorts and national parks near mountains.

Bird Watching

Seeing birds of many different species and colors is quite thrilling in the wild.

Check out this list of parks around the country to view them.

Botanical Gardens and Arboretums

Here’s one of my girlfriend’s and my most relaxing fun activities for couples to do on trips.

My two favorite so far are

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Natural Springs and Hot Springs

Here are more of Florida’s natural beauties that I still have to see.

And throughout the US you can find noteworthy natural springs.

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Relaxing Fun Activities for Couples

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Vineyards and Wineries

If you want time to stand still then go to wine country. Taste local wines, snack on a cheese board, and observe the rolling vine-laden hills for as far as the eyes can see.

If you want something closer, then check out the list of popular vineyards and wineries throughout the US.

Golfing

Of course, you’d both have to know how to play, but it’s easy to find beautiful courses that suit your level of play around the country

Here’s a list of great golf courses for couples around the US.

  • Best Golf Vacations for Couples

Tennis

Golf is not your game, how about tennis? Why not go on a quick getaway trip for couples to a resort just to relax some and play tennis.

  • Top US Tennis Resorts

Spa Resort

Or maybe you can find a resort that has golf, tennis, and a spa. If you have not done a couples massage before I highly recommend it.

  • Best Weekend Spa Getaways for Couples

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Adult Fun Activities for Couples

Couples Shopping Trip- Fun Activities for Couples Vacations
Take in Local Neighborhood Shops, Explore Where Locals Shop

Casinos

You don’t have to go to Las Vegas to get the weekend casino experience.

  • 50 Best US Casinos

Shopping

Even if just window shopping, this is one the most enjoyable ways to check out local neighborhoods and see how the residents live.

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