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July 22, 2020 by Roaster Rick Leave a Comment

10 Emotional Attraction Texts: The Key to His Heart

Ready for a shock? Want one of the keys to a man’s heart? Create emotional attraction.

Connect with us through our feelings.

Acknowledge that we have deep feelings and allow us to be the best version of ourselves.

Do you currently think about a man day-in-and-day-out, but feel like something is missing?

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The key to our hearts is connecting through our feelings by tripping our emotional attraction triggers.

Now, please understand that I do not think that there is just one way to do that.

But I will reveal one easy way to do it in this blog post, and you could start TODAY.

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Master the art of emotional attraction and connection with men.

Watch the video of Make Him Worship You by dating coach Michael Fiore

Or His Secret Obsession by dating coach James Bauer.

I recommend these to my coaching clients and female friends to understand our deeper relationship and emotional needs.

EVERY man wants to feel like he is good at something– preferably many things.

We pride ourselves in what we believe we are good at.

And in relationships, we want to feel that we are good at making you happy.

As men, we deal with rejection from the opposite sex starting when we are just little boys.

Therefore, one key is to acknowledge how good he makes you feel.

Acknowledge to him the things that make him feel GOOD ENOUGH for you.

No guy is even near perfect, and we know that, but we do not want to lose that girl with whom we feel that genuine emotional attraction bond.

We know you have other suitors and do not want to lose you.

Losing you to another man, or just losing you at all, crushes our soul.

So, in what ways do we want to feel GOOD ENOUGH that we can fulfill you so that you see us as special and

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Qualities of How Men Want to Feel Good Enough to You

Our Giving and Kind Nature
The gifts we bring you
Being a Good Enough Cook for you
Feeling like we could protect you- stick up for you (we’re not a pushover)
Sense of Humor
Feeling Handsome and Physically Attractive to you
Fun to spend time with
Please you Sexually
Can Turn You On
We can make you Feel Attractive
Make Us Feel Like We Understand Your Needs and Wants
Value Our Ambitious Spirit
Finds Us Intelligent

This is just a shortlist, but the concept here is that you should acknowledge the Qualities and Characteristics that he takes pride in himself.

How Do You Acknowledge His Desire to Feel GOOD ENOUGH to You?

Honestly, you should do this not just in texts, but also in person.

Express this through your touch, facial expressions, and body language.

But here is a list of 5 text messages to create emotional attraction with your man.

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5 Emotional Attraction Trigger Texts that…

… Make Him Feel Connected: Acknowledge WHY He’s GOOD ENOUGH

I’ll just choose from the list above and provide you a copy-and-paste text message to send him.

The words do NOT matter as much as the concept.

That’s why the above list is so important.

1. “How do you know how to touch me the way you do? It sends shivers throughout my body. You know me so well hon.”

2. “Can I tell you a secret about you that sends electric pulses through my body?”

(Wait for him to reply).

“Staring at your eyes. I love your eyes. Hope you don’t mind.”

Expect him to ask you to keep staring.

As men, we love for you to objectify us.

Compliment our features.

3. “Do you know what you do that I appreciate more than anything?”

(Wait for him to reply).

“You want me to achieve my dreams. You make me feel like I can do anything if I just put my mind to it. You’re my biggest fan.”

Make him feel like he truly gets you.

Likewise, do the same for him.

Show him your support, let him chase his passions.

4. “I’m embarrassed to admit this. Don’t want to give you too much power over me. But want to know a secret? How you super turn me on?”

(Wait for reply)

“The way you hold the back of my head and pull it in when we kiss. You know how to make me feel special.”

Again, make him feel like he is your man because he knows how to fulfill you and give you what you want.

5. “I don’t know how you do it.”

(Wait for him to ask what you mean).

“How you just melt my heart with the sweetest words. I really feel like you listen to what matters to me.”

5 Emotional Attraction Trigger Texts that…

… Make Him Feel Connected: Admire or Acknowledge His Uniqueness that Attracts You

Another way we want you to acknowledge that we are good at something is by bringing up our unique talents, skills, and personality traits.

Identity is huge for us men.

We compete with each other to feel worthy, to feel like we offer something to the world and we want others to acknowledge these unique qualities about us.

One of the best ways to connect with a man is to allow him to feel like your protector, your rescuer or fixer.

You can learn how to trip these emotional attraction triggers one of my favorite dating coach eBooks His Secret Obsession by James Bauer.

Make Him Worship You by Michael Fiore is another great one that shows you how to create an emotional connection with a man.

What are some of the ways you can acknowledge or admire your man’s uniqueness?

Qualities of What Men Take Pride in Themselves About

His Choice of Career
Ambitious Spirit
Intelligence
Decisiveness
Desire for Improvement
His Hobbies
His Big Dreams
Awards He Wins
His Talents (Musical, athletic, artistic, engineering, etc.)
Creativity
Spontaneity
Adventurous Spirit

Again, this list is short, but the concept matters most.

Admire and acknowledge the things that he prides most about in himself.

Now check out this list of sample copy-and-paste texts that you could send to your man.

The word ADMIRE brings power to your texts.

I recommend that you use it.

6. “Do you know what I admire about you?”

(Wait for him to reply).

“How decisive and spontaneous you are! It’s so sexy! I love that you take charge and we just go somewhere.”

7. “I want you to know honey that I admire that you do what you love! Not many people can say that they work in what they are passionate about.”

We want to feel that you support us in our careers.

I cannot tell you the damage that you can create by making him change careers just to suit your needs when he loves what he does.

8. “Sweetie, I admire that you chase your dreams. I know you do not do what you love, but I love how you keep pushing to pursue your passions.”

We need your support to chase our dreams. Many guys feel trapped being someone we are not.

You can cultivate emotional attraction by supporting his inner happiness and need to do what he loves.

9. “Honey I admire your creativity. You never cease to amaze me how you keep coming up with amazing ideas. (Give him examples of something from his career or hobbies).

10. “Honey, how did you learn to cook so well on your own? You’re so smart. I find that so attractive about you that you can learn things without being taught.”

Here we admire a couple of things in one single text: his creativity and intelligence.

Watch how your man opens up, works harder to earn your affection or even changes just by you simply regularly acknowledging how well he gets you and pleases you, and his unique qualities.

The key to emotional attraction and connection with men (or anyone really) is to understand what matters most to them and to let them be the best version of themselves around you.

Make Him Worship You by dating coach Michael Fiore and His Secret Obsession by James Bauer are two of my favorite resources that I suggest to my coaching clients and female friends.

What are Favorite Ways to Create Emotional Attraction with Your Man?

July 10, 2020 by Roaster Rick 3 Comments

Flirty Good Night Messages to Turn Him On

With “good morning” texts you want to entice him to respond, but with good night messages you want him to think about you all night.

You don’t want to keep chatting.

The goal is to gain all the power by building up his desire to want you but give him no way to release this sexual tension.

Instead, you make him wait.

It puts you in control and makes him chase.

Once again, you become the “prize”.

But at night, I don’t want you to entice him to keep talking because it looks desperate that you want him to keep going.

Instead, I want you to end the conversation and make him think about what you said to the point he cannot sleep.

Keep the power. Show you are fine waiting until tomorrow.

So, even if he responds, do not keep going.

Good night messages mean good night.

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Flirty Text Messages to Keep Him Up All Night Thinking About You

Guess I’ll just squirm in bed all night thinking about that kiss. Good night hun.
Sweetie, want to know a secret? Guess what I’m not wearing? Good night.
How do you turn me on with just words? Keep it up sweetie. Good night. (He’ll want to keep trying to turn you on with his texts, but you cut him off and now he wants you more).
Ugh, super turned on by that kiss. But got to get up early. Good night handsome.
Wow, you just get me. Super turned on now by what you said tonight. Guess I just gotta wait until next time. Good night honey…
When you get close, I start to, maybe I shouldn’t say. Never mind. I’m too embarrassed. Well, gotta get up early. Later babe. Good night.
I don’t want to get you too excited, but I put your arm around me tonight I started to feel things… in certain places… Sorry, gotta go sweetie. I’m too shy. Good night.
I hope you didn’t notice how much I sweat when you held my hand. Let’s see what happens next time. Good night love.
If you don’t dream about me and wake up sweating in the middle of the night, I’ll be upset. Ha, ha. Good night gorgeous.
I hope you don’t mind me having naughty dreams about you tonight handsome. I’ll tell you tomorrow. Good night.

[Bonus] Done! All off! No pajamas tonight! Feels so good on the cool sheets. Hope I didn’t make you too excited. So tired. Good night.

Again, do NOT reply if he continues to text.

Do you like these good night messages?

Check out dating coach Amy North’s Text Chemistry to learn how to maintain power over a man with just text messages.

Also, learn what to do when he does not respond favorably, or worse, disrespectfully.

Summary of Seductive Good Night Text Messages to Keep Him Excited

The objective behind these texts is that you fulfill his need to feel like he has earned your approval.

He wants to feel like he can please a woman and has learned how to peel back the layers of defenses to win your heart.

Then by YOU ending the conversation (and not him), he knows that he must continue to work on earning that approval.

The second of the good night messages and the last two, of course, are top-notch flirty and will keep him up thinking all night.

I know it can be hard to end a conversation especially when you want to get as much feedback as possible to know how he feels about you.

But I cannot stress enough how much power you maintain by stopping.

It gives him the impression that you’re under control and are fine just pacing instead of spilling everything out of your mind.

Again, make him chase.

Keep him guessing what you’re feeling.

In a Relationship?

Yes, these texts work for you too.

Of course, you wouldn’t send them if you’re sleeping in the same bed together.

However, if you’re not in the same bed then send these and keep the flirting alive in your relationship.

What’s your favorite flirty way to say good night?

July 8, 2020 by Roaster Rick 4 Comments

10 Ways to Dominate and Turn On Men with Touch

NOTHING drives us men wilder than when you touch us.

Sounds pretty obvious, but I don’t just mean sexually.

In fact, in this post, I will NOT discuss anything sexual, just cute, and romantic.

When my girlfriend put her arm around my side for the first time on our first date, it instantly ignited an emotional attraction switch inside me.

I couldn’t help but like it and like her back.

I felt at ease, accepted, desired.

It gave me the “green light” I needed to know that she liked me and that I had permission to proceed to flirt back.

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Now, understand, that I’m NOT suggesting that it’s your responsibility to make the first move as a woman.

No.

But if you like a guy and you want him to see you for more than friends then you must touch him in ways that give him the signal that expresses your attraction to him.

Make it known that you like him.

Then he knows that he can proceed without fear of rejection or feeling like a creep.

It won’t take much, just a small gesture to send shivers throughout his body.

The combination of where you touch him, how you do it, and the flirty comments you say to tease him will tell him that he has permission to flirt back.

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Touch Him, Tease Him, Give Him Permission to Flirt Back Like This…

1. Back of Head

Watch your dirty mind now.

Not that head, his actual head.

Nothing on this list will warm him up to you and draw him closer to you faster than when you touch and caress the back of his head.

It feels so soothing, like a mini massage.

Flirt with him a bit and say, “If I keep petting you like this will your leg start to shake?”

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2. Forearm

Ask him to get something down for you from a high shelf then touch his forearm, make eye contact, smile, and say thank you. Or get bolder and say “thank you handsome”.

Or…

***(This one is only for the most confident girls BUT it is SUUUPER FLIRTY and EPICALLY Cute…)

Lightly touch his forearm, look him in the eyes, then pretend to appear serious and say, “(his name) I’m sorry, but I think we have to break up. I want to see other people.” Then smile, giggle, wink, and walk away.

OR…

Tease him. Open the door for him, lightly touch his forearm and say, “It’s not every day I get to hold the door open for a handsome man.”

Now you might think that I am asking you to play a game.

And I am, just not mind games.

If you don’t have fun and we don’t have fun then what’s the point?

How would you expect him to feel attracted to you if you do not have fun with him and tease him a bit?

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3. Bicep

Lock one arm of his and jokingly ask, “So, when are we getting married?”

Or…

Grab his arm and jokingly ask him to step over in your office (three feet away). Then say something flirty like “Mister you’ve got to stop turning on all these girls around here with your manly voice.”

Or…

While in a parking lot, put your arm around his and ask him to accompany you to your car. Try something flirty like, “You know, it’s a dangerous world out here? How about protecting a damsel in distress and escorting her safely to her car? It’s just over there. Let’s go.”

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4. Hand

Jokingly ask to read his palm so you can tell him his future.

Then tease him about how he’s going to find his princess (describe yourself) and that you’ll carry her off to his castle far away.

Or something else just as silly like he’s going to become a farmer and marry a girl (describe yourself) and have some ridiculously high number of kids. Then you’ll raise a bunch of goats, cows, horses, llamas, whatever. Make a joke of it. But look at him in the eyes, smile, and laugh.

It’s silly and fun- it’s supposed to be.

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5. Shoulder, Upper Back

Say that you’re tired then give a pouty puppy dog face then place one arm around him and lean your head on his shoulder for a quick second.

Or…

Compliment his eyes and ask to take a closer look to determine the color while you place your hand on his shoulder.

6. Lower Back

Pick up something he dropped then touch the small of his back, look in his eyes and say “You’re welcome handsome”.

Or as you pass by him place your hand on his lower back and hold it there a second and say, “Excuse me handsome.”

7. Adjust His Collar, Shirt or Tie

Fix his collar or tie, straighten his shirt, remove a piece of lint.
Take your time doing it. Ask him permission first.

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8. Play with Him, Compare Feet Size

Ask to compare feet size. Then place your foot next to his or your hand up to his hand.

There are endless ways to find a reasonable excuse to move in close and apply innocent touch to non-private parts of his body.

This is an easy one.

9. Chest

Nothing sexual.

Just rest your hand on his chest when making a point.

It’ll look natural.

Make sure to look him in the eyes and hold eye contact, and give a smile- nothing to happy, though.

Say something bold and flirty like, “Wow, you’re heart’s really racing. Do I make you nervous darling.”

Or “Wow, I can feel your heart beating, do you always get this nervous around girls?”

No guy could help but get turned on from flirty, confident remarks like those.

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10. Leg

Still not getting sexual, but a simple resting of your hand on his leg while he drives or you sit next to him at a restaurant or bench outdoors while looking up at the moon and stars.

Just having your warm hand there will give him butterflies.

Say something romantic like, “You know I already made my wish to my lucky star, still waiting for my kiss, though.”

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Summary of Ways to Touch Men that Dominate Them and Draw them Closer to You

In case you feel uncertain about your ability to attract men and draw them to you, guess again.

You have an abundance of female superpowers that drive us wild that we find super attractive.

Touch is by far the most effective one.

In this blog post, we only discussed innocent and romantic ways to touch him and the cute, flirty comments that you could make to turn him on.

Again, if you want some tips on how to say the right things to turn on men sexually while still guarding your dignity and maintaining the power then check out Language of Desire.

Dating coach Felicity Keith has helped thousands of women to successfully flirt and turn on men without feeling ashamed and while earning the respect of the men they interact with.

What’s the Most Effective Way to Turn On Men and Dominate Them with Touch?

Share your comment and opinions below.

July 8, 2020 by Roaster Rick 4 Comments

Flirty Texts to Send Men and Get a Naughty Response Back

I cannot guarantee that men will always respond, but these flirty texts will increase his response rate.

Now please do not misunderstand me.

I don’t want you to sit around your phone and wait for him to reply.

Chasing him goes against what I recommend women do in meeting men, dating and relationships.

On the contrary, I want you to control the situation.

Because we want to see you as the “prize”.

And in order for that to happen you need him to chase you.

These flirty texts can get the ball rolling for you in text conversations and flick his emotional triggers to ask and beg for more.

A heads up, many of these get pretty seductive, so please choose the flirty text examples that fit your situation best.

Factor in what you feel comfortable sending, how well you know the guy and the agreed-upon status of your relationship.

However, you are the bold, confident type then do not hesitate to take a little risk by dropping one of the more risqué texts in this blog post.

Also, if you seek some tips on how to talk dirty to a man that drives us wild then dating coach Felicity Keith’s Language of Desire hits the mark. (Many men she collaborated with to make the course would agree).

I’ve been reviewing lately and can attest that many of her lessons work to spark a strong sexual desire in us, even at times against our will.

Think of mastering these techniques as gaining an unfair advantage over us.

Now, let’s move onto the…

10 Kinds of Flirty Texts that Get Him to Respond and Make Him Ask for More

1. “Guess what?”

Who can resist answering this question?

You can’t over do this flirty text technique because it will look like you are luring him along.

Try different versions of this question.

Randomly drop him one.

Guess what I dreamed about you last night?
Guess why I couldn’t sleep last night handsome?
Guess what I’m thinking about right now gorgeous?
Guess where you’re taking me cutie?
Guess what I’m smiling about right now?
Guess what I noticed about you the other day sexy?

And here are some sexy “Guessing What?” flirty texts (if your relationship is that point- or when it gets there).

Guess what I’m not wearing?
Guess where I just put my bra/panties? (The answer here is not what makes this super-hot text work. It’s the flirty teasing of planting the image in his mind).
Guess what, umm, I’m about to do in this dark room alone ?

2. “Guess I’ll just have to …”

Drop one of these flirty texts in his inbox when he least expects it.

He’ll rush to find out the rest of your thoughts.

Kill us and dominate us with visuals (if you’re comfortable with it)

Again, choose who you send these to wisely, it might be to soon.

Guess I’ll just have to stop admiring this picture of you.
Guess I’ll just have to stop thinking about you.
Guess I’ll just have to stop thinking about your … ha…

And now some sexier ones…

Guess I’ll just have to put my panties back up.
Guess I’ll just have to put my bra back on.

Keep in mind some of the keys to flirting via text and to make yourself the “prize-to-be-won” and to make men chase.

Keep it fun, don’t always have normal serious conversations
Tease him
Make him guess what you’re thinking
Leave out parts of the texts to get him to ask for the rest
Make yourself mysterious
And even be the one to END the conversations.

3. Inside Joke/Story

Take advantage of a recent situation that happened between you two or a running joke that started.

Any new story gives you more opportunities to turn up the flirty dial and have some fun.

Elevator. 5 minutes. Let’s pick up where we left off last night.
You sure talked the big talk the other night. Let’s see if you can walk it tonight.
So, when are you going to complete your promise?
I’m still blushing handsome from what you said.
What you said got me thinking.
So, I did it again.
I’m still waiting sweetie…

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4. Unspoken Secrets

We go crazy when you share your ongoing secret desires.

To know that you’ve been holding back and admiring us makes us feel lucky and desired.

My fingernails and blouse weren’t the only purple things I wore tonight.
Any idea how much I fantasized about you after our date tonight?
If I revealed the thoughts I have about you at work, I’d end up in the HR office.
Nothing. It’s smooth as silk. (Referring to his previous question in a previous conversation to what’s your “situation down there”.
Wish you would have kept your hand there longer.
Did you notice? (He’ll ask, “notice what”?). That I wasn’t wearing any underwear?
I hope you didn’t notice. (He’ll ask what you mean). How much I was sweating when you got close to me.

5. Flirty, Confident Assumptions

Most men would agree that confidence is the sexist trait a woman can possess.

And if you feel comfortable enough pulling these flirty texts off then you could have him wrapped around your finger.

Tease him, it entices him to play along.

We want text conversations to be fun.

Hey! Stop thinking about me already! lol
Why can’t you stop thinking about me? Lol
So, how many times have you daydreamed about my ass?
You can’t stop thinking about making out with me, can you? Lol
I see you stare at me a lot. What part do you like best?
Try to resist checking out my breasts. Bet you can’t. (And so, now guess what he’ll try to do).
Admit it. I made you sweat when grabbed your arm and kissed you on the cheek.
So, admit how, um, hard, did you get when I put my hand on your leg at the movies?
I bet you can’t resist picturing me in an elevator right now making out.
I bet you can’t resist picturing me in anything but my panties and bra right now.

6. If I … would you …?

Follow this simple flirty text script question.

Use them as is or create your own customized texts to fit your situation preferences, and personality

Hey, good-looking, if I admitted thinking about you today would you mind?
Hey sweetie, if I touched your hand would you pull away?
Hey cutie, if I whispered a secret into your ear would you blush?
Tell me if this bothers you. If I thought something slightly naughty about you, would you get offended?
If I stared at your beautiful eyes, would you get nervous?
Hey, honey, if I breathed on your neck, would you sweat?

Insert flirty phrases that help him ease into flirting back like:

…would you be offended?
…would you touch back?
…would you play along?
…could you resist me?
…would you mind?
…would you get upset?

7. If I were …?

Put some of the power back in his hands.

Allow him to get turned on with these seductive invitations to have some naughty fun.

These may not be for everyone.

“If I were there right now, what would you do?”
“If I were alone in an elevator going to the top floor what would you join me?”
“If I were undressing in front of the window would you look?”
“If I were alone in my office at night would you come visit?
“If I were taking a bath with the door cracked open, would you look?”
“If I were wearing nothing but just my undies would you get excited?”

8. If we were … what would you want/what would happen?

This time around create imaginary scenarios together.

I would not use these on a new guy unless he has shown some interest.

Of course, it could still work if you have the confidence to test them out.

Just careful not to use them too early in a relationship, but I will leave that up to you.

If we were alone on a deserted beach, what would happen?
If we were stranded alone in an elevator what would happen next?
If we were alone on your couch right now what would happen next?
If we were naked alone in a cabin in the mountains what would you want?
If we were alone in the pool with no one home would you want to remove our suits?

9. Incomplete Desires to Make Him Bet for More

Allude to strong emotional feelings you have, but hold back at revealing too much at first.

Let him ask for the rest.

Text 1) I just got reminded of something I find sexy about you. Text 2) Never mind. I’m too embarrassed.
Something sexy about you popped in my mind and now I can’t stop thinking about … Yum!
If you only knew what I was thinking about you right now…
I noticed something about you that turned me on and now I can’t get it out of my mind.
Did you know how much it turns me on when you … ?

10. May I Ask You a Question?

May I ask you a question? (Wait for him to respond) then follow up with these examples:

How did you learn to make a girl smile so much?
Have you ever caught me checking you out?
Do you have any idea how nervous I get when you look me in the eye?
Any idea how hard I find it to not think about your handsome face?
Do you know how sexy I find you?

What If He Does Not Respond the Way You Want?

It could just be bad timing, or maybe he just cannot respond.

A one-time failure to get a response does not necessarily spell danger.

Test out a few of these flirty texts at different times.

The pattern of his responses (or lack of them) will show you how he feels about you.

But, make no mistake, these will be hard to resist responding to.

Compelling, attention grabbing flirty comments and questions target a basic instinct of his to want to play along.

It’s fun and a huge turn on.

Of course, you can also check out dating coach for women Amy North’s Text Chemistry.

Some of the chapters in her eBook/videos teach how to handle this tricky situation, plus other texting challenges with men like when he does not text for a few days or seems emotionally distant.

What are your favorite Flirty Texts to send men?

Sexy Texts to Turn Him On, Make Him Want You

Talking dirty does NOT make them sexy texts, necessarily.

“I want to f*** you now!”, won’t always work.

It leaves little to the imagination.

In this blog post, I will show you the most effective strategy to send sexy texts that turn us on.

And I will give you examples of seductive text conversations that work on me and other men.

WARNING! Dirty texts are NOT for everyone.

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These are only meant for open-minded, mature adults (at the minimum 18 years or older).

And preferably, if you’re in a relationship or at least have already begun to get physical with your man.

So, if you are comfortable sending seductive messages or wish to get more comfortable, these sexy texts will supply you with some new ideas.

Also, if you see yourself as a shy woman who would like to get more comfortable talking dirty to your man then…

… I recommend you check out Language of Desire by dating coach Felicity Keith.

I’ve reviewed it and can attest that the advice works, it aroused me just reading it, ha, ha.

Moving on…

How can you send…

Sexy Texts: Conversations to Dominate Him, Get Him in the Mood

How often do men bland texts like “Hey” or “What’s up?”.

Take control and shock him.

Watch how aroused he gets.

Plant seductive visuals in his head that make him choke on his lunch.

The most effective sexy texts tease us.

Show him that you can control his emotions against his will.

Make up the situation if you have to.

Dominate him.

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Flirty Texts Response to Instantly Turn Him On

Him: “What’s up babe?”

You: “One moment hon, almost done shaving down there. Got my legs spread wide, just a few more spots left.”

Him: “What?!! Thanks for the visual, now I can’t focus.”

You: “Something happened though. Wait, maybe I shouldn’t tell you. Never mind.”

Him: “Well, now you gotta tell me.”

You: “I accidently touched myself.”

Him: “Yeah? And?”

You: “It happened right before you text me. I sort of liked it. You don’t mind if I finish while we text, do you?”

Revealing you have a secret, then rescinding the details plays with our emotions.

The “Never mind”, drives him nuts and makes him beg you to tell you.

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Innocent Kinky Texts to Spice Up Boring Conversations

After a little back-and-forth, completely change the course of the conversation.

Once again, we will inject vivid visuals to flirt and toy with his feelings against his will to turn him on.

He’ll love it.

The sexual tension will build up inside him because he is stuck at work and can’t do anything about it.

Get super-naughty and take advantage of any situation where he is busy doing something else and has no way of releasing his pent-up desires.

It’s one of the key elements to tease and flirty with him.

You: “Hey, can I ask you a question? I hope you don’t mind.”

Him: “Yeah, what?”

You: “Maybe it’s just me, but it seems really hot in here.”

Him: “Ok, and what about it?”

You: “I want to slip my panties off, cool off a bit and air things out down there. You don’t mind, do you? I promise not to let the neighbors see.”

Him: “No, I don’t want Bob to see you and get turned on.”

You: “Listen it’s really hot in here. Or maybe you could come home and blow on it to cool me down. What do you think about that?”

Him: “Thanks, now I’m super turned on and can’t do anything about it.”

You: “Ok, ok honey. I’ll change the subject. Got one more question before I go. It’s about tonight.”

Him: “Alright, what is it?”

You: “If I rubbed your ‘magic lamp’ down there 3 times… ha, ha … do you think a genie would pop out and grant me 2 more wishes?”

You: “Bye hon, love you, see you tonight!”

Finish with a super flirty and descriptive scenario.

Then end the conversation with him aroused and ready to burst.

Tease Him with Seductive Texts to Trick Him and Make Him Hard as Iron

(and want to RUSH HOME from work)

Again, you will arouse with visuals and build up his sexual tension.

But this time your sexy texts will set him up for later that night with an erotic invitation.

If he physically cannot come home that night, then you could try a kinky alternative- virtual sex.

Either way, you get your way by dominating him and making him chase and follow your lead.

You: “Sorry to interrupt hon, but I’ve got a problem?”

Him: “What’s wrong babe?”

You: “Figuring out where my panties went. They were on just a second ago. Lol. Hahaha. And all the windows are open. Ha, ha.”

Him: “Great! I hope the neighbors don’t look in!”

You (again): “They might. I think I saw Bill out there doing the lawn. Better come home to save me and help me find them.”

Him: “Honey! Put some clothes on!”

You: “Well, anyway, I was wondering something else.”

Him: “Yeah, what?”

You: “When you’re going to come home and lay on top of my naked spread body.”

Him: “Ugh! So hard now! Better still be naked when I get back!!”

You: “Maybe you should just come home now. Ha, ha. What’s wrong honey? Don’t like me teasing you?”

Summary of Sexy Texts to Arouse Your Man

The best route to sexual seduction involves teasing your man.

Illustrate to him that you know how to toy with his feelings and can arouse him without a moment’s notice.

Take advantage of the situations where he cannot release his sexual tension and has no choice but to get aroused.

Force him to play mind videos of him releasing that sexual tension on you as soon as he gets home.

One of the sexiest turn-ons for us men is to watch how excited you get when we touch you or ram our rock-hard rods inside you.

Nothing is hotter than watching you moan, pant, and beg for more.

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Touch Him, Tease Him, Give Him Permission to Flirt Back Like This…

1. Back of Head

2. Forearm

3. Bicep

4. Hand

5. Shoulder, Upper Back

6. Lower Back

7. Adjust His Collar, Shirt or Tie

8. Play with Him, Compare Feet Size

9. Chest

10. Leg

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10 Kinds of Flirty Texts that Get Him to Respond and Make Him Ask for More

1. “Guess what?”

2. “Guess I’ll just have to …”

3. Inside Joke/Story

4. Unspoken Secrets

5. Flirty, Confident Assumptions

6. If I … would you …?

7. If I were …?

8. If we were … what would you want/what would happen?

9. Incomplete Desires to Make Him Bet for More

10. May I Ask You a Question?

What If He Does Not Respond the Way You Want?

What are your favorite Flirty Texts to send men?

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Summary of Sexy Texts to Arouse Your Man

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