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Romantic Texts vs Dirty Texts to Flirt and Dominate Men

Romantic Texts vs Dirty Texts to Flirt and Dominate Men

Cute and romantic texts or seductive and dirty ones? Not sure which route to take? Fear it could get out of control and go the wrong direction?

I’m here to help.

I created this blog post to show you how to take a fill-in-the-blank texts message script (a template) and turn them into romantic texts or seductive texts

(I even give movie-style ratings for the dirty texts: R-rated up to XXX).

I’m a guy who runs a few relationship blogs and a newsletter with thousands of female subscribers.

My goal is always to help my female viewers and subscribers to connect with relationship-seeking men on a deeper level.

Every relationship situation is different and your flirting preferences may differ from other women.

But one thing is for sure, all of us men like to have fun and flirt via text.

You just have to choose which direction to take it.

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To Text or to Sext? That is the Question

Do you feel comfortable spicing things up and getting seductive?

Some of you don’t feel comfortable sexting.

Therefore, I want to give you options.

You cannot send the same message in every situation.

So, keep in mind how well you know the guy and how respectful he treats you.

What kinds of compliments does he give you?

Does he seem bring up sex often?

Is it too early for you to talk about sex?

Choose your own path.

But here is how you can take texts and make them either romantic texts or dirty texts.

Need suggestions? Let me help you brew up your own romantic texts or erotic texts. Email me.

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Romantic Texts vs Dirty Texts: Sweet and Cute or Spicy and Seductive?

(Fill-in-the-blank text scripts to create your own)

Directions: Check out the descriptions of each text script. Then look at my romantic texts and dirty texts examples first. Copy-and-paste to send as is or swap out the text in parentheses with your own based on your preference. Plus, feel free to change up my word choice to suit your needs.

1. If we were (______) what would happen next?

Give him the nudge to tell the rest of the story. Some guys won’t need a nudge, others will.

Romantic Texts Examples

  • If we were (outside, it was cold and we had no coats, just each other,) what would happen next?
  • If we were (bored with nothing else to do but stare into each other’s eyes) what would happen next?
  • If we were (seated at a fancy dimly lit bar, and your hand slipped on top of mine,) what would happen next?

*Single? Dating? Looking for more tips how to create romantic chemistry via texts? Check out one of my favorite flirty text guides Text Chemistry by dating coach Amy North.

*In a relationship? Feel like the loving feelings and romance have gone? I highly recommend mastering the fundamental techniques to bond with your partner taught in relationship coach Michael Fiore’s Text the Romance Back. Click here to watch the informational video on Text the Romance Back.

Dirty Texts Examples

  • (PG-rated) If we were (all alone in a parked car while it stormed outside) what would happen next?
  • (R-rated) If we were (stuck in traffic and my hand rested on your thigh) what would happen next?
  • (R-rated) If we were (scantily dressed while cooking together) what would happen next?

*Want more tips how to master the art of talking dirty to a man while keeping your dignity while releasing your inner sexual beast, including copy-and-paste text examples?

Check out one of my favorite seduction guides designed for women Language of Desire by dating coach Felicity Keith, who practices what she preaches.

[Take Poll] Choose One Answer

2. If we (_____) would you rather (x) or (y)?

See what he’s thinking by giving him options.

Romantic Texts Examples

  • If we (were on a walk,) would you rather (we hold hands) or (should I pretend I don’t know you and walk fast)?

[Here you tease him a little to playfully make it like you don’t want to associate with him. Make him work to earn your affection and approval.]

  • If we (were watching Netflix on the couch) would you rather (whisper sweet things in my ear) or (get shy and just watch the movie?)
  • If we (got a drink at a rooftop bar with a scenic view) would you rather (get lost in my eyes) or (in my lips?)

Dirty Text Examples

  • (R-rated) If we (sat on the couch,) would you rather (get close and persona) l or (get shy and just watch the movie?)
  • (R-rated) If we (stood close together at a party,) would you rather (move closer) or (go somewhere more private?)
  • (R-rated) If we (were trapped inside a cabin in the middle of the woods while it snowed) would you rather (just sit by the fire and warm up) or (do something a little more “creative”?)
  • (R-rated) If we (waded through the water of a tropical beach with no one around) would you rather (stay clothed) or (not?)

3. If I told you a secret about (_____), would you (x) or (y)?

The power word “secret” triggers his need to unlock it, especially when he knows when you’re flirting with him.

Romantic Text Examples

  • If I told you a secret about (what I thought of your handsome face,) would you (get excited and do something about it) or (just get scared)?
  • If I told you a secret about (something hot, I noticed about you on our first date,) would you (blush) or (get excited)?
  • If I told you a secret yummy thought that I had about (my favorite photo of yours,) would you (get shy) or (ask for more)?

*In a relationship? Feel disconnected from your partner? Learn how to bring your partner closer with the texting strategies taught in relationship coach Michael Fiore’s Text the Romance Back. Click here to watch the informational video on Text the Romance Back.

Dirty Text Examples

I added the word “dirty” to all of them.

  • (R-rated) If I told you a dirty secret about (my favorite panties,) would you (blush and get shy) or (get excited)?
  • (R-rated) If I told you a dirty secret about (my body,) would you (want to know it) or (rather I just keep it to myself)?

[You can turn this X-rated by swapping out “body” for specific body parts].

  • (X-rated) If I told you a dirty secret thought I had about (a certain part of your body) would (your heart burst with excitement) or (would you keep calm and collect ha, ha, ha)?

[Take Poll] Choose One Response

Which Dirty Text will turn on your partner the most?

4. If a cute girl (_____), what would you do next?

This seems counter-intuitive, but you are teasing him here while referring to yourself in third-person. It’s just another way to act playfully and cute.

Romantic Text Examples

  • If a cute girl (moved closer to you while on a first date,) what would you do next handsome?
  • If a cute girl (looked right in your eyes for a few seconds then smiled,) what would you do next?
  • If a cute girl (with sweet perfume fixed your collar, smiled and winked while she did,) what would you do next?
  • If a cute girl (told you how handsome you were,) what would you do next?
  • If a cute girl (sat next to you at a bar with all the other seats empty, then said hello,) what would you do next?

*In a relationship? Feel like roommates instead of a couple? I highly recommend mastering the fundamental techniques to feel in love again taught in relationship coach Michael Fiore’s Text the Romance Back. Click here to watch the informational video on Text the Romance Back.

Dirty Text Examples

  • (R-rated) If a cute girl (were undressing with the bathroom door cracked open) what would you do next?
  • (X-rated) If a cute girl (were touching herself on the couch while watching a movie) what would you next?
  • (XXX-rated) If a cute girl (rubbed your inner thigh while watching TV) what would happen next?

5. You don’t mind (x) when (y), do you?

Here’s a push and pull technique. You give him what he wants while teasing him to take it away. In this case, you tease him to say in so many words, “No, of course I don’t mind, in fact, I want more.”

Romantic Text Examples

  • You don’t mind (me staring at your beautiful eyes when you drive,) do you?
  • You don’t mind (when I move in closer to you,) do you?
  • You don’t mind (when a cute girl tells you how handsome you are,) do you?
  • You don’t mind (if I get up close like this and smile,) do you?
  • You don’t mind (if a cute girl puts her hand here on your back,) do you?

Dirty Text Examples

  • (R-rated) You don’t mind (if a cute girl puts her hand, um, on your thigh), do you?
  • (X-rated) You don’t mind (me touching myself while we chat), do you?
  • (XXX-rated) You don’t mind me (thinking about imagining massaging your cock while we text,) do you?

Sweet or seductive, which romantic texts and dirty texts do you like most?

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10 Emotional Attraction Texts: The Key to His Heart

10 Emotional Attraction Texts: The Key to His Heart

Ready for a shock? Want one of the keys to a man’s heart? Create emotional attraction.

Connect with us through our feelings.

Acknowledge that we have deep feelings and allow us to be the best version of ourselves.

Do you currently think about a man day-in-and-day-out, but feel like something is missing?

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The key to our hearts is connecting through our feelings by tripping our emotional attraction triggers.

Now, please understand that I do not think that there is just one way to do that.

But I will reveal one easy way to do it in this blog post, and you could start TODAY.

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What Matters Most to Us Men?

Master the art of emotional attraction and connection with men.

Watch the video of Make Him Worship You by dating coach Michael Fiore

Or His Secret Obsession by dating coach James Bauer.

I recommend these to my coaching clients and female friends to understand our deeper relationship and emotional needs.

EVERY man wants to feel like he is good at something– preferably many things.

We pride ourselves in what we believe we are good at.

And in relationships, we want to feel that we are good at making you happy.

As men, we deal with rejection from the opposite sex starting when we are just little boys.

Therefore, one key is to acknowledge how good he makes you feel.

Acknowledge to him the things that make him feel GOOD ENOUGH for you.

No guy is even near perfect, and we know that, but we do not want to lose that girl with whom we feel that genuine emotional attraction bond.

We know you have other suitors and do not want to lose you.

Losing you to another man, or just losing you at all, crushes our soul.

So, in what ways do we want to feel GOOD ENOUGH that we can fulfill you so that you see us as special and

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Qualities of How Men Want to Feel Good Enough to You

  • Our Giving and Kind Nature
  • The gifts we bring you
  • Being a Good Enough Cook for you
  • Feeling like we could protect you- stick up for you (we’re not a pushover)
  • Sense of Humor
  • Feeling Handsome and Physically Attractive to you
  • Fun to spend time with
  • Please you Sexually
  • Can Turn You On
  • We can make you Feel Attractive
  • Make Us Feel Like We Understand Your Needs and Wants
  • Value Our Ambitious Spirit
  • Finds Us Intelligent

This is just a shortlist, but the concept here is that you should acknowledge the Qualities and Characteristics that he takes pride in himself.

How Do You Acknowledge His Desire to Feel GOOD ENOUGH to You?

Honestly, you should do this not just in texts, but also in person.

Express this through your touch, facial expressions, and body language.

But here is a list of 5 text messages to create emotional attraction with your man.

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5 Emotional Attraction Trigger Texts that…

… Make Him Feel Connected: Acknowledge WHY He’s GOOD ENOUGH

I’ll just choose from the list above and provide you a copy-and-paste text message to send him.

The words do NOT matter as much as the concept.

That’s why the above list is so important.

1. “How do you know how to touch me the way you do? It sends shivers throughout my body. You know me so well hon.”

2. “Can I tell you a secret about you that sends electric pulses through my body?”

(Wait for him to reply).

“Staring at your eyes. I love your eyes. Hope you don’t mind.”

Expect him to ask you to keep staring.

As men, we love for you to objectify us.

Compliment our features.

3. “Do you know what you do that I appreciate more than anything?”

(Wait for him to reply).

“You want me to achieve my dreams. You make me feel like I can do anything if I just put my mind to it. You’re my biggest fan.”

Make him feel like he truly gets you.

Likewise, do the same for him.

Show him your support, let him chase his passions.

4. “I’m embarrassed to admit this. Don’t want to give you too much power over me. But want to know a secret? How you super turn me on?”

(Wait for reply)

“The way you hold the back of my head and pull it in when we kiss. You know how to make me feel special.”

Again, make him feel like he is your man because he knows how to fulfill you and give you what you want.

5. “I don’t know how you do it.”

(Wait for him to ask what you mean).

“How you just melt my heart with the sweetest words. I really feel like you listen to what matters to me.”

5 Emotional Attraction Trigger Texts that…

… Make Him Feel Connected: Admire or Acknowledge His Uniqueness that Attracts You

Another way we want you to acknowledge that we are good at something is by bringing up our unique talents, skills, and personality traits.

Identity is huge for us men.

We compete with each other to feel worthy, to feel like we offer something to the world and we want others to acknowledge these unique qualities about us.

One of the best ways to connect with a man is to allow him to feel like your protector, your rescuer or fixer.

You can learn how to trip these emotional attraction triggers one of my favorite dating coach eBooks His Secret Obsession by James Bauer.

Make Him Worship You by Michael Fiore is another great one that shows you how to create an emotional connection with a man.

What are some of the ways you can acknowledge or admire your man’s uniqueness?

Qualities of What Men Take Pride in Themselves About

  • His Choice of Career
  • Ambitious Spirit
  • Intelligence
  • Decisiveness
  • Desire for Improvement
  • His Hobbies
  • His Big Dreams
  • Awards He Wins
  • His Talents (Musical, athletic, artistic, engineering, etc.)
  • Creativity
  • Spontaneity
  • Adventurous Spirit

Again, this list is short, but the concept matters most.

Admire and acknowledge the things that he prides most about in himself.

Now check out this list of sample copy-and-paste texts that you could send to your man.

The word ADMIRE brings power to your texts.

I recommend that you use it.

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6. “Do you know what I admire about you?”

(Wait for him to reply).

“How decisive and spontaneous you are! It’s so sexy! I love that you take charge and we just go somewhere.”

7. “I want you to know honey that I admire that you do what you love! Not many people can say that they work in what they are passionate about.”

We want to feel that you support us in our careers.

I cannot tell you the damage that you can create by making him change careers just to suit your needs when he loves what he does.

8. “Sweetie, I admire that you chase your dreams. I know you do not do what you love, but I love how you keep pushing to pursue your passions.”

We need your support to chase our dreams. Many guys feel trapped being someone we are not.

You can cultivate emotional attraction by supporting his inner happiness and need to do what he loves.

9. “Honey I admire your creativity. You never cease to amaze me how you keep coming up with amazing ideas. (Give him examples of something from his career or hobbies).

10. “Honey, how did you learn to cook so well on your own? You’re so smart. I find that so attractive about you that you can learn things without being taught.”

Here we admire a couple of things in one single text: his creativity and intelligence.

Watch how your man opens up, works harder to earn your affection or even changes just by you simply regularly acknowledging how well he gets you and pleases you, and his unique qualities.

The key to emotional attraction and connection with men (or anyone really) is to understand what matters most to them and to let them be the best version of themselves around you.

Make Him Worship You by dating coach Michael Fiore and His Secret Obsession by James Bauer are two of my favorite resources that I suggest to my coaching clients and female friends.

What are Favorite Ways to Create Emotional Attraction with Your Man?

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