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August 19, 2020 by Roaster Rick 1 Comment

How to Create Pinterest Pins Fast with Canva

How to Create Pinterest Pins Fast with Canva

Tired of taking 30 minutes, 60 minutes or longer to create Pinterest Pins (or any social media images)?

Most internet marketing gurus suggest that you spend more time (80%) promoting your content than creating it (20%).

I’d agree.

You don’t know what your audience wants until they take action on it anyway.

Get your blog posts into the hands of your target audience- as many of them as possible.

If you’re reading this post then I’d assume that you use Pinterest and have experienced it’s raw awesome power to 2x, 3x or even MORE your traffic!

But if you cannot create high-quality Pins fast then you will miss out on making those viral Pins that hoard traffic like a vacuum.

(Some of my Pins on my Infidelity First Aid Kit Pinterest account get hundreds of new visitors to one blog post in one day- well after I published them. You’ve got to love the shear awesome power of sharing on Pinterest).

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That’s why I will show you the steps I take to create Pinterest Pins super fast with Canva.com

And not just any Pinterest Pins, but high quality viral Pins.

I made some short videos for you to watch each step.

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Why Create Multiple Pins for the Same Blog Post?

You never know what Pin will actually work to attract Pinners’ attention.

For some of my popular blog posts on InfidelityFirstAidKit.com I have created 50 or more Pins for the same blog post. 

Spread out over time you should to the same for your most read blog posts- especially for your money-making posts that convert affiliate sales.

 

[Pro Tip] Once you see which blog post Pins draw the most traffic focus most of your Pin creation efforts there because you know that people want to read them. 

Certain layouts or elements tend to make the difference between just a few clicks versus hundreds, if not thousands of clicks just for one Pin in a month.

The elements that tend to get me the most traffic are the following:

  • Image: matches the headline
  • Background color: don’t know why, but some colors work better with certain headlines than others
  • Image of person looking at headline: forces the eye to look at the headline
  • Headline: the easier you can communicate the purpose and benefit of the post with less words, the quicker you grab your audience’s attention
  • Headline Font: fonts create moods and touch certain feelings that coincide with the theme of the Pin.

[The Key] Duplicate and Swap Out Elements- Do NOT Start Over

Swap out these elements to see what works best.

No matter how much experience you have you never know what works until you try it.

You just don’t know what your audience wants until you review the results.

Some of my Pins that I created years ago still get me thousands of clicks a month.

Part of this is from regular publishing with Pin schedulers (I use Tailwind), but most of the success comes from the design of the Pin.

Now let’s look at the steps that I take to create high-quality Pins fast with Canva.com

(Get started with the free version of Canva.com. Although, I highly recommend Canva.com Pro. I’ve used both the free and Pro and the Pro version gives me many more options.)

Step One: Overview- Creating the First Pin

The key to fast Pin image creation with Canva is the first Pin. 

Create the template and then swap out other elements.

The easiest method to create multiple high-quality Pins fast is to just swap out one element like the image.

Watch my overview video above that explains the process that I follow to create Pin images with Canva that get me 15k+ visitors just for one Pin a month.

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Step Two: Choose Photo, Create Headline

 

The fastest and simplest way to create additional Pins after you design the first one is to just swap out the image.

Choose free of charge, royalty-free photos within Canva.

Click on the photo within your first Pin, delete then select another one to replace it. (Watch how I do it in my above short video).

With Canva you can access thousands of free images (although  I prefer Canva Pro in order to access even more without needing to pay for single images).

Watch how fast you can swap out images in my above video. (Click play to hear audio)

 

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Step Three: Add Subheadline and Elements

Next create a subheadline that describes more in detail the specific target audience and benefit of what you blog post offers.

The headline alone does not specify this.

If you only create a headline then your blog post looks too bland and does not stand out.

After you create the subheadline, then make it pop and stand out with a background element and the correct color.

Watch how I do it in my above video. (Unmute to hear audio)

It’s so simple.

Within seconds you will finish your second Pin image.

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Step Four: Add Blog Name, Duplicate Pin

In this short video I will show you how within seconds you can paste your blog name (or blog logo) on your first Pin image.

Then from there you can duplicate your Pin and finish the second image.

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(Optional Version) Background, Elements

I prefer to fill the Pin canvas with a photo, but some of my best Pins contain a background color.

In this short video watch how I swap out the background color and other elements to create high-quality Pins with Canva that hoard thousands of clicks a month.

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July 28, 2020 by Roaster Rick 1 Comment

Romantic Texts vs Dirty Texts to Flirt and Dominate Men

Romantic Texts vs Dirty Texts to Flirt and Dominate Men

Cute and romantic texts or seductive and dirty ones? Not sure which route to take? Fear it could get out of control and go the wrong direction?

I’m here to help.

I created this blog post to show you how to take a fill-in-the-blank texts message script (a template) and turn them into romantic texts or seductive texts

(I even give movie-style ratings for the dirty texts: R-rated up to XXX).

I’m a guy who runs a few relationship blogs and a newsletter with thousands of female subscribers.

My goal is always to help my female viewers and subscribers to connect with relationship-seeking men on a deeper level.

Every relationship situation is different and your flirting preferences may differ from other women.

But one thing is for sure, all of us men like to have fun and flirt via text.

You just have to choose which direction to take it.

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  • Sexy Texts to Turn Him On and Make Him Want You
  • 10 Flirty Texts to Send Men and Get a Response
  • 10 Good Night Messages to Seduce Him and Keep Him Up All Night

To Text or to Sext? That is the Question

Do you feel comfortable spicing things up and getting seductive?

Some of you don’t feel comfortable sexting.

Therefore, I want to give you options.

You cannot send the same message in every situation.

So, keep in mind how well you know the guy and how respectful he treats you.

What kinds of compliments does he give you?

Does he seem bring up sex often?

Is it too early for you to talk about sex?

Choose your own path.

But here is how you can take texts and make them either romantic texts or dirty texts.

Need suggestions? Let me help you brew up your own romantic texts or erotic texts. Email me.

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Romantic Texts vs Dirty Texts: Sweet and Cute or Spicy and Seductive?

(Fill-in-the-blank text scripts to create your own)

Directions: Check out the descriptions of each text script. Then look at my romantic texts and dirty texts examples first. Copy-and-paste to send as is or swap out the text in parentheses with your own based on your preference. Plus, feel free to change up my word choice to suit your needs.

1. If we were (______) what would happen next?

Give him the nudge to tell the rest of the story. Some guys won’t need a nudge, others will.

Romantic Texts Examples

  • If we were (outside, it was cold and we had no coats, just each other,) what would happen next?
  • If we were (bored with nothing else to do but stare into each other’s eyes) what would happen next?
  • If we were (seated at a fancy dimly lit bar, and your hand slipped on top of mine,) what would happen next?

*Single? Dating? Looking for more tips how to create romantic chemistry via texts? Check out one of my favorite flirty text guides Text Chemistry by dating coach Amy North.

*In a relationship? Feel like the loving feelings and romance have gone? I highly recommend mastering the fundamental techniques to bond with your partner taught in relationship coach Michael Fiore’s Text the Romance Back. Click here to watch the informational video on Text the Romance Back.

Dirty Texts Examples

  • (PG-rated) If we were (all alone in a parked car while it stormed outside) what would happen next?
  • (R-rated) If we were (stuck in traffic and my hand rested on your thigh) what would happen next?
  • (R-rated) If we were (scantily dressed while cooking together) what would happen next?

*Want more tips how to master the art of talking dirty to a man while keeping your dignity while releasing your inner sexual beast, including copy-and-paste text examples?

Check out one of my favorite seduction guides designed for women Language of Desire by dating coach Felicity Keith, who practices what she preaches.

[Take Poll] Choose One Answer

Which Romantic Text is Best?

2. If we (_____) would you rather (x) or (y)?

See what he’s thinking by giving him options.

Romantic Texts Examples

  • If we (were on a walk,) would you rather (we hold hands) or (should I pretend I don’t know you and walk fast)?

[Here you tease him a little to playfully make it like you don’t want to associate with him. Make him work to earn your affection and approval.]

  • If we (were watching Netflix on the couch) would you rather (whisper sweet things in my ear) or (get shy and just watch the movie?)
  • If we (got a drink at a rooftop bar with a scenic view) would you rather (get lost in my eyes) or (in my lips?)

Dirty Text Examples

  • (R-rated) If we (sat on the couch,) would you rather (get close and persona) l or (get shy and just watch the movie?)
  • (R-rated) If we (stood close together at a party,) would you rather (move closer) or (go somewhere more private?)
  • (R-rated) If we (were trapped inside a cabin in the middle of the woods while it snowed) would you rather (just sit by the fire and warm up) or (do something a little more “creative”?)
  • (R-rated) If we (waded through the water of a tropical beach with no one around) would you rather (stay clothed) or (not?)

3. If I told you a secret about (_____), would you (x) or (y)?

The power word “secret” triggers his need to unlock it, especially when he knows when you’re flirting with him.

Romantic Text Examples

  • If I told you a secret about (what I thought of your handsome face,) would you (get excited and do something about it) or (just get scared)?
  • If I told you a secret about (something hot, I noticed about you on our first date,) would you (blush) or (get excited)?
  • If I told you a secret yummy thought that I had about (my favorite photo of yours,) would you (get shy) or (ask for more)?

*In a relationship? Feel disconnected from your partner? Learn how to bring your partner closer with the texting strategies taught in relationship coach Michael Fiore’s Text the Romance Back. Click here to watch the informational video on Text the Romance Back.

Dirty Text Examples

I added the word “dirty” to all of them.

  • (R-rated) If I told you a dirty secret about (my favorite panties,) would you (blush and get shy) or (get excited)?
  • (R-rated) If I told you a dirty secret about (my body,) would you (want to know it) or (rather I just keep it to myself)?

[You can turn this X-rated by swapping out “body” for specific body parts].

  • (X-rated) If I told you a dirty secret thought I had about (a certain part of your body) would (your heart burst with excitement) or (would you keep calm and collect ha, ha, ha)?

[Take Poll] Choose One Response

Which Dirty Text will turn on your partner the most?

4. If a cute girl (_____), what would you do next?

This seems counter-intuitive, but you are teasing him here while referring to yourself in third-person. It’s just another way to act playfully and cute.

Romantic Text Examples

  • If a cute girl (moved closer to you while on a first date,) what would you do next handsome?
  • If a cute girl (looked right in your eyes for a few seconds then smiled,) what would you do next?
  • If a cute girl (with sweet perfume fixed your collar, smiled and winked while she did,) what would you do next?
  • If a cute girl (told you how handsome you were,) what would you do next?
  • If a cute girl (sat next to you at a bar with all the other seats empty, then said hello,) what would you do next?

*In a relationship? Feel like roommates instead of a couple? I highly recommend mastering the fundamental techniques to feel in love again taught in relationship coach Michael Fiore’s Text the Romance Back. Click here to watch the informational video on Text the Romance Back.

Dirty Text Examples

  • (R-rated) If a cute girl (were undressing with the bathroom door cracked open) what would you do next?
  • (X-rated) If a cute girl (were touching herself on the couch while watching a movie) what would you next?
  • (XXX-rated) If a cute girl (rubbed your inner thigh while watching TV) what would happen next?

5. You don’t mind (x) when (y), do you?

Here’s a push and pull technique. You give him what he wants while teasing him to take it away. In this case, you tease him to say in so many words, “No, of course I don’t mind, in fact, I want more.”

Romantic Text Examples

  • You don’t mind (me staring at your beautiful eyes when you drive,) do you?
  • You don’t mind (when I move in closer to you,) do you?
  • You don’t mind (when a cute girl tells you how handsome you are,) do you?
  • You don’t mind (if I get up close like this and smile,) do you?
  • You don’t mind (if a cute girl puts her hand here on your back,) do you?

Dirty Text Examples

  • (R-rated) You don’t mind (if a cute girl puts her hand, um, on your thigh), do you?
  • (X-rated) You don’t mind (me touching myself while we chat), do you?
  • (XXX-rated) You don’t mind me (thinking about imagining massaging your cock while we text,) do you?

Sweet or seductive, which romantic texts and dirty texts do you like most?

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July 22, 2020 by Roaster Rick Leave a Comment

10 Emotional Attraction Texts: The Key to His Heart

10 Emotional Attraction Texts: The Key to His Heart

Ready for a shock? Want one of the keys to a man’s heart? Create emotional attraction.

Connect with us through our feelings.

Acknowledge that we have deep feelings and allow us to be the best version of ourselves.

Do you currently think about a man day-in-and-day-out, but feel like something is missing?

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The key to our hearts is connecting through our feelings by tripping our emotional attraction triggers.

Now, please understand that I do not think that there is just one way to do that.

But I will reveal one easy way to do it in this blog post, and you could start TODAY.

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What Matters Most to Us Men?

Master the art of emotional attraction and connection with men.

Watch the video of Make Him Worship You by dating coach Michael Fiore

Or His Secret Obsession by dating coach James Bauer.

I recommend these to my coaching clients and female friends to understand our deeper relationship and emotional needs.

EVERY man wants to feel like he is good at something– preferably many things.

We pride ourselves in what we believe we are good at.

And in relationships, we want to feel that we are good at making you happy.

As men, we deal with rejection from the opposite sex starting when we are just little boys.

Therefore, one key is to acknowledge how good he makes you feel.

Acknowledge to him the things that make him feel GOOD ENOUGH for you.

No guy is even near perfect, and we know that, but we do not want to lose that girl with whom we feel that genuine emotional attraction bond.

We know you have other suitors and do not want to lose you.

Losing you to another man, or just losing you at all, crushes our soul.

So, in what ways do we want to feel GOOD ENOUGH that we can fulfill you so that you see us as special and

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Qualities of How Men Want to Feel Good Enough to You

  • Our Giving and Kind Nature
  • The gifts we bring you
  • Being a Good Enough Cook for you
  • Feeling like we could protect you- stick up for you (we’re not a pushover)
  • Sense of Humor
  • Feeling Handsome and Physically Attractive to you
  • Fun to spend time with
  • Please you Sexually
  • Can Turn You On
  • We can make you Feel Attractive
  • Make Us Feel Like We Understand Your Needs and Wants
  • Value Our Ambitious Spirit
  • Finds Us Intelligent

This is just a shortlist, but the concept here is that you should acknowledge the Qualities and Characteristics that he takes pride in himself.

How Do You Acknowledge His Desire to Feel GOOD ENOUGH to You?

Honestly, you should do this not just in texts, but also in person.

Express this through your touch, facial expressions, and body language.

But here is a list of 5 text messages to create emotional attraction with your man.

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10 Flirty Texts to Send Men and Get a Response

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5 Emotional Attraction Trigger Texts that…

… Make Him Feel Connected: Acknowledge WHY He’s GOOD ENOUGH

I’ll just choose from the list above and provide you a copy-and-paste text message to send him.

The words do NOT matter as much as the concept.

That’s why the above list is so important.

1. “How do you know how to touch me the way you do? It sends shivers throughout my body. You know me so well hon.”

2. “Can I tell you a secret about you that sends electric pulses through my body?”

(Wait for him to reply).

“Staring at your eyes. I love your eyes. Hope you don’t mind.”

Expect him to ask you to keep staring.

As men, we love for you to objectify us.

Compliment our features.

3. “Do you know what you do that I appreciate more than anything?”

(Wait for him to reply).

“You want me to achieve my dreams. You make me feel like I can do anything if I just put my mind to it. You’re my biggest fan.”

Make him feel like he truly gets you.

Likewise, do the same for him.

Show him your support, let him chase his passions.

4. “I’m embarrassed to admit this. Don’t want to give you too much power over me. But want to know a secret? How you super turn me on?”

(Wait for reply)

“The way you hold the back of my head and pull it in when we kiss. You know how to make me feel special.”

Again, make him feel like he is your man because he knows how to fulfill you and give you what you want.

5. “I don’t know how you do it.”

(Wait for him to ask what you mean).

“How you just melt my heart with the sweetest words. I really feel like you listen to what matters to me.”

5 Emotional Attraction Trigger Texts that…

… Make Him Feel Connected: Admire or Acknowledge His Uniqueness that Attracts You

Another way we want you to acknowledge that we are good at something is by bringing up our unique talents, skills, and personality traits.

Identity is huge for us men.

We compete with each other to feel worthy, to feel like we offer something to the world and we want others to acknowledge these unique qualities about us.

One of the best ways to connect with a man is to allow him to feel like your protector, your rescuer or fixer.

You can learn how to trip these emotional attraction triggers one of my favorite dating coach eBooks His Secret Obsession by James Bauer.

Make Him Worship You by Michael Fiore is another great one that shows you how to create an emotional connection with a man.

What are some of the ways you can acknowledge or admire your man’s uniqueness?

Qualities of What Men Take Pride in Themselves About

  • His Choice of Career
  • Ambitious Spirit
  • Intelligence
  • Decisiveness
  • Desire for Improvement
  • His Hobbies
  • His Big Dreams
  • Awards He Wins
  • His Talents (Musical, athletic, artistic, engineering, etc.)
  • Creativity
  • Spontaneity
  • Adventurous Spirit

Again, this list is short, but the concept matters most.

Admire and acknowledge the things that he prides most about in himself.

Now check out this list of sample copy-and-paste texts that you could send to your man.

The word ADMIRE brings power to your texts.

I recommend that you use it.

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6. “Do you know what I admire about you?”

(Wait for him to reply).

“How decisive and spontaneous you are! It’s so sexy! I love that you take charge and we just go somewhere.”

7. “I want you to know honey that I admire that you do what you love! Not many people can say that they work in what they are passionate about.”

We want to feel that you support us in our careers.

I cannot tell you the damage that you can create by making him change careers just to suit your needs when he loves what he does.

8. “Sweetie, I admire that you chase your dreams. I know you do not do what you love, but I love how you keep pushing to pursue your passions.”

We need your support to chase our dreams. Many guys feel trapped being someone we are not.

You can cultivate emotional attraction by supporting his inner happiness and need to do what he loves.

9. “Honey I admire your creativity. You never cease to amaze me how you keep coming up with amazing ideas. (Give him examples of something from his career or hobbies).

10. “Honey, how did you learn to cook so well on your own? You’re so smart. I find that so attractive about you that you can learn things without being taught.”

Here we admire a couple of things in one single text: his creativity and intelligence.

Watch how your man opens up, works harder to earn your affection or even changes just by you simply regularly acknowledging how well he gets you and pleases you, and his unique qualities.

The key to emotional attraction and connection with men (or anyone really) is to understand what matters most to them and to let them be the best version of themselves around you.

Make Him Worship You by dating coach Michael Fiore and His Secret Obsession by James Bauer are two of my favorite resources that I suggest to my coaching clients and female friends.

What are Favorite Ways to Create Emotional Attraction with Your Man?

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July 10, 2020 by Roaster Rick 3 Comments

Flirty Good Night Messages to Turn Him On

Flirty Good Night Messages to Turn Him On

With “good morning” texts you want to entice him to respond, but with good night messages you want him to think about you all night.


You don’t want to keep chatting.

The goal is to gain all the power by building up his desire to want you but give him no way to release this sexual tension.

Instead, you make him wait.

It puts you in control and makes him chase.

Once again, you become the “prize”.

But at night, I don’t want you to entice him to keep talking because it looks desperate that you want him to keep going.

Instead, I want you to end the conversation and make him think about what you said to the point he cannot sleep.

Keep the power. Show you are fine waiting until tomorrow.

So, even if he responds, do not keep going.

Good night messages mean good night.

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Flirty Text Messages to Keep Him Up All Night Thinking About You

  1. Guess I’ll just squirm in bed all night thinking about that kiss. Good night hun. 
  2. Sweetie, want to know a secret? Guess what I’m not wearing? 😉 Good night.
  3. How do you turn me on with just words? Keep it up sweetie. Good night. (He’ll want to keep trying to turn you on with his texts, but you cut him off and now he wants you more).
  4. Ugh, super turned on by that kiss. But got to get up early. 😉 Good night handsome.
  5. Wow, you just get me. Super turned on now by what you said tonight. Guess I just gotta wait until next time. Good night honey…
  6. When you get close, I start to, maybe I shouldn’t say. Never mind. I’m too embarrassed. Well, gotta get up early. Later babe. Good night.
  7. I don’t want to get you too excited, but I put your arm around me tonight I started to feel things… in certain places… Sorry, gotta go sweetie. I’m too shy. Good night.
  8. I hope you didn’t notice how much I sweat when you held my hand. Let’s see what happens next time. Good night love.
  9. If you don’t dream about me and wake up sweating in the middle of the night, I’ll be upset. Ha, ha. Good night gorgeous.
  10. I hope you don’t mind me having naughty dreams about you tonight handsome. I’ll tell you tomorrow. Good night.

[Bonus] Done! All off! No pajamas tonight! Feels so good on the cool sheets. Hope I didn’t make you too excited. So tired. Good night.

Again, do NOT reply if he continues to text.

Do you like these good night messages?

Check out dating coach Amy North’s Text Chemistry to learn how to maintain power over a man with just text messages.

Also, learn what to do when he does not respond favorably, or worse, disrespectfully.

Summary of Seductive Good Night Text Messages to Keep Him Excited

The objective behind these texts is that you fulfill his need to feel like he has earned your approval.

He wants to feel like he can please a woman and has learned how to peel back the layers of defenses to win your heart.

Then by YOU ending the conversation (and not him), he knows that he must continue to work on earning that approval.

The second of the good night messages and the last two, of course, are top-notch flirty and will keep him up thinking all night.

I know it can be hard to end a conversation especially when you want to get as much feedback as possible to know how he feels about you.

But I cannot stress enough how much power you maintain by stopping.

It gives him the impression that you’re under control and are fine just pacing instead of spilling everything out of your mind.

Again, make him chase.

Keep him guessing what you’re feeling.

In a Relationship?

Yes, these texts work for you too.

Of course, you wouldn’t send them if you’re sleeping in the same bed together.

However, if you’re not in the same bed then send these and keep the flirting alive in your relationship.

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July 8, 2020 by Roaster Rick 4 Comments

10 Ways to Dominate and Turn On Men with Touch

10 Ways to Dominate and Turn On Men with Touch

NOTHING drives us men wilder than when you touch us.

Sounds pretty obvious, but I don’t just mean sexually.

In fact, in this post, I will NOT discuss anything sexual, just cute, and romantic.

When my girlfriend put her arm around my side for the first time on our first date, it instantly ignited an emotional attraction switch inside me.

I couldn’t help but like it and like her back.

I felt at ease, accepted, desired.

It gave me the “green light” I needed to know that she liked me and that I had permission to proceed to flirt back.

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Now, understand, that I’m NOT suggesting that it’s your responsibility to make the first move as a woman.

No.

But if you like a guy and you want him to see you for more than friends then you must touch him in ways that give him the signal that expresses your attraction to him.

Make it known that you like him.

Then he knows that he can proceed without fear of rejection or feeling like a creep.

It won’t take much, just a small gesture to send shivers throughout his body.

The combination of where you touch him, how you do it, and the flirty comments you say to tease him will tell him that he has permission to flirt back.

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Touch Him, Tease Him, Give Him Permission to Flirt Back Like This…

1. Back of Head

Watch your dirty mind now.

Not that head, his actual head.

Nothing on this list will warm him up to you and draw him closer to you faster than when you touch and caress the back of his head.

It feels so soothing, like a mini massage.

Flirt with him a bit and say, “If I keep petting you like this will your leg start to shake?”

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2. Forearm

Ask him to get something down for you from a high shelf then touch his forearm, make eye contact, smile, and say thank you. Or get bolder and say “thank you handsome”.

Or…

***(This one is only for the most confident girls BUT it is SUUUPER FLIRTY and EPICALLY Cute…)

Lightly touch his forearm, look him in the eyes, then pretend to appear serious and say, “(his name) I’m sorry, but I think we have to break up. I want to see other people.” Then smile, giggle, wink, and walk away.

OR…

Tease him. Open the door for him, lightly touch his forearm and say, “It’s not every day I get to hold the door open for a handsome man.”

Now you might think that I am asking you to play a game.

And I am, just not mind games.

If you don’t have fun and we don’t have fun then what’s the point?

How would you expect him to feel attracted to you if you do not have fun with him and tease him a bit?

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3. Bicep

Lock one arm of his and jokingly ask, “So, when are we getting married?”

Or…

Grab his arm and jokingly ask him to step over in your office (three feet away). Then say something flirty like “Mister you’ve got to stop turning on all these girls around here with your manly voice.”

Or…

While in a parking lot, put your arm around his and ask him to accompany you to your car. Try something flirty like, “You know, it’s a dangerous world out here? How about protecting a damsel in distress and escorting her safely to her car? It’s just over there. Let’s go.”

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4. Hand

Jokingly ask to read his palm so you can tell him his future.

Then tease him about how he’s going to find his princess (describe yourself) and that you’ll carry her off to his castle far away.

Or something else just as silly like he’s going to become a farmer and marry a girl (describe yourself) and have some ridiculously high number of kids. Then you’ll raise a bunch of goats, cows, horses, llamas, whatever. Make a joke of it. But look at him in the eyes, smile, and laugh.

It’s silly and fun- it’s supposed to be.

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5. Shoulder, Upper Back

Say that you’re tired then give a pouty puppy dog face then place one arm around him and lean your head on his shoulder for a quick second.

Or…

Compliment his eyes and ask to take a closer look to determine the color while you place your hand on his shoulder.

6. Lower Back

Pick up something he dropped then touch the small of his back, look in his eyes and say “You’re welcome handsome”.

Or as you pass by him place your hand on his lower back and hold it there a second and say, “Excuse me handsome.”

7. Adjust His Collar, Shirt or Tie

Fix his collar or tie, straighten his shirt, remove a piece of lint.
Take your time doing it. Ask him permission first.

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8. Play with Him, Compare Feet Size

Ask to compare feet size. Then place your foot next to his or your hand up to his hand.

There are endless ways to find a reasonable excuse to move in close and apply innocent touch to non-private parts of his body.

This is an easy one.

9. Chest

Nothing sexual.

Just rest your hand on his chest when making a point.

It’ll look natural.

Make sure to look him in the eyes and hold eye contact, and give a smile- nothing to happy, though.

Say something bold and flirty like, “Wow, you’re heart’s really racing. Do I make you nervous darling.”

Or “Wow, I can feel your heart beating, do you always get this nervous around girls?”

No guy could help but get turned on from flirty, confident remarks like those.

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10. Leg

Still not getting sexual, but a simple resting of your hand on his leg while he drives or you sit next to him at a restaurant or bench outdoors while looking up at the moon and stars.

Just having your warm hand there will give him butterflies.

Say something romantic like, “You know I already made my wish to my lucky star, still waiting for my kiss, though.”

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Summary of Ways to Touch Men that Dominate Them and Draw them Closer to You

In case you feel uncertain about your ability to attract men and draw them to you, guess again.

You have an abundance of female superpowers that drive us wild that we find super attractive.

Touch is by far the most effective one.

In this blog post, we only discussed innocent and romantic ways to touch him and the cute, flirty comments that you could make to turn him on.

Again, if you want some tips on how to say the right things to turn on men sexually while still guarding your dignity and maintaining the power then check out Language of Desire.

Dating coach Felicity Keith has helped thousands of women to successfully flirt and turn on men without feeling ashamed and while earning the respect of the men they interact with.

What’s the Most Effective Way to Turn On Men and Dominate Them with Touch?

Share your comment and opinions below.

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