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May 17, 2021 by Roaster Rick Leave a Comment

10 Love Text Messages for Him to Strengthen Your Relationship

10 Love Text Messages for Him to Strengthen Your Relationship

With these love text messages, you will build a stronger bond with your man.

Except these texts are better than anything you’ve ever sent.

Why?

Because they reach him at a much deeper level than flirty or romantic texts.

Men may not seem expressive to you at times.

It’s because they don’t trust that you get them. And that you will take advantage of him and make him feel bad about who he is and even worse…

…manipulate and guilt him to do things for you. This is literally the worse thing you can do to a guy if you want him to stick around. And no other guy will tell you this besides me.

Guys understand guys.

And we’ll share more with our guy friends more than with you.

Sorry.

But you have a secret weapon.

Me.

To help you hack your man’s mind…

…in a good way

…that he will appreciate.

And…

…if you’d like to learn what matters most to us guys on a deeper emotional level then I highly recommend that you master the concepts and action steps taught in HIS SECRET OBSESSION by dating and relationship coach James Bauer.

I swear by these techniques when advising my female mail subscribers.

[Click here] to scan through the best parts of HIS SECRET OBSESSION that I highlight here in this post of mine 9 Secret Signals of His Secret Obsession that Trigger the Hero Instinct.

Or go straight to the source and watch James’s informational video.

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10 Kinds of Love Text Messages Designed to Connect with Your Boyfriend or Husband…

…so that he trusts that you actually love him and want what’s best for him

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How to Tell Him that He’s Your Guy (explain what we need and what we fear), do not lie, be genuine, see it from both your viewpoint and his

Love Text Messages to Show Your Approval of, Appreciation for, Admiration of or Attraction to…

1. His Career: Choice, Accomplishments, or Just Having His Back During Struggles

Guys brag about themselves.

You know that.

But do you take advantage of that and put it in your favor?

I’d bet that you don’t because you fear stroking his ego.

There are positive, healthy ways to do it which will give him no choice but to adore you.

  • “I couldn’t be more proud of you for winning the (x) award. You deserved it. I admire your persistence to succeed.”
  • “Nothing makes me happier to see you doing what you love most.”
  • “Keep your head up, honey. Remember that the most rewarding things in life don’t usually come easy. You’ll find a way to make it work.”

2. Him Making You Feel Safe, Protected

This doesn’t mean being physically protected like a knight with a sword and shield, rather that he’s looking out for your best interests and well-being.

  • “Thank you for always checking if I arrive to work safely. I love having a man who looks out for my best interests.”
  • “When you held me tonight I felt like I was in Superman’s strong arms.”
  • “Sweetie, I love your gentleman gestures, like when you walk me to the passenger side door and open it more me. It feels like your my lover and guardian.”

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3. His Lover Skills

We men want to feel like we can please you intimately. In our minds, if we do that, then you won’t want to seek another man because you will feel fulfilled.

This can be romantic or downright sexy and dirty.

  • “I get shivers throughout my body when you touch me.”
  • “Just the way you look at me when you smile sends shivers throughout my body.”
  • “I get wet just thinking about making love to you.”
Love text messages that he wants to receive from you.
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4. His Sense of Humor

Do you know one of the best paths to a guy’s heart?

Laugh at his jokes.

We want to feel like we can entertain you.

  • “Even when I feel most down you find a way to make me laugh to cheer me up. Thank you darling.”
  • “You know how to make any moment entertaining. Thank you for the laughs tonight.”
  • “I feel so special that we still create new inside jokes. It keeps things fresh and new. Love you.”

5. He Wants to Feel Like a Good Provider

He knows that you don’t need taken care of. This has nothing to do with that. Instead, he just wants to know that you appreciate his effort to do his part financially. We as men fear that we will lose you to another man who can offer more financially. This is why you have had men try to impress you with what they own, what they do for a living and how much money they have.

  • “I know times have been tough for you financially this year. I appreciate everything you do for me, darling.”
  • “You’ve got a lot on your plate financially sweetie. Thank you for dinner and the beautiful flowers. Just know I always have your back. I love you for who you are no matter what you give me.”
  • “The expensive perfume was quite the surprise. Thank you. Just know that it’s never the price but the thought that matters most to me. Love you.”

6. Show that You Appreciate His Giving Nature

We want to feel like you notice our efforts to make you happy. Even when we bring you a gift or do something special for you and you don’t like the gift or need the favor, we want you to recognize our good intentions.

You can voice this with texts so that he knows that you appreciate him.

  • “Thank you sweetie for doing all that you do for our kids. I couldn’t ask for a better husband.”
  • “I love when you bring me beautiful flowers. It makes me feel special. I’m so lucky to have you.”
  • “You give me the best birthday gifts. How do you know exactly what I want. You know me so well.”
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7. Express How Much Fun He Is to Spend Time With

We also want to feel that you have a good time with us. That when we’re not together that you think about having a good time with us. We also want to feel like we know how to show you a good time.

And in this way, it brings us a sense of security that you won’t need another man who can entertain you better than us.

  • “Oh, honey, how do you know what I like so well? You sure know how to show a girl a good time.”
  • “You sure know how to surprise me. How did you know that I would like to (x)?”
  • “Even when I feel down, you know how to lift my spirits by showing me a good time. Thank you, honey.”

8. Show Interest in His Passions, Skills, and Talents

Show him that what matters to him matters to you. It’s another way to show that you care about his needs.

  • “I love that you have a passion for (x) and that you are so good at it. Not everyone has the persistence to strive for excellence.”
  • “It’s amazing that you learned to (x). You’re so smart. It’s quite impressive sweetie.”
  • “Honey, how did you learn to (x), anyway? I find that amazing about you.”

9. Show Support for His Personal Space

Displaying trust and that you understand his need for time to himself will go a long way. This shows that you are secure in yourself and that you don’t need to smother him.

Big wins for any guy.

  • “I know we planned to (x) together, but we can do it another time. Have fun with your friends. I know you haven’t seen them much of late.”
  • “You’ve been working so hard lately. How about you go on a getaway trip with some of your friends? A guys’ trip.”
  • “It seems like you’re stressed from a the things you’re juggling. Would you like some time to yourself to recoup?”

10. Let Him Know that You Respect and Value the Qualities He Prides about Himself…

… without stroking his ego too much.

One of the best ways, if not the best way, to connect with someone, is to identify the qualities they take pride in about themselves and recognize them for it.

Do that, and they will adore you.

  • “I’ve never met someone more persistent and determined to achieve their dreams. Love you hun.”
  • “You never cease to amaze me how you juggle everything and still get it done.”
  • “How do you manage to handle the stress in your life and still carry that stunning smile.”

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I’ve received tons of emails from women wanting to know how to connect with their man in ways that turn her into his obsession.

The key to his heart is simple (provided you make a good long-term personality and life goals match).

Show him that you know what matters most to him.

What he wants in life.

How he sees himself.

And what role he wants to play in a relationship with a woman.

How can you do that?

Unlock those secrets in relationship coach James Bauer’s “His Secret Obsession”.

I HIGHLY recommend that read this cover-to-cover at least twice.

And then read the sections that stand out to you from time to time.

Either [click here] to get more information about His Secret Obsession in this video.

Or read this post of mine 9 Secret Signals of His Secret Obsession that Trigger the Hero Instinct to find out what I feel the most important sections of the eBook to open the door to his heart.

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Which Love Text Messages Open the Door to His Heart Most?

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July 28, 2020 by Roaster Rick 1 Comment

Romantic Texts vs Dirty Texts to Flirt and Dominate Men

Romantic Texts vs Dirty Texts to Flirt and Dominate Men

Cute and romantic texts or seductive and dirty ones? Not sure which route to take? Fear it could get out of control and go the wrong direction?

I’m here to help.

I created this blog post to show you how to take a fill-in-the-blank texts message script (a template) and turn them into romantic texts or seductive texts

(I even give movie-style ratings for the dirty texts: R-rated up to XXX).

I’m a guy who runs a few relationship blogs and a newsletter with thousands of female subscribers.

My goal is always to help my female viewers and subscribers to connect with relationship-seeking men on a deeper level.

Every relationship situation is different and your flirting preferences may differ from other women.

But one thing is for sure, all of us men like to have fun and flirt via text.

You just have to choose which direction to take it.

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To Text or to Sext? That is the Question

Do you feel comfortable spicing things up and getting seductive?

Some of you don’t feel comfortable sexting.

Therefore, I want to give you options.

You cannot send the same message in every situation.

So, keep in mind how well you know the guy and how respectful he treats you.

What kinds of compliments does he give you?

Does he seem bring up sex often?

Is it too early for you to talk about sex?

Choose your own path.

But here is how you can take texts and make them either romantic texts or dirty texts.

Need suggestions? Let me help you brew up your own romantic texts or erotic texts. Email me.

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Romantic Texts vs Dirty Texts: Sweet and Cute or Spicy and Seductive?

(Fill-in-the-blank text scripts to create your own)

Directions: Check out the descriptions of each text script. Then look at my romantic texts and dirty texts examples first. Copy-and-paste to send as is or swap out the text in parentheses with your own based on your preference. Plus, feel free to change up my word choice to suit your needs.

1. If we were (______) what would happen next?

Give him the nudge to tell the rest of the story. Some guys won’t need a nudge, others will.

Romantic Texts Examples

  • If we were (outside, it was cold and we had no coats, just each other,) what would happen next?
  • If we were (bored with nothing else to do but stare into each other’s eyes) what would happen next?
  • If we were (seated at a fancy dimly lit bar, and your hand slipped on top of mine,) what would happen next?

*Single? Dating? Looking for more tips how to create romantic chemistry via texts? Check out one of my favorite flirty text guides Text Chemistry by dating coach Amy North.

*In a relationship? Feel like the loving feelings and romance have gone? I highly recommend mastering the fundamental techniques to bond with your partner taught in relationship coach Michael Fiore’s Text the Romance Back. Click here to watch the informational video on Text the Romance Back.

Dirty Texts Examples

  • (PG-rated) If we were (all alone in a parked car while it stormed outside) what would happen next?
  • (R-rated) If we were (stuck in traffic and my hand rested on your thigh) what would happen next?
  • (R-rated) If we were (scantily dressed while cooking together) what would happen next?

*Want more tips how to master the art of talking dirty to a man while keeping your dignity while releasing your inner sexual beast, including copy-and-paste text examples?

Check out one of my favorite seduction guides designed for women Language of Desire by dating coach Felicity Keith, who practices what she preaches.

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Which Romantic Text is Best?

2. If we (_____) would you rather (x) or (y)?

See what he’s thinking by giving him options.

Romantic Texts Examples

  • If we (were on a walk,) would you rather (we hold hands) or (should I pretend I don’t know you and walk fast)?

[Here you tease him a little to playfully make it like you don’t want to associate with him. Make him work to earn your affection and approval.]

  • If we (were watching Netflix on the couch) would you rather (whisper sweet things in my ear) or (get shy and just watch the movie?)
  • If we (got a drink at a rooftop bar with a scenic view) would you rather (get lost in my eyes) or (in my lips?)

Dirty Text Examples

  • (R-rated) If we (sat on the couch,) would you rather (get close and persona) l or (get shy and just watch the movie?)
  • (R-rated) If we (stood close together at a party,) would you rather (move closer) or (go somewhere more private?)
  • (R-rated) If we (were trapped inside a cabin in the middle of the woods while it snowed) would you rather (just sit by the fire and warm up) or (do something a little more “creative”?)
  • (R-rated) If we (waded through the water of a tropical beach with no one around) would you rather (stay clothed) or (not?)

3. If I told you a secret about (_____), would you (x) or (y)?

The power word “secret” triggers his need to unlock it, especially when he knows when you’re flirting with him.

Romantic Text Examples

  • If I told you a secret about (what I thought of your handsome face,) would you (get excited and do something about it) or (just get scared)?
  • If I told you a secret about (something hot, I noticed about you on our first date,) would you (blush) or (get excited)?
  • If I told you a secret yummy thought that I had about (my favorite photo of yours,) would you (get shy) or (ask for more)?

*In a relationship? Feel disconnected from your partner? Learn how to bring your partner closer with the texting strategies taught in relationship coach Michael Fiore’s Text the Romance Back. Click here to watch the informational video on Text the Romance Back.

Dirty Text Examples

I added the word “dirty” to all of them.

  • (R-rated) If I told you a dirty secret about (my favorite panties,) would you (blush and get shy) or (get excited)?
  • (R-rated) If I told you a dirty secret about (my body,) would you (want to know it) or (rather I just keep it to myself)?

[You can turn this X-rated by swapping out “body” for specific body parts].

  • (X-rated) If I told you a dirty secret thought I had about (a certain part of your body) would (your heart burst with excitement) or (would you keep calm and collect ha, ha, ha)?

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4. If a cute girl (_____), what would you do next?

This seems counter-intuitive, but you are teasing him here while referring to yourself in third-person. It’s just another way to act playfully and cute.

Romantic Text Examples

  • If a cute girl (moved closer to you while on a first date,) what would you do next handsome?
  • If a cute girl (looked right in your eyes for a few seconds then smiled,) what would you do next?
  • If a cute girl (with sweet perfume fixed your collar, smiled and winked while she did,) what would you do next?
  • If a cute girl (told you how handsome you were,) what would you do next?
  • If a cute girl (sat next to you at a bar with all the other seats empty, then said hello,) what would you do next?

*In a relationship? Feel like roommates instead of a couple? I highly recommend mastering the fundamental techniques to feel in love again taught in relationship coach Michael Fiore’s Text the Romance Back. Click here to watch the informational video on Text the Romance Back.

Dirty Text Examples

  • (R-rated) If a cute girl (were undressing with the bathroom door cracked open) what would you do next?
  • (X-rated) If a cute girl (were touching herself on the couch while watching a movie) what would you next?
  • (XXX-rated) If a cute girl (rubbed your inner thigh while watching TV) what would happen next?

5. You don’t mind (x) when (y), do you?

Here’s a push and pull technique. You give him what he wants while teasing him to take it away. In this case, you tease him to say in so many words, “No, of course I don’t mind, in fact, I want more.”

Romantic Text Examples

  • You don’t mind (me staring at your beautiful eyes when you drive,) do you?
  • You don’t mind (when I move in closer to you,) do you?
  • You don’t mind (when a cute girl tells you how handsome you are,) do you?
  • You don’t mind (if I get up close like this and smile,) do you?
  • You don’t mind (if a cute girl puts her hand here on your back,) do you?

Dirty Text Examples

  • (R-rated) You don’t mind (if a cute girl puts her hand, um, on your thigh), do you?
  • (X-rated) You don’t mind (me touching myself while we chat), do you?
  • (XXX-rated) You don’t mind me (thinking about imagining massaging your cock while we text,) do you?

Sweet or seductive, which romantic texts and dirty texts do you like most?

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July 8, 2020 by Roaster Rick 4 Comments

10 Ways to Dominate and Turn On Men with Touch

10 Ways to Dominate and Turn On Men with Touch

NOTHING drives us men wilder than when you touch us.

Sounds pretty obvious, but I don’t just mean sexually.

In fact, in this post, I will NOT discuss anything sexual, just cute, and romantic.

When my girlfriend put her arm around my side for the first time on our first date, it instantly ignited an emotional attraction switch inside me.

I couldn’t help but like it and like her back.

I felt at ease, accepted, desired.

It gave me the “green light” I needed to know that she liked me and that I had permission to proceed to flirt back.

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Now, understand, that I’m NOT suggesting that it’s your responsibility to make the first move as a woman.

No.

But if you like a guy and you want him to see you for more than friends then you must touch him in ways that give him the signal that expresses your attraction to him.

Make it known that you like him.

Then he knows that he can proceed without fear of rejection or feeling like a creep.

It won’t take much, just a small gesture to send shivers throughout his body.

The combination of where you touch him, how you do it, and the flirty comments you say to tease him will tell him that he has permission to flirt back.

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Touch Him, Tease Him, Give Him Permission to Flirt Back Like This…

1. Back of Head

Watch your dirty mind now.

Not that head, his actual head.

Nothing on this list will warm him up to you and draw him closer to you faster than when you touch and caress the back of his head.

It feels so soothing, like a mini massage.

Flirt with him a bit and say, “If I keep petting you like this will your leg start to shake?”

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2. Forearm

Ask him to get something down for you from a high shelf then touch his forearm, make eye contact, smile, and say thank you. Or get bolder and say “thank you handsome”.

Or…

***(This one is only for the most confident girls BUT it is SUUUPER FLIRTY and EPICALLY Cute…)

Lightly touch his forearm, look him in the eyes, then pretend to appear serious and say, “(his name) I’m sorry, but I think we have to break up. I want to see other people.” Then smile, giggle, wink, and walk away.

OR…

Tease him. Open the door for him, lightly touch his forearm and say, “It’s not every day I get to hold the door open for a handsome man.”

Now you might think that I am asking you to play a game.

And I am, just not mind games.

If you don’t have fun and we don’t have fun then what’s the point?

How would you expect him to feel attracted to you if you do not have fun with him and tease him a bit?

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3. Bicep

Lock one arm of his and jokingly ask, “So, when are we getting married?”

Or…

Grab his arm and jokingly ask him to step over in your office (three feet away). Then say something flirty like “Mister you’ve got to stop turning on all these girls around here with your manly voice.”

Or…

While in a parking lot, put your arm around his and ask him to accompany you to your car. Try something flirty like, “You know, it’s a dangerous world out here? How about protecting a damsel in distress and escorting her safely to her car? It’s just over there. Let’s go.”

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4. Hand

Jokingly ask to read his palm so you can tell him his future.

Then tease him about how he’s going to find his princess (describe yourself) and that you’ll carry her off to his castle far away.

Or something else just as silly like he’s going to become a farmer and marry a girl (describe yourself) and have some ridiculously high number of kids. Then you’ll raise a bunch of goats, cows, horses, llamas, whatever. Make a joke of it. But look at him in the eyes, smile, and laugh.

It’s silly and fun- it’s supposed to be.

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5. Shoulder, Upper Back

Say that you’re tired then give a pouty puppy dog face then place one arm around him and lean your head on his shoulder for a quick second.

Or…

Compliment his eyes and ask to take a closer look to determine the color while you place your hand on his shoulder.

6. Lower Back

Pick up something he dropped then touch the small of his back, look in his eyes and say “You’re welcome handsome”.

Or as you pass by him place your hand on his lower back and hold it there a second and say, “Excuse me handsome.”

7. Adjust His Collar, Shirt or Tie

Fix his collar or tie, straighten his shirt, remove a piece of lint.
Take your time doing it. Ask him permission first.

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8. Play with Him, Compare Feet Size

Ask to compare feet size. Then place your foot next to his or your hand up to his hand.

There are endless ways to find a reasonable excuse to move in close and apply innocent touch to non-private parts of his body.

This is an easy one.

9. Chest

Nothing sexual.

Just rest your hand on his chest when making a point.

It’ll look natural.

Make sure to look him in the eyes and hold eye contact, and give a smile- nothing to happy, though.

Say something bold and flirty like, “Wow, you’re heart’s really racing. Do I make you nervous darling.”

Or “Wow, I can feel your heart beating, do you always get this nervous around girls?”

No guy could help but get turned on from flirty, confident remarks like those.

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10. Leg

Still not getting sexual, but a simple resting of your hand on his leg while he drives or you sit next to him at a restaurant or bench outdoors while looking up at the moon and stars.

Just having your warm hand there will give him butterflies.

Say something romantic like, “You know I already made my wish to my lucky star, still waiting for my kiss, though.”

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Summary of Ways to Touch Men that Dominate Them and Draw them Closer to You

In case you feel uncertain about your ability to attract men and draw them to you, guess again.

You have an abundance of female superpowers that drive us wild that we find super attractive.

Touch is by far the most effective one.

In this blog post, we only discussed innocent and romantic ways to touch him and the cute, flirty comments that you could make to turn him on.

Again, if you want some tips on how to say the right things to turn on men sexually while still guarding your dignity and maintaining the power then check out Language of Desire.

Dating coach Felicity Keith has helped thousands of women to successfully flirt and turn on men without feeling ashamed and while earning the respect of the men they interact with.

What’s the Most Effective Way to Turn On Men and Dominate Them with Touch?

Share your comment and opinions below.

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July 8, 2020 by Roaster Rick 4 Comments

Flirty Texts to Send Men and Get a Naughty Response Back

Flirty Texts to Send Men and Get a Naughty Response Back

I cannot guarantee that men will always respond, but these flirty texts will increase his response rate.

Now please do not misunderstand me.

I don’t want you to sit around your phone and wait for him to reply.

Chasing him goes against what I recommend women do in meeting men, dating and relationships.

On the contrary, I want you to control the situation.

Because we want to see you as the “prize”.

And in order for that to happen you need him to chase you.

These flirty texts can get the ball rolling for you in text conversations and flick his emotional triggers to ask and beg for more.

A heads up, many of these get pretty seductive, so please choose the flirty text examples that fit your situation best.

Factor in what you feel comfortable sending, how well you know the guy and the agreed-upon status of your relationship.

However, you are the bold, confident type then do not hesitate to take a little risk by dropping one of the more risqué texts in this blog post.

Also, if you seek some tips on how to talk dirty to a man that drives us wild then dating coach Felicity Keith’s Language of Desire hits the mark. (Many men she collaborated with to make the course would agree).

I’ve been reviewing lately and can attest that many of her lessons work to spark a strong sexual desire in us, even at times against our will.

Think of mastering these techniques as gaining an unfair advantage over us.

Now, let’s move onto the…

10 Kinds of Flirty Texts that Get Him to Respond and Make Him Ask for More

1. “Guess what?”

Who can resist answering this question?

You can’t over do this flirty text technique because it will look like you are luring him along.

Try different versions of this question.

Randomly drop him one.

  • Guess what I dreamed about you last night?
  • Guess why I couldn’t sleep last night handsome? 😉
  • Guess what I’m thinking about right now gorgeous?
  • Guess where you’re taking me cutie?
  • Guess what I’m smiling about right now?
  • Guess what I noticed about you the other day sexy?

And here are some sexy “Guessing What?” flirty texts (if your relationship is that point- or when it gets there).

  • Guess what I’m not wearing?
  • Guess where I just put my bra/panties? (The answer here is not what makes this super-hot text work. It’s the flirty teasing of planting the image in his mind).
  • Guess what, umm, I’m about to do in this dark room alone 😉?

2. “Guess I’ll just have to …”

Drop one of these flirty texts in his inbox when he least expects it.

He’ll rush to find out the rest of your thoughts.

Kill us and dominate us with visuals (if you’re comfortable with it)

Again, choose who you send these to wisely, it might be to soon.

  • Guess I’ll just have to stop admiring this picture of you.
  • Guess I’ll just have to stop thinking about you.
  • Guess I’ll just have to stop thinking about your … ha…

And now some sexier ones…

  • Guess I’ll just have to put my panties back up.
  • Guess I’ll just have to put my bra back on.

Keep in mind some of the keys to flirting via text and to make yourself the “prize-to-be-won” and to make men chase.

  • Keep it fun, don’t always have normal serious conversations
  • Tease him
  • Make him guess what you’re thinking
  • Leave out parts of the texts to get him to ask for the rest
  • Make yourself mysterious
  • And even be the one to END the conversations.

3. Inside Joke/Story

Take advantage of a recent situation that happened between you two or a running joke that started.

Any new story gives you more opportunities to turn up the flirty dial and have some fun.

  • Elevator. 5 minutes. Let’s pick up where we left off last night. 😘
  • You sure talked the big talk the other night. Let’s see if you can walk it tonight.
  • So, when are you going to complete your promise?
  • I’m still blushing handsome from what you said.
  • What you said got me thinking.
  • So, I did it again. 🙄
  • I’m still waiting sweetie…

[Related blog post: 10 Sexy Texts to Drive Men Wild]

4. Unspoken Secrets

We go crazy when you share your ongoing secret desires.

To know that you’ve been holding back and admiring us makes us feel lucky and desired.

  • My fingernails and blouse weren’t the only purple things I wore tonight. 😘
  • Any idea how much I fantasized about you after our date tonight?
  • If I revealed the thoughts I have about you at work, I’d end up in the HR office.
  • Nothing. It’s smooth as silk. (Referring to his previous question in a previous conversation to what’s your “situation down there”.
  • Wish you would have kept your hand there longer.
  • Did you notice? (He’ll ask, “notice what”?). That I wasn’t wearing any underwear? 😘
  • I hope you didn’t notice. (He’ll ask what you mean). How much I was sweating when you got close to me.

5. Flirty, Confident Assumptions

Most men would agree that confidence is the sexist trait a woman can possess.

And if you feel comfortable enough pulling these flirty texts off then you could have him wrapped around your finger.

Tease him, it entices him to play along.

We want text conversations to be fun.

  • Hey! Stop thinking about me already! lol
  • Why can’t you stop thinking about me? Lol
  • So, how many times have you daydreamed about my ass?
  • You can’t stop thinking about making out with me, can you? Lol
  • I see you stare at me a lot. What part do you like best?
  • Try to resist checking out my breasts. Bet you can’t. (And so, now guess what he’ll try to do).
  • Admit it. I made you sweat when grabbed your arm and kissed you on the cheek.
  • So, admit how, um, hard, did you get when I put my hand on your leg at the movies?
  • I bet you can’t resist picturing me in an elevator right now making out.
  • I bet you can’t resist picturing me in anything but my panties and bra right now.

6. If I … would you …?

Follow this simple flirty text script question.

Use them as is or create your own customized texts to fit your situation preferences, and personality

  • Hey, good-looking, if I admitted thinking about you today would you mind?
  • Hey sweetie, if I touched your hand would you pull away?
  • Hey cutie, if I whispered a secret into your ear would you blush?
  • Tell me if this bothers you. If I thought something slightly naughty about you, would you get offended?
  • If I stared at your beautiful eyes, would you get nervous?
  • Hey, honey, if I breathed on your neck, would you sweat?

Insert flirty phrases that help him ease into flirting back like:

  • …would you be offended?
  • …would you touch back?
  • …would you play along?
  • …could you resist me?
  • …would you mind?
  • …would you get upset?

7. If I were …?

Put some of the power back in his hands.

Allow him to get turned on with these seductive invitations to have some naughty fun.

These may not be for everyone.

  • “If I were there right now, what would you do?”
  • “If I were alone in an elevator going to the top floor what would you join me?”
  • “If I were undressing in front of the window would you look?”
  • “If I were alone in my office at night would you come visit?
  • “If I were taking a bath with the door cracked open, would you look?”
  • “If I were wearing nothing but just my undies would you get excited?”

8. If we were … what would you want/what would happen?

This time around create imaginary scenarios together.

I would not use these on a new guy unless he has shown some interest.

Of course, it could still work if you have the confidence to test them out.

Just careful not to use them too early in a relationship, but I will leave that up to you.

  • If we were alone on a deserted beach, what would happen?
  • If we were stranded alone in an elevator what would happen next?
  • If we were alone on your couch right now what would happen next?
  • If we were naked alone in a cabin in the mountains what would you want?
  • If we were alone in the pool with no one home would you want to remove our suits?

9. Incomplete Desires to Make Him Bet for More

Allude to strong emotional feelings you have, but hold back at revealing too much at first.

Let him ask for the rest.

  • Text 1) I just got reminded of something I find sexy about you. Text 2) Never mind. I’m too embarrassed.
  • Something sexy about you popped in my mind and now I can’t stop thinking about … Yum!
  • If you only knew what I was thinking about you right now…
  • I noticed something about you that turned me on and now I can’t get it out of my mind.
  • Did you know how much it turns me on when you … ?

10. May I Ask You a Question?

May I ask you a question? (Wait for him to respond) then follow up with these examples:

  • How did you learn to make a girl smile so much?
  • Have you ever caught me checking you out?
  • Do you have any idea how nervous I get when you look me in the eye?
  • Any idea how hard I find it to not think about your handsome face?
  • Do you know how sexy I find you?
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What If He Does Not Respond the Way You Want?

It could just be bad timing, or maybe he just cannot respond.

A one-time failure to get a response does not necessarily spell danger.

Test out a few of these flirty texts at different times.

The pattern of his responses (or lack of them) will show you how he feels about you.

But, make no mistake, these will be hard to resist responding to.

Compelling, attention grabbing flirty comments and questions target a basic instinct of his to want to play along.

It’s fun and a huge turn on.

Of course, you can also check out dating coach for women Amy North’s Text Chemistry.

Some of the chapters in her eBook/videos teach how to handle this tricky situation, plus other texting challenges with men like when he does not text for a few days or seems emotionally distant.

What are your favorite Flirty Texts to send men?

Leave a comment below.

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