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May 17, 2021 by Roaster Rick Leave a Comment

10 Love Text Messages for Him to Strengthen Your Relationship

10 Love Text Messages for Him to Strengthen Your Relationship

With these love text messages, you will build a stronger bond with your man.

Except these texts are better than anything you’ve ever sent.

Why?

Because they reach him at a much deeper level than flirty or romantic texts.

Men may not seem expressive to you at times.

It’s because they don’t trust that you get them. And that you will take advantage of him and make him feel bad about who he is and even worse…

…manipulate and guilt him to do things for you. This is literally the worse thing you can do to a guy if you want him to stick around. And no other guy will tell you this besides me.

Guys understand guys.

And we’ll share more with our guy friends more than with you.

Sorry.

But you have a secret weapon.

Me.

To help you hack your man’s mind…

…in a good way

…that he will appreciate.

And…

…if you’d like to learn what matters most to us guys on a deeper emotional level then I highly recommend that you master the concepts and action steps taught in HIS SECRET OBSESSION by dating and relationship coach James Bauer.

I swear by these techniques when advising my female mail subscribers.

[Click here] to scan through the best parts of HIS SECRET OBSESSION that I highlight here in this post of mine 9 Secret Signals of His Secret Obsession that Trigger the Hero Instinct.

Or go straight to the source and watch James’s informational video.

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10 Kinds of Love Text Messages Designed to Connect with Your Boyfriend or Husband…

…so that he trusts that you actually love him and want what’s best for him

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How to Tell Him that He’s Your Guy (explain what we need and what we fear), do not lie, be genuine, see it from both your viewpoint and his

Love Text Messages to Show Your Approval of, Appreciation for, Admiration of or Attraction to…

1. His Career: Choice, Accomplishments, or Just Having His Back During Struggles

Guys brag about themselves.

You know that.

But do you take advantage of that and put it in your favor?

I’d bet that you don’t because you fear stroking his ego.

There are positive, healthy ways to do it which will give him no choice but to adore you.

  • “I couldn’t be more proud of you for winning the (x) award. You deserved it. I admire your persistence to succeed.”
  • “Nothing makes me happier to see you doing what you love most.”
  • “Keep your head up, honey. Remember that the most rewarding things in life don’t usually come easy. You’ll find a way to make it work.”

2. Him Making You Feel Safe, Protected

This doesn’t mean being physically protected like a knight with a sword and shield, rather that he’s looking out for your best interests and well-being.

  • “Thank you for always checking if I arrive to work safely. I love having a man who looks out for my best interests.”
  • “When you held me tonight I felt like I was in Superman’s strong arms.”
  • “Sweetie, I love your gentleman gestures, like when you walk me to the passenger side door and open it more me. It feels like your my lover and guardian.”

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3. His Lover Skills

We men want to feel like we can please you intimately. In our minds, if we do that, then you won’t want to seek another man because you will feel fulfilled.

This can be romantic or downright sexy and dirty.

  • “I get shivers throughout my body when you touch me.”
  • “Just the way you look at me when you smile sends shivers throughout my body.”
  • “I get wet just thinking about making love to you.”
Love text messages that he wants to receive from you.
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4. His Sense of Humor

Do you know one of the best paths to a guy’s heart?

Laugh at his jokes.

We want to feel like we can entertain you.

  • “Even when I feel most down you find a way to make me laugh to cheer me up. Thank you darling.”
  • “You know how to make any moment entertaining. Thank you for the laughs tonight.”
  • “I feel so special that we still create new inside jokes. It keeps things fresh and new. Love you.”

5. He Wants to Feel Like a Good Provider

He knows that you don’t need taken care of. This has nothing to do with that. Instead, he just wants to know that you appreciate his effort to do his part financially. We as men fear that we will lose you to another man who can offer more financially. This is why you have had men try to impress you with what they own, what they do for a living and how much money they have.

  • “I know times have been tough for you financially this year. I appreciate everything you do for me, darling.”
  • “You’ve got a lot on your plate financially sweetie. Thank you for dinner and the beautiful flowers. Just know I always have your back. I love you for who you are no matter what you give me.”
  • “The expensive perfume was quite the surprise. Thank you. Just know that it’s never the price but the thought that matters most to me. Love you.”

6. Show that You Appreciate His Giving Nature

We want to feel like you notice our efforts to make you happy. Even when we bring you a gift or do something special for you and you don’t like the gift or need the favor, we want you to recognize our good intentions.

You can voice this with texts so that he knows that you appreciate him.

  • “Thank you sweetie for doing all that you do for our kids. I couldn’t ask for a better husband.”
  • “I love when you bring me beautiful flowers. It makes me feel special. I’m so lucky to have you.”
  • “You give me the best birthday gifts. How do you know exactly what I want. You know me so well.”
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7. Express How Much Fun He Is to Spend Time With

We also want to feel that you have a good time with us. That when we’re not together that you think about having a good time with us. We also want to feel like we know how to show you a good time.

And in this way, it brings us a sense of security that you won’t need another man who can entertain you better than us.

  • “Oh, honey, how do you know what I like so well? You sure know how to show a girl a good time.”
  • “You sure know how to surprise me. How did you know that I would like to (x)?”
  • “Even when I feel down, you know how to lift my spirits by showing me a good time. Thank you, honey.”

8. Show Interest in His Passions, Skills, and Talents

Show him that what matters to him matters to you. It’s another way to show that you care about his needs.

  • “I love that you have a passion for (x) and that you are so good at it. Not everyone has the persistence to strive for excellence.”
  • “It’s amazing that you learned to (x). You’re so smart. It’s quite impressive sweetie.”
  • “Honey, how did you learn to (x), anyway? I find that amazing about you.”

9. Show Support for His Personal Space

Displaying trust and that you understand his need for time to himself will go a long way. This shows that you are secure in yourself and that you don’t need to smother him.

Big wins for any guy.

  • “I know we planned to (x) together, but we can do it another time. Have fun with your friends. I know you haven’t seen them much of late.”
  • “You’ve been working so hard lately. How about you go on a getaway trip with some of your friends? A guys’ trip.”
  • “It seems like you’re stressed from a the things you’re juggling. Would you like some time to yourself to recoup?”

10. Let Him Know that You Respect and Value the Qualities He Prides about Himself…

… without stroking his ego too much.

One of the best ways, if not the best way, to connect with someone, is to identify the qualities they take pride in about themselves and recognize them for it.

Do that, and they will adore you.

  • “I’ve never met someone more persistent and determined to achieve their dreams. Love you hun.”
  • “You never cease to amaze me how you juggle everything and still get it done.”
  • “How do you manage to handle the stress in your life and still carry that stunning smile.”

Learn to Get to His Heart and Become the Center of His Life

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I’ve received tons of emails from women wanting to know how to connect with their man in ways that turn her into his obsession.

The key to his heart is simple (provided you make a good long-term personality and life goals match).

Show him that you know what matters most to him.

What he wants in life.

How he sees himself.

And what role he wants to play in a relationship with a woman.

How can you do that?

Unlock those secrets in relationship coach James Bauer’s “His Secret Obsession”.

I HIGHLY recommend that read this cover-to-cover at least twice.

And then read the sections that stand out to you from time to time.

Either [click here] to get more information about His Secret Obsession in this video.

Or read this post of mine 9 Secret Signals of His Secret Obsession that Trigger the Hero Instinct to find out what I feel the most important sections of the eBook to open the door to his heart.

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July 10, 2020 by Roaster Rick 3 Comments

Flirty Good Night Messages to Turn Him On

Flirty Good Night Messages to Turn Him On

With “good morning” texts you want to entice him to respond, but with good night messages you want him to think about you all night.


You don’t want to keep chatting.

The goal is to gain all the power by building up his desire to want you but give him no way to release this sexual tension.

Instead, you make him wait.

It puts you in control and makes him chase.

Once again, you become the “prize”.

But at night, I don’t want you to entice him to keep talking because it looks desperate that you want him to keep going.

Instead, I want you to end the conversation and make him think about what you said to the point he cannot sleep.

Keep the power. Show you are fine waiting until tomorrow.

So, even if he responds, do not keep going.

Good night messages mean good night.

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Flirty Text Messages to Keep Him Up All Night Thinking About You

  1. Guess I’ll just squirm in bed all night thinking about that kiss. Good night hun. 
  2. Sweetie, want to know a secret? Guess what I’m not wearing? 😉 Good night.
  3. How do you turn me on with just words? Keep it up sweetie. Good night. (He’ll want to keep trying to turn you on with his texts, but you cut him off and now he wants you more).
  4. Ugh, super turned on by that kiss. But got to get up early. 😉 Good night handsome.
  5. Wow, you just get me. Super turned on now by what you said tonight. Guess I just gotta wait until next time. Good night honey…
  6. When you get close, I start to, maybe I shouldn’t say. Never mind. I’m too embarrassed. Well, gotta get up early. Later babe. Good night.
  7. I don’t want to get you too excited, but I put your arm around me tonight I started to feel things… in certain places… Sorry, gotta go sweetie. I’m too shy. Good night.
  8. I hope you didn’t notice how much I sweat when you held my hand. Let’s see what happens next time. Good night love.
  9. If you don’t dream about me and wake up sweating in the middle of the night, I’ll be upset. Ha, ha. Good night gorgeous.
  10. I hope you don’t mind me having naughty dreams about you tonight handsome. I’ll tell you tomorrow. Good night.

[Bonus] Done! All off! No pajamas tonight! Feels so good on the cool sheets. Hope I didn’t make you too excited. So tired. Good night.

Again, do NOT reply if he continues to text.

Do you like these good night messages?

Check out dating coach Amy North’s Text Chemistry to learn how to maintain power over a man with just text messages.

Also, learn what to do when he does not respond favorably, or worse, disrespectfully.

Summary of Seductive Good Night Text Messages to Keep Him Excited

The objective behind these texts is that you fulfill his need to feel like he has earned your approval.

He wants to feel like he can please a woman and has learned how to peel back the layers of defenses to win your heart.

Then by YOU ending the conversation (and not him), he knows that he must continue to work on earning that approval.

The second of the good night messages and the last two, of course, are top-notch flirty and will keep him up thinking all night.

I know it can be hard to end a conversation especially when you want to get as much feedback as possible to know how he feels about you.

But I cannot stress enough how much power you maintain by stopping.

It gives him the impression that you’re under control and are fine just pacing instead of spilling everything out of your mind.

Again, make him chase.

Keep him guessing what you’re feeling.

In a Relationship?

Yes, these texts work for you too.

Of course, you wouldn’t send them if you’re sleeping in the same bed together.

However, if you’re not in the same bed then send these and keep the flirting alive in your relationship.

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July 8, 2020 by Roaster Rick 4 Comments

10 Ways to Dominate and Turn On Men with Touch

10 Ways to Dominate and Turn On Men with Touch

NOTHING drives us men wilder than when you touch us.

Sounds pretty obvious, but I don’t just mean sexually.

In fact, in this post, I will NOT discuss anything sexual, just cute, and romantic.

When my girlfriend put her arm around my side for the first time on our first date, it instantly ignited an emotional attraction switch inside me.

I couldn’t help but like it and like her back.

I felt at ease, accepted, desired.

It gave me the “green light” I needed to know that she liked me and that I had permission to proceed to flirt back.

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Now, understand, that I’m NOT suggesting that it’s your responsibility to make the first move as a woman.

No.

But if you like a guy and you want him to see you for more than friends then you must touch him in ways that give him the signal that expresses your attraction to him.

Make it known that you like him.

Then he knows that he can proceed without fear of rejection or feeling like a creep.

It won’t take much, just a small gesture to send shivers throughout his body.

The combination of where you touch him, how you do it, and the flirty comments you say to tease him will tell him that he has permission to flirt back.

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Touch Him, Tease Him, Give Him Permission to Flirt Back Like This…

1. Back of Head

Watch your dirty mind now.

Not that head, his actual head.

Nothing on this list will warm him up to you and draw him closer to you faster than when you touch and caress the back of his head.

It feels so soothing, like a mini massage.

Flirt with him a bit and say, “If I keep petting you like this will your leg start to shake?”

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2. Forearm

Ask him to get something down for you from a high shelf then touch his forearm, make eye contact, smile, and say thank you. Or get bolder and say “thank you handsome”.

Or…

***(This one is only for the most confident girls BUT it is SUUUPER FLIRTY and EPICALLY Cute…)

Lightly touch his forearm, look him in the eyes, then pretend to appear serious and say, “(his name) I’m sorry, but I think we have to break up. I want to see other people.” Then smile, giggle, wink, and walk away.

OR…

Tease him. Open the door for him, lightly touch his forearm and say, “It’s not every day I get to hold the door open for a handsome man.”

Now you might think that I am asking you to play a game.

And I am, just not mind games.

If you don’t have fun and we don’t have fun then what’s the point?

How would you expect him to feel attracted to you if you do not have fun with him and tease him a bit?

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3. Bicep

Lock one arm of his and jokingly ask, “So, when are we getting married?”

Or…

Grab his arm and jokingly ask him to step over in your office (three feet away). Then say something flirty like “Mister you’ve got to stop turning on all these girls around here with your manly voice.”

Or…

While in a parking lot, put your arm around his and ask him to accompany you to your car. Try something flirty like, “You know, it’s a dangerous world out here? How about protecting a damsel in distress and escorting her safely to her car? It’s just over there. Let’s go.”

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4. Hand

Jokingly ask to read his palm so you can tell him his future.

Then tease him about how he’s going to find his princess (describe yourself) and that you’ll carry her off to his castle far away.

Or something else just as silly like he’s going to become a farmer and marry a girl (describe yourself) and have some ridiculously high number of kids. Then you’ll raise a bunch of goats, cows, horses, llamas, whatever. Make a joke of it. But look at him in the eyes, smile, and laugh.

It’s silly and fun- it’s supposed to be.

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5. Shoulder, Upper Back

Say that you’re tired then give a pouty puppy dog face then place one arm around him and lean your head on his shoulder for a quick second.

Or…

Compliment his eyes and ask to take a closer look to determine the color while you place your hand on his shoulder.

6. Lower Back

Pick up something he dropped then touch the small of his back, look in his eyes and say “You’re welcome handsome”.

Or as you pass by him place your hand on his lower back and hold it there a second and say, “Excuse me handsome.”

7. Adjust His Collar, Shirt or Tie

Fix his collar or tie, straighten his shirt, remove a piece of lint.
Take your time doing it. Ask him permission first.

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8. Play with Him, Compare Feet Size

Ask to compare feet size. Then place your foot next to his or your hand up to his hand.

There are endless ways to find a reasonable excuse to move in close and apply innocent touch to non-private parts of his body.

This is an easy one.

9. Chest

Nothing sexual.

Just rest your hand on his chest when making a point.

It’ll look natural.

Make sure to look him in the eyes and hold eye contact, and give a smile- nothing to happy, though.

Say something bold and flirty like, “Wow, you’re heart’s really racing. Do I make you nervous darling.”

Or “Wow, I can feel your heart beating, do you always get this nervous around girls?”

No guy could help but get turned on from flirty, confident remarks like those.

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10. Leg

Still not getting sexual, but a simple resting of your hand on his leg while he drives or you sit next to him at a restaurant or bench outdoors while looking up at the moon and stars.

Just having your warm hand there will give him butterflies.

Say something romantic like, “You know I already made my wish to my lucky star, still waiting for my kiss, though.”

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Summary of Ways to Touch Men that Dominate Them and Draw them Closer to You

In case you feel uncertain about your ability to attract men and draw them to you, guess again.

You have an abundance of female superpowers that drive us wild that we find super attractive.

Touch is by far the most effective one.

In this blog post, we only discussed innocent and romantic ways to touch him and the cute, flirty comments that you could make to turn him on.

Again, if you want some tips on how to say the right things to turn on men sexually while still guarding your dignity and maintaining the power then check out Language of Desire.

Dating coach Felicity Keith has helped thousands of women to successfully flirt and turn on men without feeling ashamed and while earning the respect of the men they interact with.

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