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July 8, 2020 by Roaster Rick 4 Comments

Flirty Texts to Send Men and Get a Naughty Response Back

Flirty Texts to Send Men and Get a Naughty Response Back

I cannot guarantee that men will always respond, but these flirty texts will increase his response rate.

Now please do not misunderstand me.

I don’t want you to sit around your phone and wait for him to reply.

Chasing him goes against what I recommend women do in meeting men, dating and relationships.

On the contrary, I want you to control the situation.

Because we want to see you as the “prize”.

And in order for that to happen you need him to chase you.

These flirty texts can get the ball rolling for you in text conversations and flick his emotional triggers to ask and beg for more.

A heads up, many of these get pretty seductive, so please choose the flirty text examples that fit your situation best.

Factor in what you feel comfortable sending, how well you know the guy and the agreed-upon status of your relationship.

However, you are the bold, confident type then do not hesitate to take a little risk by dropping one of the more risqué texts in this blog post.

Also, if you seek some tips on how to talk dirty to a man that drives us wild then dating coach Felicity Keith’s Language of Desire hits the mark. (Many men she collaborated with to make the course would agree).

I’ve been reviewing lately and can attest that many of her lessons work to spark a strong sexual desire in us, even at times against our will.

Think of mastering these techniques as gaining an unfair advantage over us.

Now, let’s move onto the…

10 Kinds of Flirty Texts that Get Him to Respond and Make Him Ask for More

1. “Guess what?”

Who can resist answering this question?

You can’t over do this flirty text technique because it will look like you are luring him along.

Try different versions of this question.

Randomly drop him one.

  • Guess what I dreamed about you last night?
  • Guess why I couldn’t sleep last night handsome? 😉
  • Guess what I’m thinking about right now gorgeous?
  • Guess where you’re taking me cutie?
  • Guess what I’m smiling about right now?
  • Guess what I noticed about you the other day sexy?

And here are some sexy “Guessing What?” flirty texts (if your relationship is that point- or when it gets there).

  • Guess what I’m not wearing?
  • Guess where I just put my bra/panties? (The answer here is not what makes this super-hot text work. It’s the flirty teasing of planting the image in his mind).
  • Guess what, umm, I’m about to do in this dark room alone 😉?

2. “Guess I’ll just have to …”

Drop one of these flirty texts in his inbox when he least expects it.

He’ll rush to find out the rest of your thoughts.

Kill us and dominate us with visuals (if you’re comfortable with it)

Again, choose who you send these to wisely, it might be to soon.

  • Guess I’ll just have to stop admiring this picture of you.
  • Guess I’ll just have to stop thinking about you.
  • Guess I’ll just have to stop thinking about your … ha…

And now some sexier ones…

  • Guess I’ll just have to put my panties back up.
  • Guess I’ll just have to put my bra back on.

Keep in mind some of the keys to flirting via text and to make yourself the “prize-to-be-won” and to make men chase.

  • Keep it fun, don’t always have normal serious conversations
  • Tease him
  • Make him guess what you’re thinking
  • Leave out parts of the texts to get him to ask for the rest
  • Make yourself mysterious
  • And even be the one to END the conversations.

3. Inside Joke/Story

Take advantage of a recent situation that happened between you two or a running joke that started.

Any new story gives you more opportunities to turn up the flirty dial and have some fun.

  • Elevator. 5 minutes. Let’s pick up where we left off last night. 😘
  • You sure talked the big talk the other night. Let’s see if you can walk it tonight.
  • So, when are you going to complete your promise?
  • I’m still blushing handsome from what you said.
  • What you said got me thinking.
  • So, I did it again. 🙄
  • I’m still waiting sweetie…

[Related blog post: 10 Sexy Texts to Drive Men Wild]

4. Unspoken Secrets

We go crazy when you share your ongoing secret desires.

To know that you’ve been holding back and admiring us makes us feel lucky and desired.

  • My fingernails and blouse weren’t the only purple things I wore tonight. 😘
  • Any idea how much I fantasized about you after our date tonight?
  • If I revealed the thoughts I have about you at work, I’d end up in the HR office.
  • Nothing. It’s smooth as silk. (Referring to his previous question in a previous conversation to what’s your “situation down there”.
  • Wish you would have kept your hand there longer.
  • Did you notice? (He’ll ask, “notice what”?). That I wasn’t wearing any underwear? 😘
  • I hope you didn’t notice. (He’ll ask what you mean). How much I was sweating when you got close to me.

5. Flirty, Confident Assumptions

Most men would agree that confidence is the sexist trait a woman can possess.

And if you feel comfortable enough pulling these flirty texts off then you could have him wrapped around your finger.

Tease him, it entices him to play along.

We want text conversations to be fun.

  • Hey! Stop thinking about me already! lol
  • Why can’t you stop thinking about me? Lol
  • So, how many times have you daydreamed about my ass?
  • You can’t stop thinking about making out with me, can you? Lol
  • I see you stare at me a lot. What part do you like best?
  • Try to resist checking out my breasts. Bet you can’t. (And so, now guess what he’ll try to do).
  • Admit it. I made you sweat when grabbed your arm and kissed you on the cheek.
  • So, admit how, um, hard, did you get when I put my hand on your leg at the movies?
  • I bet you can’t resist picturing me in an elevator right now making out.
  • I bet you can’t resist picturing me in anything but my panties and bra right now.

6. If I … would you …?

Follow this simple flirty text script question.

Use them as is or create your own customized texts to fit your situation preferences, and personality

  • Hey, good-looking, if I admitted thinking about you today would you mind?
  • Hey sweetie, if I touched your hand would you pull away?
  • Hey cutie, if I whispered a secret into your ear would you blush?
  • Tell me if this bothers you. If I thought something slightly naughty about you, would you get offended?
  • If I stared at your beautiful eyes, would you get nervous?
  • Hey, honey, if I breathed on your neck, would you sweat?

Insert flirty phrases that help him ease into flirting back like:

  • …would you be offended?
  • …would you touch back?
  • …would you play along?
  • …could you resist me?
  • …would you mind?
  • …would you get upset?

7. If I were …?

Put some of the power back in his hands.

Allow him to get turned on with these seductive invitations to have some naughty fun.

These may not be for everyone.

  • “If I were there right now, what would you do?”
  • “If I were alone in an elevator going to the top floor what would you join me?”
  • “If I were undressing in front of the window would you look?”
  • “If I were alone in my office at night would you come visit?
  • “If I were taking a bath with the door cracked open, would you look?”
  • “If I were wearing nothing but just my undies would you get excited?”

8. If we were … what would you want/what would happen?

This time around create imaginary scenarios together.

I would not use these on a new guy unless he has shown some interest.

Of course, it could still work if you have the confidence to test them out.

Just careful not to use them too early in a relationship, but I will leave that up to you.

  • If we were alone on a deserted beach, what would happen?
  • If we were stranded alone in an elevator what would happen next?
  • If we were alone on your couch right now what would happen next?
  • If we were naked alone in a cabin in the mountains what would you want?
  • If we were alone in the pool with no one home would you want to remove our suits?

9. Incomplete Desires to Make Him Bet for More

Allude to strong emotional feelings you have, but hold back at revealing too much at first.

Let him ask for the rest.

  • Text 1) I just got reminded of something I find sexy about you. Text 2) Never mind. I’m too embarrassed.
  • Something sexy about you popped in my mind and now I can’t stop thinking about … Yum!
  • If you only knew what I was thinking about you right now…
  • I noticed something about you that turned me on and now I can’t get it out of my mind.
  • Did you know how much it turns me on when you … ?

10. May I Ask You a Question?

May I ask you a question? (Wait for him to respond) then follow up with these examples:

  • How did you learn to make a girl smile so much?
  • Have you ever caught me checking you out?
  • Do you have any idea how nervous I get when you look me in the eye?
  • Any idea how hard I find it to not think about your handsome face?
  • Do you know how sexy I find you?
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What If He Does Not Respond the Way You Want?

It could just be bad timing, or maybe he just cannot respond.

A one-time failure to get a response does not necessarily spell danger.

Test out a few of these flirty texts at different times.

The pattern of his responses (or lack of them) will show you how he feels about you.

But, make no mistake, these will be hard to resist responding to.

Compelling, attention grabbing flirty comments and questions target a basic instinct of his to want to play along.

It’s fun and a huge turn on.

Of course, you can also check out dating coach for women Amy North’s Text Chemistry.

Some of the chapters in her eBook/videos teach how to handle this tricky situation, plus other texting challenges with men like when he does not text for a few days or seems emotionally distant.

What are your favorite Flirty Texts to send men?

Leave a comment below.

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July 5, 2020 by Roaster Rick 6 Comments

Sexy Texts to Turn Him On, Make Him Want You

Sexy Texts to Turn Him On, Make Him Want You

Talking dirty does NOT make them sexy texts, necessarily.

“I want to f*** you now!”, won’t always work.

It leaves little to the imagination.

In this blog post, I will show you the most effective strategy to send sexy texts that turn us on.

And I will give you examples of seductive text conversations that work on me and other men.

WARNING! Dirty texts are NOT for everyone.

[Affiliate Disclosure: I earn a commission with the purchase of a product through affiliate links on this post.]

These are only meant for open-minded, mature adults (at the minimum 18 years or older).

And preferably, if you’re in a relationship or at least have already begun to get physical with your man.

So, if you are comfortable sending seductive messages or wish to get more comfortable, these sexy texts will supply you with some new ideas.

Also, if you see yourself as a shy woman who would like to get more comfortable talking dirty to your man then…

… I recommend you check out Language of Desire by dating coach Felicity Keith.

I’ve reviewed it and can attest that the advice works, it aroused me just reading it, ha, ha.

Moving on…

How can you send…

Sexy Texts: Conversations to Dominate Him, Get Him in the Mood

How often do men bland texts like “Hey” or “What’s up?”.

Take control and shock him.

Watch how aroused he gets.

Plant seductive visuals in his head that make him choke on his lunch.

The most effective sexy texts tease us.

Show him that you can control his emotions against his will.

Make up the situation if you have to.

Dominate him.

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Flirty Texts Response to Instantly Turn Him On

Him: “What’s up babe?”

You: “One moment hon, almost done shaving down there. Got my legs spread wide, just a few more spots left.”

Him: “What?!! Thanks for the visual, now I can’t focus.”

You: “Something happened though. Wait, maybe I shouldn’t tell you. Never mind.”

Him: “Well, now you gotta tell me.”

You: “I accidently touched myself.”

Him: “Yeah? And?”

You: “It happened right before you text me. I sort of liked it. You don’t mind if I finish while we text, do you?”

Revealing you have a secret, then rescinding the details plays with our emotions.

The “Never mind”, drives him nuts and makes him beg you to tell you.

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Innocent Kinky Texts to Spice Up Boring Conversations

After a little back-and-forth, completely change the course of the conversation.

Once again, we will inject vivid visuals to flirt and toy with his feelings against his will to turn him on.

He’ll love it.

The sexual tension will build up inside him because he is stuck at work and can’t do anything about it.

Get super-naughty and take advantage of any situation where he is busy doing something else and has no way of releasing his pent-up desires.

It’s one of the key elements to tease and flirty with him.

You: “Hey, can I ask you a question? I hope you don’t mind.”

Him: “Yeah, what?”

You: “Maybe it’s just me, but it seems really hot in here.”

Him: “Ok, and what about it?”

You: “I want to slip my panties off, cool off a bit and air things out down there. You don’t mind, do you? I promise not to let the neighbors see.”

Him: “No, I don’t want Bob to see you and get turned on.”

You: “Listen it’s really hot in here. Or maybe you could come home and blow on it to cool me down. What do you think about that?”

Him: “Thanks, now I’m super turned on and can’t do anything about it.”

You: “Ok, ok honey. I’ll change the subject. Got one more question before I go. It’s about tonight.”

Him: “Alright, what is it?”

You: “If I rubbed your ‘magic lamp’ down there 3 times… ha, ha … do you think a genie would pop out and grant me 2 more wishes?”

You: “Bye hon, love you, see you tonight!”

Finish with a super flirty and descriptive scenario.

Then end the conversation with him aroused and ready to burst.

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Tease Him with Seductive Texts to Trick Him and Make Him Hard as Iron

(and want to RUSH HOME from work)

Again, you will arouse with visuals and build up his sexual tension.

But this time your sexy texts will set him up for later that night with an erotic invitation.

If he physically cannot come home that night, then you could try a kinky alternative- virtual sex.

Either way, you get your way by dominating him and making him chase and follow your lead.

You: “Sorry to interrupt hon, but I’ve got a problem?”

Him: “What’s wrong babe?”

You: “Figuring out where my panties went. They were on just a second ago. Lol. Hahaha. And all the windows are open. Ha, ha.”

Him: “Great! I hope the neighbors don’t look in!”

You (again): “They might. I think I saw Bill out there doing the lawn. Better come home to save me and help me find them.”

Him: “Honey! Put some clothes on!”

You: “Well, anyway, I was wondering something else.”

Him: “Yeah, what?”

You: “When you’re going to come home and lay on top of my naked spread body.”

Him: “Ugh! So hard now! Better still be naked when I get back!!”

You: “Maybe you should just come home now. Ha, ha. What’s wrong honey? Don’t like me teasing you?”

Summary of Sexy Texts to Arouse Your Man

The best route to sexual seduction involves teasing your man.

Illustrate to him that you know how to toy with his feelings and can arouse him without a moment’s notice.

Take advantage of the situations where he cannot release his sexual tension and has no choice but to get aroused.

Force him to play mind videos of him releasing that sexual tension on you as soon as he gets home.

One of the sexiest turn-ons for us men is to watch how excited you get when we touch you or ram our rock-hard rods inside you.

Nothing is hotter than watching you moan, pant, and beg for more.

Learn to talk dirty in a way that drives your man wild to seduce you back and please you sexually.

Check out Language of Desire by dating coach Felicity Keith to master the art of talking dirty.

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May 28, 2020 by Roaster Rick Leave a Comment

3 Ways to Monetize Your Thank You Page

3 Ways to Monetize Your Thank You Page

If you want simple ways to monetize your blog, then consider utilizing your newsletter subscriber opt-in thank you page.

In this blog post I will show you 5 different thank you page examples to convert affiliate sales.

Up until now you I’d bet you’ve only used your thank you page to just confirm that they subscribed to your newsletter.

Something like this:

Basic Thank You Page NOT Optimized for Monetization

basic thank you page example
Here’s basic thank you page example made with Leadpages.

You miss out on converting affiliate sales because of this or a chance to convert a sale of your own product or even a tripwire sale.

Bottom line you need to change your thank you page ASAP to stop losing money.

Thank You Page Example Optimized for Monetization

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Check out the example above from a Leadpages thank you page template.

Notice how you immediately see the confirmation message that you subscribed to a newsletter and that your free gift (lead magnet) is on its way via email to you.

Then you see the CTA offer to claim your spot on the free webinar. Where, of course, they will present to you a more advanced product or service.

The free webinar by itself offers high-quality content to solve a problem for the subscriber.

The webinar closely relates to the lead magnet, so the subscriber feels satisfied even if they do not purchase.

(Although they will still receive another chance at purchase in one of the follow-up emails- perhaps even offered a discount).

Why Your Thank You Page Can Convert Sales

For one, you have your new subscriber’s attention.

As a general rule, place your CTAs where you know that your visitors will see them.

That’s why display ads above the fold (ie. above or below your header or below your post image) tend to convert the best.

Your visitor’s eyeballs can’t help but focus on those spots.

Plus, in this case, your new subscriber has taken action and is primed to take more.

Visitors who take action are more valuable than ones who do not, especially ones who pay money.

Hence why someone who buys a tripwire product is more likely to buy a main product of yours or the ones who buy main initial products are more likely to purchase upsells.

(Passing through one door brings them one step closer to opening the next).

Makes sense, right?

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3 Thank You Page Examples to Monetize Your Blog

1) [Basic] Thank You Page that Monetizes

I’ll start with a very easy Thank You Page that you can do in minutes.

If you get new subscribers on a daily basis then this could convert an affiliate sale as early as this week or even today. (No guarantees of course).

At the minimum expect clickthroughs to your affiliate sales pages very soon.

This indicates that you’ve at least accomplished the first step in this simple sales funnel.

Here is what you will accomplish in this first kind of monetizing Thank You Page:

  • Confirm your receipt of their email
  • Promise delivery of their free gift/gifts
  • Present your CTA (Call-to-action) to clickthrough to your affiliate product’s sales page

You offer them the chance to go straight from the Thank You Page to your affiliate offer.

Check out my example on my other website InfidelityFirstAidKit.com from the dating and relationship niche.

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Notice the basic elements present on my simple monetizing Thank You Page.

  1. Thank You for Subscribing Headline
  2. Confirmation delivery message
  3. Transition
  4. CTA Headline
  5. CTA Sub-headline
  6. Banner Image
  7. CTA Button
  8. CTA Link

More on Thank You Page Monetization Strategies

Now that you have a successful Thank You Page template to follow, what affiliate products should you recommend?

It will depend on the lead magnet you offer your visitors or the newsletter content.

The more closely your offer aligns with your content the higher the clickthrough rate you should expect.

Plus, the higher the sense of urgency and more clearly the new subscriber understands how the offer solves their problem the higher the clickthrough rate you will see.

Consider these two types of affiliate offers.

Cross-sell

Your affiliate offer complements your lead magnet or email content; it solves a similar but different solution that your new subscriber faces within the same topic

Upsell: your affiliate offer presents a more complete, comprehensive solution with multiple lessons, it dives deeper into the topic

Check out a current example of mine:

Example on One of My Blogs

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Here’s what I offer in the lead magnet.

Top Secret Cheating Spouse Report

  • Simple Techniques to Catch a Cheater
  • Places to where cheaters hide evidence around the house
  • When they hide it
  • How to identify a change in habit predictable routine behavioral patterns to a cheating pattern

Affiliate Offer

A background check with Truthfinder, Insta Checkmate or Been Verified

Upsell

  • Identifies the cheater’s lover through online pics and secret social media profiles

Cross-sell

  • Finding digital evidence of cheating
  • And yet still I could offer a guide how to legally confront a cheater with cheating evidence or how to handle it emotionally

And here are the stats for this thank you page year-to-date as of the end of May 2020.

75% clickthrough to affiliate product video sales page (Yes, that’s an insanely high clickthrough rate)

Just 1% sale conversion but the commission payout is high ($60), likely this product does not align enough with my lead magnet because a) the lead magnet pertains to physical evidence around the house and b) the affiliate product pertains to mostly online evidence

(As I look at this I should align the two better by creating a new lead magnet or I could employ the next thank you page monetization strategy that we will look at).

However, in this example, you do see that my affiliate offer provided my new subscribers both cross-sell and upsell opportunities.

Now let’s look at a more advanced technique to monetize your Thank You Page.

This one could increase your affiliate sales conversions because it offers a clearer picture of how the affiliate offer solves their problems or challenges.

2. Thank You Page with Short [Product Review]

Take it a step further than sending your new subscriber straight from the Thank You Page to your affiliate program’s sales page.

Add a short, scannable review after.

With Leadpages this is easy.

You never know what will work until you test out different methods.

This concept alone suggests that you should try out both and track which one performs better.

If one performs better to convert sales but the other converts more clickthroughs then consider combining both.

Insert multiple CTAs (buttons, text links and image links) and track their performance.

This will tell you:

  • How far down the page visitors scroll
  • And where they typically like to click

Check Out My Sample Page with Review

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Here is my lead magnet offer to entice my subscribers to opt-in to my newsletter.

Text Message Package of 5 Free Gifts

  • How to respond to boring texts from a man and turn the conversation into an exciting flirty exchange
  • Strategies to make a man work to earn a woman’s affection and that puts her in charge
  • Ways to instantly turn him on with simple and easy-to-follow text tricks

Affiliate Offer

Text Chemistry

Upsell

  • More examples of copy-and-paste text conversations than my free gifts offer
  • More videos than my package offers

Cross-sell

  • How to handle yourself when he doesn’t respond or sends strange texts
  • Additional strategies how to flirt and to grab his attention

I just checked my stats for year-to-date (2020) and here are the % of clickthroughs and sales conversations for my two Thank You Pages that I apply this strategy to.

12% clickthrough to affiliate product video sales page

(I noticed that I had an annoying pop up that led to a longer review of Text Chemistry on a blog post. I removed it and this could result in a higher click-through rate to the sales page).

14% sale conversion rate (including upsells)

This is pretty good, the product aligns well with my free lead magnet package.

Again, I created all these thank you pages with Leadpages.

I’ve used this tool for several years now and couldn’t live without it.

My email subscriber growth depends on it.

Try out Leadpages Free 14-day trial.

If you already have a list and want to grow it faster than I highly recommend this easy-to-use, high-quality, efficient tool to increase your opt-in rates.

This is one of my three most used and favorite internet marketing tools and one of two that get me paid.

And before you move onto the next section that provide you more free stuff that increases your odds of converting an affiliate sale check out the template of elements on this short review Thank You Page.

  • Email Reception Confirmation / Gift Delivery to Email Headline
  • Attention-Grabbing Transition to Affiliate Offer Heading
  • Product Image
  • CTA Link or Button to Sales Page
  • Review Headline
  • Product Image
  • CTA to Sales Page Button
  • Top Features Section
  • CTA Link to Sales Page
  • PROs and CONs Section
  • Brief Product Description
  • Captivating and Direct CTA Heading
  • Product Image
  • CTA Button to Sales Page

3. Thank You Page with Free [Bonus] Offer for Affiliate Purchase

This idea is pretty slick!

Here you will create content set aside just for offering a bonus to a subscriber who purchases an affiliate product.

You will explain the details on your Thank You Page.

Then after they purchase you require that they email you a screenshot of proof of purchase.

What do you offer for a bonus?

Any more specific, a package of items or a bigger email eBook.

I offer a package of smaller eBooks, videos and even a practice exercise that I created on Google Forms.

I place all of these items on a page that I create in WordPress and give them access to it. You could even password-protect the page.

Check out the free lead magnet page where new subscribers access their package of free gifts.

Bonus Gifts Access Page

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You can create simple videos with slide shows on PowerPoint or use Canva.com.

I find Canva easier to do this on.

Quite frankly I could not survive without Canva.com. I owe the majority of my traffic to Canva.com with the help of Pinterest.

Check out how it looks in Canva.

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Then I use Screen-O-Matic to create screen shot videos with audio.

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You could add background music or leave it without.

The bonus products must offer value.

They must be high-quality, at least good enough that someone would want to buy them.

Present this offer for the bonuses on your Thank You Page, or just do it at the end of the welcome email series and then randomly run campaigns to offer them.

(That’s how I am doing it now. But I should test out both ways).

Consider sending them special email series that you do not place in your ongoing email queues such as:

  • 3 Text Mistakes that Turn Men Off and Annoy Them
  • 3 Pics to Send Men that Make Them Obsess Over You
  • 3 Dirty Texts that Make You Own Him
  • 3 Flirty Male Mind Hacks that Make Him Want You More Than Ever

In the middle of your series you bring up that you have a special offer in the final email.

To make this approach even more enticing, offer a free download in the final email.

Just take a blog post and turn it into a PDF.

Designrr is inexpensive, just a $27 on-time-payment and does all the work for you.

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That way they get something out of the last email even if they do not decide to take you up on your offer.

Then a reminder email the night before, another the day of and even one hour before the time of the launch.

Run the campaign for only 3 days to create urgency.

Send reminder emails every day and a final notice email to the people who do not buy.

Just expect with this approach that you will get some sales but some unsubscribes.

Any questions on how to do any of these steps? Email me or ask a question in the comment field below.

Filed Under: Affiliate Marketing Tagged With: email marketing, monetize thank you page, thank you page, thank you page examples

May 24, 2020 by Roaster Rick 1 Comment

5 Step Content Creation [Formula] … Fast, Simple, Endless Ideas

5 Step Content Creation [Formula] … Fast, Simple, Endless Ideas

Too much to do, so little time. A bunch of content creation and a zillion other tasks. And you work alone. Ugh!

(Not to mention- try to convert affiliate sales.)

But in this post, I will show you a few simple tricks that I use to create content fast.

And that allows me to literally create content infinitely.

Endless content.

And soon you will too.

It doesn’t matter what kind of content you want to make.

You’ll write endless posts, create endless eBooks, lead magnets, emails to subscribers and…

…you can apply the concept to video creation, slide shows…

…any kind of content!

Who’s This Post Designed For?

New bloggers (30 blog posts or less) looking for ideas to establish habits to create high-quality content efficiently while avoiding writer’s block and to pinpoint their target audience’s needs for each piece of content. | Established bloggers (30+ blog posts/1 year+ blogging) looking for ideas on how to create content that digs deeper and satisfies more unique specific needs of their segmented targeted audiences

5 Steps to Fast Content Creation … an ENDLESS Stream of Ideas

…Posts, Emails, Lead Magnets, eBooks, Online Courses, Video

Endless content creation ideas … forever … endless ideas? | Photo by Juan from Pexels

[Step One] of 5-Step Content Creation

Create High-Level Content Topics within Your Niche

Your content creation strategy will come easy if you start with higher-level terms and then expand into sub-topics.

Build smaller websites within your site.

This step alone will pave the way to create endless interlinking blog posts.

How does this work?

Visual a pyramid.

Place a high-level content topic within your niche at the apex.

Here’s an example from the dating and relationship niche: Text Messages

“Text messages” will make up our main post topic.

In Step Two we will expand to the different kinds of text messages and at more targeted audience.

Always keep SEO in mind, for Step One choose two-word keyword phrases (less competition, more relevant to your niche and topic). Plus, they eliminate filler words called stop words which can lead to extra unrelated search engine results.

(Note: single keywords typically receive too much competition or have multiple meanings nothing related to your niche. ALTHOUGH, single keywords relevant to your niche and with low competition and high-demand are IDEAL- “diamonds in the rough”)

And check out more examples from the dating and relationship niche here:

Two-word Keywords in Dating and Relationship Niche

  • Sex Life
  • Sex Toys
  • Mr. Right
  • Date Night
  • Date Ideas
  • Single Life
  • Married Life
  • Long-Distance Relationship (hyphenated words count as one word)
  • Serial Cheater
  • Cheating Signs
  • Marriage Therapy
  • Relationship Therapy
  • Dating Profiles
  • Romantic Getaways
  • Dating App(s)
  • Sexless Marriage
  • Emotional Affair
  • Sensual Massage
  • Couples Massage
  • Healthy Relationship
  • Toxic Relationship
  • Save Marriage
  • Relationship Conflict
  • Subliminal Seduction
  • Seduction Stories
  • Sexual Addiction
  • Conversation Starters
  • Pick-up Lines
  • Seductive Lingerie
  • Sexy Comments
  • Keto Diet
  • Romantic Getaways
  • Sexy Lingerie
  • Marriage Separation
  • Hand-held Massager
  • Electric Massager
  • Massage Oils
  • Sensual Oils
  • Portable Massager
  • Boyfriend Gifts
  • Wife Gifts
  • Husband Gifts
  • Romantic Notes
  • Romantic Gifts
  • Romantic Compliments
  • Romantic Phrases
  • Romantic Kiss
  • French Kiss

[Step Two] of 5-Step Content Creation

Sub-Niche Content Ideas: Dig Deeper

5 Step Content Creation Formula for relationship bloggers

Next, we will expand on Step One and link to sub-topic blog posts that link back to and support the high-level content.

Plus, we will target a more specific audience with the headline.

That way we attract ONLY the people who we want to read the post.

(Why would you want men to visit a post when you promote affiliate products designed for women?)

In the example from Step One we took “text messages” (or just texts).

Now let’s dig deeper.

What kind of text messages?

Simply add a category of text message at the beginning.

Choose adjectives or occasions.

Run the keyword research on it first, to make sure it makes sense to write an entire post on them.

Check out this list of examples below.

Three-word Keywords in Dating and Relationship Niche

  • Romantic Text Messages
  • Erotic Text Messages
  • Cute Text Messages
  • Emotional Text Messages
  • Funny Text Messages
  • Good Morning Text Messages
  • Good Night Text Messages
  • Flirty Text Messages
  • Sexy Text Messages
  • First Text Message

What about other content ideas from the dating and relationship niche?

Remember, look for three-word keyword phrases:

Other Three-word Keywords in Dating and Relationship Niche

  • Marriage Money Management
  • Inexpensive Date Nights
  • Virtual Date Night Ideas
  • First Date Ideas
  • Summer Date Ideas
  • Cheap Summer Date Ideas
  • Romantic Weekend Getaways
  • Cheap Weekend Getaways
  • Cheap Romantic Weekend Getaways
  • Valentine’s Day Gifts
  • Valentine’s Day Gift Ideas
  • Male Dating Profile Tips
  • Male Dating Profile Examples
  • Female Dating Profile Examples
  • Relationship Red Flags
  • Marriage Therapy Advice
  • Professional Marriage Therapy Advice
  • Relationship Conflict Resolution
  • Marriage Therapy Online
  • Marriage Separation Advice
  • Legal Divorce Advice
  • Dating App Reviews
  • Free Dating Apps
  • Dating Younger Men
  • Dating Younger Men Tips
  • Dating Younger Men Stories
  • Save Christian Marriage
  • Find Mr. Right
  • Male Subliminal Seduction
  • First-Date Conversation Starters
  • Male Conversation Starters
  • Male Pick-up Lines
  • Spanish Flirty Comments
  • Cheating Husband Signs
  • Catch Cheating Husband
  • Catch Cheating Partner
  • Keto Diet Snacks
  • Keto Diet Dinner Recipes
  • Black Seductive Lingerie
  • Black Satin Lingerie
  • Sexy Lace Lingerie
  • Sexy Satin Lingerie
  • Sensual Massage Oils
  • Sensual Massage Oil Reviews
  • Tantra Sensual Massage
  • Electric Massager Reviews
  • Personal Massager Gifts
  • Electric Massager Gift Ideas
  • Portable Massage Chairs
  • Christian Dating App
  • Christian Dating Sites
  • Christian Dating App Reviews
  • Christian Dating App Stories
  • Christian Sex Life
  • Christian Dating Advice
  • Married Sex Life
  • Bondage Sex Toys
  • Boost Sex Life
  • Emotionally Distant Man
  • Emotionally Distant Husband

Not only does this list of content ideas focus on deeper targeted topics, but I optimized them to help promote affiliate products.

Let’s take it one step deeper by choosing a more specific target audience.

We will do this by adding a sub-heading and combining it to the main heading.

The Co-schedule Headline Analyzer suggests that 9 words makes the perfect length.

Why?

They won’t fit within search engine results.

How Effective is Your Headline? (Test it with Co-Schedule=>)

Insert your headline. Get a score.https://coschedule.com/headline-analyzer

(Run your headlines in the Co-schedule Headline Analyzer to check out if they pass the test).

Who do you want to target?

What emotional benefit do they want to experience?

Consider adding a time frame to create a sense of urgency and excitement.

Check out these possibilities with “text messages”:

Target Audience Sub-Heading Examples

  • Romantic Text Messages to Melt His Heart
  • Sweet Love Text Messages to Make His Heart Pound
  • Erotic Texts to Turn Him on at the Office
  • Good Night Texts to Make Him Dream about You
  • Good Morning Texts to Make Him Miss You All Day
  • Flirty Texts to Make Him Want to See You TODAY

Who’s the target audience?

Women dating or meeting men who they want to get the upper-hand with and win his heart.

Or women in relationships who want their men to show them more appreciation.

Target audience is more than just age, sex, income, location.

A major factor are their WANTS, NEEDS and FEARS.

Let’s compress that and summarize that down to one word: MOTIVATION.

Running a newsletter, asking your subscribers questions, inserting polls into your blog posts, sending out surveys, replying to your emails to help and ask your subscribers questions allows you to better understand their WANTS, NEEDS and FEARS.

The sub-headings provide a more compelling and enticing reason to click-through to read the blog posts, don’t you agree?

Now let’s check out some other sub-heading ideas that include “MOTIVATION”.

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  • 10 Romantic Spa Resorts in the US for Romantic Getaways

Target Audience and Motivation in Dating and Relationship Examples

  • First Date Ideas that Lead to Second Dates
  • Man Cave Valentine’s Day Gifts for Men
  • Relationship Red Flags of Philanderers You Might Ignore
  • Top Marriage Therapy Online Services for Affair Recovery
  • Dating Younger Men Tips for Fun on Dating Apps
  • Sexy Texts to Send Younger Men that Seduce Them
  • Top Dating Apps for Women in 40s, 50s Review
  • Top Dating Apps for Single Divorced Moms Review
  • Best Christian Dating Apps Review for Women in 30s
  • Top Christian Sex Positions and Erotic Phrases
  • Places and Tips to Find Mr. Right Every Day IRL
  • Tips to Boost Sex Life with Your Sexually-Inactive Wife
  • Ways to Boost Sex Life with Your Emotionally-Distant Husband
  • Top Tantra Sensual Massage Video Series Review
  • Flirty Spanish Text Messages to Turn on Latina Lovers
  • Ways that Helped Me Catch My Cheating Spouse
  • Tips to Catch Your Cheating Spouse in One Week
  • Top Portable Massager Gifts for Wives or GFs Review

Notice all of these contain a specific target audience and in some cases a motivation.

ALL are optimized to promote affiliate products.

[Step Three] of 5-Step Content Creation

Re-purpose Content: How to Turn One Piece of Content into 10+

5 Step Content Creation Formula for Relationship Bloggers

Tired of writing and writing and starting over?

This section is for you.

You probably have heard the term repurpose content.

If not, if refers to taking one piece of content, for example, a blog post, and turning it into another piece of content, for example, an eBook lead magnet.

You can do this on an “as-is” basis, or make some adjustments.

I’ve done both.

And if you’re looking for one of the easiest ways to turn a blog post into an eBook then check out Designrr.com.

I created an eBook (including cover) within minutes from one of my epic long blog posts on how to create text messages that get men to chase.

Click here for more information on Designerr.

Repurposing gives you a fast and efficient way to repackage ANY piece of your content.

No single subscriber or visitor will ever read ALL of your content.

And new content becomes old anyway.

So, why not turn your list posts into email series, your emails series to eBooks or video slide shows, email series into mini-online courses or even assemble packages of digital products bonus products then offer them in exchange for the purchase of affiliate products through your affiliate links.

Check out my instructional post how to create and assemble packages of products to promote the purchase of affiliate products through your links.

Start a podcast.

And if you do not wish to write all your own content.

Then consider hiring someone from the popular blogger and internet marketer site Fiverr.com to write one post for you (as in starting at $5 per project).

Check out Fiverr.com here

[Step Four] of 5-Step Content Creation

How ONE Blog Post Turns into 11

5 Step Content Creation Formula for Relationship Bloggers

Just like the rest of the ideas on the rest of this blog post, these content creation ideas are super simple.

Nothing complicated.

Combine Steps One and Two.

Create a list of at least 10 brainstormed headlines for Step One.

(Remember to conduct keyword research on them first).

Choose the best one.

Then brainstorm a list of around 20 sub-topics.

Choose the top ten.

Then create an outline of them all.

Now follow these steps:

5 Steps to Turn One Blog Post into Eleven

1) Make each sub-topic post into a numbered point on the main list post (I’ll show you an example in a moment).

2) Fill in each section with a brief description with no more than 3-5 sample texts

3) Write a captivating and compelling introduction.

4) Then a summary with CTA (sign up for your newsletter or purchase an affiliate product)

5) Finally, turn each sub-topic into its own blog post. Use the same examples that you used on the main post and then add more (at least 10 total).

Now you have your mini-website that I describe in the first two steps above.

Check out how the outline would look with my text message post examples from Steps One and Two.

10 Text Messages to Turn Men On and Make Them Chase (Main Post)

  1. Romantic Text Messages to Melt His Heart
  2. Sweet Love Text Messages to Make His Heart Pound
  3. Erotic Texts to Turn Him on at the Office
  4. Good Night Texts to Make Him Dream about You
  5. Good Morning Texts to Make Him Miss You All Day
  6. Flirty Texts to Make Him Want to See You TODAY
  7. First Text Message to Send Guy You Just Met
  8. Cute Text Messages to Make Him Blush
  9. Emotional Text Messages to Connect with Him
  10. Funny Text Messages to Break Up the Boring Routine

Then each of the numbered posts here become their own post.

A pretty simple content creation idea, right?

And now onto the most efficient and easiest one.

[Step Five] of 5-Step Content Creation

Fast Content Creation with Guest Posting (and make money doing it)

5 Step Content Creation Formula for Relationship Bloggers

Get other bloggers to write them for you on your own blog.

This creates a win-win for both of you.

It gives them backlinks to their site.

A chance to grow their email subscriber list.

And you could even offer to split affiliate sale commissions.

Just track the sales on a spreadsheet using trackable links and then pay them via Paypal or Payoneer.

How do you find others to guest blog for you?

How do you contact them?

Who makes an ideal guest blogger?

And how do you convince them?

Here are the two ways I have found and contacted others to guest blog for me.

1) Tapped into a social media community. For me, that’s currently Pinterest.

2) Emailed them from their contact page.

It’s quite simple, but I will share with you the details in a moment how to do this in a moment.

Who Makes the IDEAL Guest Blogger?

I don’t always follow these rules because sometimes I just want to help new bloggers get ahead.

Follow this checklist of items:

They have a following to which they could promote the blog post. This will bring extra traffic to the post.

Ideally look for someone who has a substantial amount of social media followers, traffic and/or email subscribers or subscribers to their blog.

In my case, I’d search for someone who has:

  • 1K+ Pinterest followers
  • 150K+ monthly Pinterest viewers
  • 1K+ email subscribers
  • 10K+ blog pageviews
  • 5K+ unique monthly visitors
  • They’ve written similar content to what I want for my guest blog posts

You can find the Pinterest stats on their profile, the rest you’d have to ask them for.

Don’t over think these numbers.

Remember, some new bloggers will grow them to much bigger numbers later.

And since you helped them early on, they’re likely to return the favor later or collaborate on future projects

How to Reach Out and Convince Them

Reaching out won’t suffice.

Any idea how many times other bloggers have reached out to me for guest posts?

A bunch.

But did I agree to do them?

No.

In fact, I didn’t even respond to most of them.

Why?

Because they sounded like sales pitches.

They wanted to put their affiliate links and then send me garbage posts.

You could tell that they just copy-and-pasted the same message to me and everyone else.

Don’t do what these spammy bloggers do.

Of course, in your case you will reach out to others to post on your blog but the concept remains the same.

Show value to the blog owner, show that you wish to create a mutually beneficial collaboration.

Follow these steps I’ve personally done:

1) Research their Content

Only reach out to bloggers who have written content that aligns with the topics for upcoming blog posts.

To simplify this and do it fast just sift through Pinterest Boards and Pins. Check your fellow contributors on Group Board, people you follow or conduct searches with the keywords you plan to use.

2) Compliment them

Leave a compliment on their Pin with their name and on something specific you read on their post. And comment on your interest to invite them to do a guest post with you.

Find their name either in their Pinterest profile or on their About Me page on their blog.

Here is an example of a personalized compliment to leave on their Pin.

(Example: Sue great post and Pin. Thank you for writing this! I totally agree with #3 (the name of the sub-heading from the post) of your post. (Insert brief recap of what she wrote and why you agree). I have an idea for a guest post to do on my blog. I sent you the details via email. Thank you again!

3) Message them through Multiple Contact Points

Message them through Pinterest of your interest to do a guest post and then email them via their blog contact page.

Why message them in so many places?

Because every one has their preferred method of contact.

They may not see just the message from Pinterest or their email.

4) Email them

Preferably send the email before you message them in case they check for it before you actually send it.

Keep it brief.

Then offer a few topic ideas and then ask them to reply for more details if they’re interested.

No point of saying anything more yet until they show interest.

Then if they respond and ask for more details send the post guidelines.

The Second Email: Guest Post Guidelines

Now that they’ve show interest and want the details you must not just settle for whatever they send you.

And you certainly do not want them to send copied posts from someone else.

Check out the guidelines list I’ve sent.

Guest Post Guideline (Example)

Title

(Include focus keyword phrase in title)

Focus Keyword Phrase

(two-word or three-word keyword phrase) like mentioned in Step Two

Other Keywords to Include

(add 3-5 other keyword phrases for SEO purposes; two-word phrases, three-word phrases and long-tail phrases)

Length

(total word count)

Keyword Density

1/2 percent of all words in post

Target Audience

(Get specific, but include more than sex and age range, most importantly include DESIRES, FEARS, WANTS, CHALLENGES that the typical reader of this planned guest post goes through)

# of Subheadings

3-5 H2 subheadings plus you can include 3-5 H3 if it helps break up your body sections

Style

(Conversational, speak directly to the viewer as if you were sitting across the table from ONE person, speak in second person (you), not third person (he, she, they))

Format:

(No bulky paragraphs, just like how I write my emails to you, with white space, preferably one line then space but no more than 2 lines together, shorter sentences, preferably no longer than 25 words, but some should be as short as 3-5 words- it’s more conversational that way, blog formatting is not the same as a print formatting, people’s attention spans are MUCH shorter and the always have the temptation to click away and look elsewhere for answers)

Value Proposition

(Identify the challenge/problem (internal emotions and feelings), provide a solution (the emotions and feelings they want to experience), you can provide the solution immediately after stating the challenge, or at the end of the post)

Other Suggestions

(Focus on the target audience of this particular piece of content first, the topic second because the topic is interpreted differently depending on the specific audience)

Original Content

(Write the content yourself and do not use something that has already been published online ANYWHERE)

To make this easy also consider this next suggestion.

“Write for Me”: Guest Post Guidelines

Create a “Write for Me” page and include your guest post guidelines there.

In fact, once you get enough traffic and/or followers, again:

  • 1K+ Pinterest followers
  • 150K+ monthly Pinterest viewers
  • 1K+ email subscribers
  • 10K+ blog pageviews
  • 5K+ unique monthly visitors
  • They’ve written similar content to what I want for my guest blog posts

Then you could charge for guest posts.

To choose a price research what fellow bloggers within your social media circle to see what other bloggers with similar stats ask for.

Any Questions about Fast, Endless Content Creation Ideas?

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January 29, 2020 by Roaster Rick 2 Comments

5 Fast Ways to Affiliate Sales for Relationship Blogs

5 Fast Ways to Affiliate Sales for Relationship Blogs

1. Affiliate Product Review Page

The affiliate product review page is a must on your blog if you want to make affiliate sales.

It is the most important money-making page on auto pilot of your entire blog.

Why?

It targets people already looking to buy a specific product.

Check out the screen shot of one of my review posts below.

I once made an affiliate sale in 9 days after publishing an affiliate product review page on a blog that received less than 10 daily views (the entire blog).

You’ve seen product reviews, perhaps you’ve even purchased products from them. 

Your affiliate product review breaks down the components of the products you promote such as:

  • eBooks
  • Video course
  • 1-on-1 coaching course
  • Amazon products (Valentine’s gifts, for example)

The choice of which components varies (features, benefits, target audience) and so do your opinion sections (PROs, CONs, your likes, dislikes, areas of improvement).

Why Affiliate Product Review Pages Make Affiliate Sales

Your visitors want an inside peek before buying. Think of this like a taste-test at the grocery store or picking up the puppy at the animal shelter or pet shop.

Earn their trust with your opinions, especially what you do not like about the product (what it lacks, which alternate products you like, how to improve it). It makes you look honest and authentic. You earn your visitor’s trust this way by looking like a consultant, not a salesperson.

Advanced Reason It Converts

Most of your visitors who land on an affiliate product review page are in a buying frame of mind. They’ve gone through the majority of the buying cycle. 

Your posts educate them (identify problem, provide a solution) but your affiliate product review page recommends the tool that solves the problem.

It’s your call-to-action (CTA).

You visitors will arrive to this page in different ways:

  • Link from your newsletter emails
  • Links from your educative posts
  • Directly from Pinterest
  • Related posts widgets in other posts
  • Paid ads (Google AdWords, Bing Ads, Pinterest Ads, solo ads- paid ads on other bloggers blogs or newsletters, etc.)
  • SEO (searches from Google, Bing and other search engines)

Not all the traffic converts at the same rate.

Why not?

Because each targets a different consumer mindset.

A person who chooses to click on an ad or a search result most likely was looking for a review of that particular product.

In other words, they were considering purchasing before landing on your page.

The other paths mentioned above that lead to your affiliate products review pages work too, but require being led by the hand through the buying cycle. 

You want to become their entrusted source of helpful recommendations. Therefore, your newsletter emails must display your unique brandable style of advice and way of packaging useful information that they want in order for them to trust paying for an affiliate recommendation (or your own products).

Q & A Affiliate Product Review Pages

“Do you I need to personally use the product to promote it?”

No, but you should at least inspect it and “package” your observations in way that illustrates how it can solve your visitor’s problems.

“Can I make affiliate sales with low levels of traffic?”

Yes, I have made affiliate sales with less than daily 10 views (not even visitors) on one of my blogs (the entire blog).

I started to make regular monthly affiliate sales after I passed 100 unique visitors a month. Which with the help of Pinterest and Tailwind can happen quickly (most likely within 1 – 3 months).

“Can I get affiliate products for free to review?”

Yes, contact the affiliate manager. Find their contact information within the affiliate dashboard or affiliate sign up page.

I’ve had to purchase a few because the affiliate manager did not respond to my request.

“What if I don’t find an affiliate product that I like?”

I highly suggest creating your own products to solve your visitors’ problems that affiliate products do not. This helps you brand your unique style of providing advice.

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2. Affiliate Recommendation on Thank You Page

You can convert a few extra sales a month just by adding an affiliate offer on your newsletter Thank You pages.

Another ideal place to promote your affiliate product is on the thank you confirmation page after a subscriber opts-in to your newsletter.

Right underneath the message that thanks them and explains how they can access their free gift (your lead magnet).

Here’s a pic of one of mine from my blog InfidelityFirstAidKit.com

Options

Try different methods to see which one converts the best or whichever you prefer that involves the least amount of time investment (preferably something you can reuse or repurpose).

The one above happens to be the fastest to implement. You could complete everything in minutes.

It’s the first method I recommend on this list below.

Headline-Image-CTA Link to Affiliate Sales Page

The image above shows you that I simply added a banner image of the product and linked straight to the affiliate’s sales page. (I got the image from the product’s affiliate dashboard).

I make a few affiliate sales a month for each product I represent. It’s quick and simple to add to your “Thank You” pages.

And you can make sales very soon, possibly even today.

Short, Simple Review 

 

Adding a review of an affiliate product on your Thank You pages could convert sales if the visitor is unfamiliar with the product.

Here you could add a short review in text form right on the Thank You page below a call-to action headline.

Still add a product image and a CTA button that links to your affiliate product sales page.

Video Review

Create a video review of your affiliate product. This creates a connection between you and your audience because they see you talking.

Instead of a text formatted review you could do a short video instead (7-10 minutes maximum).

A simple way to do this is to create slides with PowerPoint or Canva.com.

Each slide could display a section from your text formatted review.

I prefer to use a presentation mode on Canva.com because it’s simpler.

Then you could use a screen recorder for the video. I have used both PowerPoint and Screen-O-Matic. I prefer Screen-O-Matic because it’s simple to use, inexpensive and you can record up to 30 minutes on its most basic subscription plan.

I’ve also used Jing’s free version to do screen recordings but it only allows you to record 5 minutes. (This is changing sometime soon to a new tool in early 2020).

Or instead of creating a short review directly on the Thank You Page link to your more in-depth affiliate product review page.

Why Thank You Pages Convert Affiliate Sales

Visitors who subscribe to your newsletter are telling you that they like your style of advice.

They have taken action and voluntarily given you their contact information.

And the fact that they’ve taken action to seek information to solve a specific problem they are likely to take more action right now in the moment while they are in the mood.

Now, more than ever, is the perfect time to align them with a more advanced tool (your affiliate product recommendation).

They want to solve their problem sooner than later.

Q & A Affiliate Recommendations on Thank You Pages

I don’t have a newsletter yet. Can I still do this method?

Yes, you can still offer a free gift, called a lead magnet. Make a simple PDF (eBook, checklist, list post saved as a PDF) or video (embedded on a designated page).

Place your affiliate links within the PDF or page where you embed a video.

After someone opts-in to your newsletter redirect to the Thank You Page.

Technically you do not need a newsletter to offer a free gift that in turn goes to a Thank You Page…

HOWEVER, you should.

And with that you will need an email service provider to collect the email addresses.

Later you can send emails to invite your subscribers to visit your blog posts or promote other affiliate offers.

You will make more sales with a newsletter because you have more opportunities to earn their trust to recommend products.

I use the paid-for version Mailchimp for my email service provider which allows me to send automated emails.

But you can use the free version to use for your first 2,000 subscribers.

It will take you a while to get to 2,000, so this is a good option.

What’s the best email service provider?

I use the paid-for version Mailchimp for my email service provider which allows me to send automated emails.

But you can use the free version to use for your first 2,000 subscribers.

It will take you a while to get to 2,000, so this is a good option.

How do you make a Thank You Page?

I use one of the most known landing page creators Leadpages.net

You can use Mailchimp to create Newsletter Opt-In Pages and Thank You Pages too.

However, Leadpages is easier to use and creates more attractive pages that will convert better.

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3. Problem-Solution Posts

Essentially, everyone who comes to your blog looks a solution to problem, not for entertain purposes.

The earlier in the buying cycle a visitor finds themselves the more likely they still need to identify the exact problem they face before looking the solution.

They might know something is not working, but don’t know exactly what is wrong.

Therefore, you can create blog posts that help someone pinpoint what the problem is that ails them and prevents them getting what they want.

The more specific the better because it shows that you understand their pain on a deeper level and they will more likely trust your advice.

Check out these examples from the relationship niche.

Identify the Problem (in question form)

This is the pain that your visitor or subscriber feels.

Here are some of the questions your target audience may ask themselves in the relationship niche.

  • “Why does he or she not text me first?”
  • “What kinds of texts can I send to get him to flirt with me?”
  • “How do I know that the guy I am dating wants to an exclusive relationship with me or just wants companionship?”
  • “What is a flirty way to respond to a guy who messages me from a dating app that will show him that I’m interested without looking desperate?”
  • “How can I flirt with a guy a work while keeping remaining professional?”
  • “How can I get the guy at work to ask me out?”
  • “How can I figure out if the guy I am dating is cheating?”
  • “How can I get my man to open up, express his feelings and thus feel emotionally closer to him?”
  • “What is some flirty body language to show I am interested, get his attention and the courage to talk to me?”

This list could go on for an eternity and the better you get at identifying specific fears without generalizing the more trust you earn.

Trust allows you to ask your visitors and subscribers to take action (subscribe to other newsletters, purchase).

And from these questions that your target audience asks themselves you could create blog posts that explain why these problems happen.

Here are some sample ideas for problem-identifying blog posts:

  • 10 Reasons He Doesn’t Text First
  • 10 Reasons He Sends Serious Texts and NOT Flirty Ones
  • 10 Text Message Signs I’m Stuck in His Friend Zone
  • 10 Desperate Dating App Messages that Turn Him Off
  • 10 Unprofessional Ways to Flirt with Him at Work
  • 10 Reasons He Thinks You Do NOT Like Him
  • 10 Commitment Fears that Prevent Him from Moving Forward
  • 10 Cold Body Language Signs that Scare Him Away

You see how specific they get?

Dig deep into the problem.

Provide the Solution

Check out the examples below that solve the above problems.

You can put these solutions into your blog posts.

Either in the same problem-identifying posts at the bottom after you examine the details of the problem.

Such as in these examples:

  • 10 Reasons He Doesn’t Text First … (and change that to get him to fear losing you)
  • 10 Reasons He Sends Serious Texts and NOT Flirty Ones … (and how to turn the tables and get him to chase
  • 10 Text Message Signs I’m Stuck in His Friend Zone … (and how to escape, turn him on and chase)
  • 10 Desperate Dating App Messages that Turn Him Off … (and 10 strategic flirty ones that make him think about you all day)
  • 10 Unprofessional Ways to Flirt with Him at Work … (and 10 irresistibly flirt, yet professional ways that get you a date this week)
  • 10 Reasons He Thinks You Do NOT Like Him … (and 10 ways to show him you do without looking desperate and to make him chase)
  • 10 Commitment Fears that Prevent Him from Moving Forward … (and how ease those fears for him and get him to need you)
  • 10 Cold Body Language Signs that Scare Him Away … (and how to get him to approach and even ask you out)

Note: Do not place the specific extension headings that I put in parentheses in your blog post titles because they will make the title too long.

Thus, no one will see them in search engine results or even in Pinterest Pins.

Instead place them in the blog post or Pin descriptions.

Separate Solution Posts

Or instead of putting the solutions and problems in the same blog posts you could create separate posts in which to place the solutions.

The visitors who have identified the problem already would prefer to go straight to the solution. They may not click-through to a post that discusses the problem, but would instead choose to read a post that promises a solution.

Recommend the Tool

After you share the strategies that work to get your visitors what they want, then you can recommend affiliate products that will show them step-by-step how to do it.

The model for this follows a simple path.

Your blog post identifies “The What’s Wrong” è then shows them “The What They Need to Fix It” è then finally the “How to Fix It Step-by-Step” (this is your affiliate product recommendation).

Why Problem-Solution Posts Make Affiliate Sales

Simply, you’re ending the visitor’s pain.

You’re giving them what they want.

You lead them straight down the path to what they set out to find when they hopped on the internet to begin with.

The visitor cannot resist the value proposition that your headline promises.

From one step to the next you take them by the hand down the path to the final step: the affiliate recommendation.

And there’s really no commitment to scare anyone off- they only have to read.

Hopefully you’ve created many of these posts already and either just need to add the affiliate recommendations or just the solutions.

You might have to create brand new posts, though.

Which means this will take more work then just adjusting your Thank You Pages but still less work than creating an entire sales funnels with numerous emails.

Q & A Problem-Solution Posts

“Should all my non-review posts be problem-solution posts?”

It depends.

How much times and energy do you have to create content?

If you have gone a long time working on your blog creating content and not converting affiliate sales then you should focus just on money-making posts.

Review posts and problem solution posts are two of a few of those money-making posts.

“Is there a formula to make my posts more specific?”

Yes.

Think of these key specificity factors:

  • Who is the post for, who would benefit most from reading it?
  • Single women?
  • Married?
  • In there 20s, 30s, 40s, etc.?
  • Divorced?
  • Busy and independent?
  • Getting over a break up?
  • Been single a few months, a few years, many years?
  • Never been in a relationship?
  • Shy?
  • Only meets people online?
  • Overconfident?
  • Does it define the problem?
  • (optional) Does it promise a solution and define it?
  • How soon does your value proposition solve their problem?
  • Is there an affiliate program that aligns with your solution?

Just keep asking questions until you answer all of them or at least all except the time frame.

“What do I do if I don’t see an affiliate program that I like?”

For the sake of making affiliate sales with your blog, you should first look for the affiliate program that you believe in before creating any content.

If you’ve already created a bunch of posts and lead magnets then cross sell any affiliate program that is good enough.

Example

Let’s say you feel competent teaching mid-life women in their 30s-50s, divorced or who’ve spent a long time single how to create the ideal dating profile to meet relationship-minded men in similar circumstances.

You could still cross sell eBooks and dating coaching services that help them understand men’s relationship fears and needs.

Plus, you could promote text men products, since virtually texting men you just met through a dating app is about the same as someone you met in person.

Also remember you could evaluate your favorite dating apps or website and break down their PROs and CONs.

Then again you could create your own eBook for sale.

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4. Problem Post => Lead Magnet Solution

(preferably use an existing LM or repurpose a blog post)

Again, hopefully you’ve already created this content.

Then you can implement this money-making method today.

This method is very similar to the previous one except that you propose the solution in a lead magnet.

Honestly, this is better because you will make more money with an email subscriber list since you can warm them up and earn their trust.

Plus, you can go more in-depth with your lead magnet and thus earn the new subscriber’s trust more easily.

Place your affiliate links inside the lead magnet or on the lead magnet access page.

Place the newsletter opt-in link or box at least twice on the blog post.

Once high up in the top third and the other at the bottom.

Here’s how it will all look.

Blog Post ->the “What” Identifies the Problem

Lead Magnet-> Promises to Deliver the “What You Need to Fix It”

Affiliate Recommendation in Lead Magnet-> Promises the “How to Fix It Step-by-Step”

Why the Problem Post => Lead Magnet Solution Method Makes Affiliate Sales

This gives the visitors who are most serious about solving their problem and relieving themselves of the pain the opportunity to stand out from the rest.

Offering a lead magnet gives them an action to take and visitors who take action are valuable in identifying better candidates to sell to. Not as valuable as paying visitors, of course, but more on that later.

Plus, offering a free gift creates goodwill.

And the more specific a lead magnet solves your visitor’s problem the more likely they will trust taking your advice.

It also creates mystery and increases desire and the value of the lead magnet since it requires action to receive it.

Q & A Problem Post => Lead Magnet Solution

“Is it a good idea to convert a solution post I already have on my blog into a lead magnet?

Yes.

In fact, it is a phenomenal idea because it is super simple to copy and paste it and then save it as a PDF.

The more efficient the better.

Do not assume that all your visitors will visit all of your blog posts, even your subscribers who read more than the average visitor.

I have repurposed many of my blog posts into lead magnets and gotten many visitors to opt into them.

However, keep in mind that you do want to reserve some of your content exclusively just for your subscribers (and make sure they know that it’s exclusive).

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The best method comes next and you can combine it with all the other methods.

5. Offer Bonuses (Highest-Converting Method)

Rarely can you get the best results with a relatively low amount of work in the usually time-consuming world of blogging.

But I present to you the best one.

Offer bonuses to tip the scales and incentivize your subscribers and visitors to purchase an affiliate product through you.

What Can You Offer as Bonuses?

While you could offer digital Amazon gift cards, other gift cards, discount coupon codes (if the affiliate program offers them) or even cash back rebates (if the affiliate program allows it).

However, you could create extra lead magnets instead.

But instead of using them to obtain newsletter subscribers set them aside exclusively as bonuses for the purpose of affiliate products (through your links of course).

Here are some ideas:

  • Repurpose existing posts
  • Videos of existing posts or lead magnets
  • Q and A Sessions
  • Interviews of other dating or relationship bloggers or coaches who specialize in an area that you don’t
  • Package lead magnets (a combination of videos, PDFs, survey results, interactive quizzes, MP3s, slide shows, etc.)

The more that you stick around in the blogging world and take courses to advance your experience level you naturally find more ideas and get more creative.

Watch this video of a sample affiliate bonus package page I have.

Simplest Ways to Offer Bonuses in Exchange for Affiliate Product Purchases

You need proof that your visitor (or subscriber) actually made the purchase.

Here are a couple ways to do it:

  • Ask them to forward you the purchase confirmation email that includes their name and purchase ID number.
  • Ask them to send you an email with their name and the purchase ID number.

With their name and the product purchase number, you could check your affiliate dashboard if it matches up with the information, they sent you.

Why Offering Bonuses Helps You Make Affiliate Sales

Visitors and subscribers can purchase the affiliate products you recommend from anyone and at any time.

You will make many affiliate sales from the above-mentioned methods because some people want to end their pain now.

They’re impatient.

However, you could combine the above methods and convert more by giving them a reason to purchase with you by offering them bonuses.

Make sure that your bonuses add value to the affiliate product or fills in a gap that the affiliate product does not solve.

Affiliate Product Review Pages Q & A

“Where can you offer bonuses for an affiliate product purchase?”

  • On TY page or link to bonus page from review page
  • On a separate landing page

“What if I don’t have many lead magnets to set aside for bonuses?”

You can easily convert solution blog posts into PDFs or create slide shows that you then screen record into videos.

“What other ideas for bonuses convert well?”

Bonus packages that teach your lessons through a variety of formats (videos, PDFs, survey results, interactive quizzes, MP3s, slide shows, etc.)

“Can you show me how to do it?”

Yes.

[Click here] to check out my more in-depth post how to offer bonuses in exchange for affiliate product purchases.

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Summary: Fast Ways to Make Affiliate Sales with Your Relationship Blog

STOP creating so much content and giving it away for free!

Set aside some content to help you make affiliate sales.

Focus on money-making efforts using the content you already have.

Or start focusing your time on content that you can point your subscribers and visitors to today and regularly to in the future time and time again.

TODAY you must start focusing on sales funnels.

Take advantage of these simple and easy-to-do methods to make affiliate sales fast.

I’ve been using these methods for years to make affiliate sales every month.

Please contact me with any questions.

I want you to stop losing time and energy and start making money right now!

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